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SimplyHannah
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"Fixing your able bodied man a plate..."


  

          

Why is this a thing? Or is it mostly a southern thing? Men do you expect your significant other to make you a plate? Women is this something that you've been taught? Lol

  

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*checks calendar* yep, right on time.
May 19th 2015
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lol
May 19th 2015
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mmmhhhhhm
May 19th 2015
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lol
May 19th 2015
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Here we god damned go again
May 19th 2015
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Im just asking a question lol
May 19th 2015
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RE: LMAO
May 19th 2015
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crine!
May 19th 2015
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Nice loaded subject title
May 19th 2015
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it's cute.
May 19th 2015
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I can dig it
May 19th 2015
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I agree
May 19th 2015
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well-said
May 20th 2015
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not quite the same thing, lol...
May 21st 2015
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      Fuck whatever your bitch ass has to say about anything, ho.
May 21st 2015
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           #IJS
May 21st 2015
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                Fuck whatever your bitch ass has to say about anything, ho.
May 21st 2015
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It's a complete non-issue...
May 19th 2015
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Any chick that voluntarily makes another chick's man a plate
May 19th 2015
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mother in law? auntie? m'sayin....
May 19th 2015
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      Aint nobody talking about them
May 19th 2015
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now that's trouble
May 21st 2015
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in a healthy relationship this happens from time to time
May 19th 2015
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NO
May 19th 2015
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It's not an expectation, but it's greatly appreciated
May 19th 2015
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RE: It's not an expectation, but it's greatly appreciated
May 19th 2015
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sometimes when you care about someone....
May 19th 2015
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just in time for summer!
May 19th 2015
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same reason we hold doors open for able bodied women
May 19th 2015
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^^^
May 19th 2015
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in a nutshell.
May 19th 2015
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i'm surprised the right answer took this long to show up...
May 19th 2015
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*waits for another rebuttal*
May 19th 2015
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this works.
May 19th 2015
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act of chivalry, not courtesy
May 19th 2015
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SHOCKINGLY simple, well reasoned answer.
May 19th 2015
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Proceed Governor
May 19th 2015
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is this still a thing though?
May 19th 2015
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no i wouldn't...but i'm not gonna (routinely) open a door and allow
May 19th 2015
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      pretty much, i look at dudes that go through first sideways.
May 20th 2015
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pretty much.
May 19th 2015
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but do men REALLY
May 19th 2015
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honestly....no..but me myself personally...i'm used to it
May 20th 2015
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      it aint that serious but ..
May 20th 2015
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"My nigga!"(c)Denzel
May 21st 2015
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we are talking at a bbq right? not regular dinner at home
May 19th 2015
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tangent: ladies and kids go first in line at the BBQ
May 19th 2015
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RE: tangent: ladies and kids go first in line at the BBQ
May 19th 2015
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RE: tangent: ladies and kids go first in line at the BBQ
May 19th 2015
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exactly
May 19th 2015
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depends on how many oldheads are there
May 19th 2015
NOPE, That's always been the way I've seen it.
May 19th 2015
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exactly...which makes this post that much more odd
May 19th 2015
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never in my life have i been to a bbq where that happens
May 19th 2015
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Because Chivalry ain't dead and neither are real women.
May 19th 2015
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What is a "real woman"?
May 19th 2015
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      Are you really asking this?
May 19th 2015
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      Yes Jerome, I am.
May 19th 2015
           😂 Really?
May 19th 2015
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                so if a woman teaches young ladies
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                     So, you want to take the narrow absolute road approach?
May 19th 2015
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                          Lol...nah that's what you are doing.
May 19th 2015
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                               Your Opinion is like 1 in 10 trillion. We're cool doe.
May 19th 2015
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                                    You really just refuse to proof read your posts before posting them ..
May 19th 2015
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                                         I know. I need to stop being lazy.. I'm bad.
May 19th 2015
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      RE: What is a "real woman"?
May 19th 2015
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i hope to never be in a competitive relationship
May 19th 2015
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RE: i hope to never be in a competitive relationship
May 19th 2015
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DUDE
May 19th 2015
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      right. i feel like i'm in bizzaro world
May 19th 2015
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           That DOES make you an oddball to alotta ppl on here tho.
May 20th 2015
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RE: Fixing your able bodied man a plate...
May 19th 2015
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post jack why should we still give women engagement rings?
May 19th 2015
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because its part of the trilogy
May 19th 2015
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if the man is keeping the lights on, paying for the food
May 19th 2015
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Dudes with bomb dick aint even gotta ask.
May 19th 2015
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      but you don;'t like sex
May 19th 2015
