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I'm 5'4. In 8th grade, was 4'8. My girlfriend was 5'3. Not because I liked taller girls, but because ALL the girls back then were taller than me. Hell, this 3rd grade girl was taller than me. So I had no choice, and height meant nothing.
With that, short dudes are conditioned to not care how tall a woman is. To a guy who was 5'6-5'7 in 8th grade, he may feel weird if a girl is taller than him back then.
But...for me, I realized that in HS, most tall girls were NOT dealing with me, and saw me as the "awwww you're my cute little brother" type thing. Even my girlfriend in 8th grade was ashamed of me being so short. I heard her on the phone with her best friend, as I played ghost mode...she kept saying "yeah of course I like him a whole lot, but............he's 4'8!!!"
So I had a long ass streak of ONLY talking to short girls, and maybe those 1-2 inches taller. Especially in college, I never even attempted hollering at most taller girls. And I had tall ones then tell me the whole "you're too short" thing, even if only an inch taller.
BUT....I'm 30 now. And maybe two years ago, I really thought about it...and realized that 70% of the women I've been with sexually are taller than me. And I wondered, maybe I should have kept going at the taller ones? Even though I'm at least the same height or taller than like 40% of y'all.
Anyways...at this point...I've been completely rejected by girls who were 5'1 and told me they HATE short guys. And then, I've got major play from several 5'8-5'9 women, including a few right now. Some told me that I'M the one trippin on height, because they don't care at all.
So yeah. All that shit. It's in our conditioning.
And BTW, the ex girl from 8th grade is STILL 5'3, and I could get with her today if I wanted. ------------------------------
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