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           That's y'all's story, not mine.
May 19th 2015
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                you dont even like fixing your man a plate. i could only imagine
May 19th 2015
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                     I give hand jobs instead
May 19th 2015
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                          hand jobs are wastes of time.
May 19th 2015
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                          HJ's? ole middle school ass nigga
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                               Baby steps, my friend
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                                    I'm not aware. Are you a virgin?
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                                    Yep.
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                                    you taking a cab home if you tried that shit.
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                                         Chances of me even looking directly at it are slim to none.
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                                              stay single my friend! -Dos Equis
May 19th 2015
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                                                   It honestly sounds better than anal sex and making plates.
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                                                   I have a sneaky suspiscion you can't cook
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                                                   did you notice? we're being trolled.
May 19th 2015
                                                   did you notice? we're being trolled.
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                                                        you think I'm taking this seriously?
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                                                   if we're gettin' anal...we don't even wanna leave the
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                                                        lmao
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                                                   LOFL
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Selective southern gallantry is trés interesting.
May 19th 2015
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DO NOT IGNORE THIS REPLY
May 19th 2015
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lol
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quite Crennelian
May 19th 2015
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I don't have all of the answers Sway.
May 19th 2015
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I'm saying. The question itself isn't crazy. The source makes it strange
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very CONVENIENTLY traditional values.
May 19th 2015
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damn
May 19th 2015
My white dude!
May 21st 2015
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honestly, i'd rather fix my own damn plate.
May 19th 2015
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that too.
May 19th 2015
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that's where i'm at. i don't mind making you a plate
May 19th 2015
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^^^
May 19th 2015
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"I just got you a little of everything"
May 19th 2015
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a real woman knows exactly what her man wants
May 19th 2015
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all jokes aside, this is true
May 19th 2015
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not necessarily. i may like all the shit on the spread, but only
May 19th 2015
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A good woman knows you aren't in the mood for a burger
May 19th 2015
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haha, now good women are mind readers.
May 19th 2015
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I always asks first...
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      STEPH IS GOOD!!!
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my wife knows exactly what I want
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      LMAO..nigga be in line eating while making his plate
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      ohh my... bwhahaha
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      "..IF YOU'D HAVE LET ME HAVE THE SALT..."
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this is kinda true (minus the 'real' woman part)
May 19th 2015
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real men fix their own plates
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      RE: real men fix their own plates
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i like the appearance of it. it's proper.
May 19th 2015
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Good point! It is quite proper.
May 19th 2015
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I'll fix his plate, serve him first (before kids) & wait on him to eat
May 19th 2015
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my lady does this waits for me to take the first bite thing
May 19th 2015
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so does mine... she will wait for me to sit before eating
May 19th 2015
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lol hilarious
May 19th 2015
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I actually do this :-/ i never start eating till the person(s) with me
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      yeah i think i do too so when she does it it throws me off
May 19th 2015
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i serve the kids first then him
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We do the same. We plate the children, men, and then ourselves.
May 19th 2015
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i don't get why its an issue or cause for debate
May 19th 2015
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right?
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it's not. this individual thinks special thoughts.
May 19th 2015
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i wish it were just her.
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PLATE MAKERS... LMAO
May 19th 2015
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it might be plate fixers now that im thinking about it but
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      I blame Oprah
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<<< PLATE MAKER FOR LIIIIIIIIIIIIIIFFEE
May 19th 2015
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haha, that is hilarious.
May 19th 2015
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this is that sick-sad-world steeze
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i def took several steps back from the group when i saw that
May 19th 2015
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Ok, I'm really glad it's not just me...
May 20th 2015
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RE: i wish it were just her.
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nah fam, this post gets made at least twice a spring and summer.
May 19th 2015
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Oh I set Twitter on fire a few years ago when I said it's easier to get
May 19th 2015
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do you genuinely believe that?
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I'm gonna say this...it's a combo of things
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      I don't trust a woman who can't cook
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      i hate that i firmly believe in this too :'(
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           what's to hate? that shit is unacceptable.
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      point of order tho
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      Yeah for sure. As said, it's been different in the South
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           haha, kale is good, fam. eat it with your pork chop.
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                Folks with gobble some turnip, mustard and collard greens...
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                     Nahhhh they're typically prepared waaaaaay different
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                          Lol, I'm just sayin they don't have to be prepared different.
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      i live in the south and it's damn true
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           having kids =/= not single
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                if you got kids you aint single to me.
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                     thats to you.
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                          kids are side pieces that you know about...
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lmao
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hahaha, that shit classic. n/m
May 21st 2015
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likelihood of this also happening is slim
May 19th 2015
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yo, do you even like men?
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      They're nice to have around some times
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           You know what, this makes complete sense.
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                Contrary to popular belief its actually not that bad dating me.
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                     you need more people
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                     lol dating you sounds like a nightmare
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nah see seem like the 'but he pees from there type'
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Mostly for single ppl, I think.
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Some divorced folks in here too yammering on
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      whether you win the war or not you are still a vet
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           If they lost the war then why would I use their tactics?
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                who the hell suggest losing tactics?
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.
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because when dudes EXPECT it, rather than taking it as a kind gesture
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      Exactly
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isn't a big deal unless it's a 100% of the time thing
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shit, a Latino walks into his house
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#facts
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LOL...Basically
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Lol yes
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lol haha
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Bwahahahaha!
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can confirm
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FACTS
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i get my own plate 90% of the time, but it is nice when she just brings
May 19th 2015
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i always fix his plate.....i would NOT have it otherwise
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Now that's love
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high five!
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all ya'll plate fixers....do you ever get food cooked for you??
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if I'm cooking I'm fixing
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yep.
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I cook 95% of the time, but even if I'm at a gathering elsewhere
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if he cooks, he serves me
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all the time...and sometimes the guy makes my plate and sometimes I
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when he cooks, he fixes my plate
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that's a direct contradiction to your previous statement tho.
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      bam
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Yes and he will make my plate for me
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I don't want my plate fixed. It's a setup for something down the line.
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ole Good Will Hunting ass nigga....
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Fellas: If your girl makes your plate wrong, what do you do?
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I look at it, then look at her like she is crazy
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playfully/romantically feed her some potato salad
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eat it.
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what the hell is wrong with people man? lolsmh
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      they be making shit WAY too complicated. :(
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      You're going to eat some stuff you don't want? For why?
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           to complete the circle of reciprocal appreciation
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                ole eat anything to make her happy ass nigga
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      they are fucn confused. i swear our gen is the most
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           what's confusing is eating some shit you don't like
May 21st 2015
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she should know your food idiosyncrasies
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I'm a say sump'n (c) Gary Owen....so she get it right next time
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Yo that Gary Owen bit with the chitlins. Comedy Gold
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if she make it wrong then she aint the one.
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This is where it's really easy to deal with me...
May 20th 2015
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I've seen a lot of I fix my man a plate vs
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rolled up in the post like:
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WHEN I GET A MAN....
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Aint no one in here said that.
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      http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view3/1967611/harlem-nights-o.gif
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A sneak disser that's the shit I don't like (c)
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I'm a little upset no one else caught it.
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Oh it was cold
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!!!!
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Damn! Dude just dropped the #actualfactuals on 'em
May 20th 2015
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I dont expect it, and I'll even make her a plate around family
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first time I brought my wife around the fam when we dated
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haha, they were wrong for that
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those same 2 women are her favorites now...
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      good shit. guess they broke her in properly.
May 19th 2015
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LMFAO @ dat whole shit!
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my cousin brought her white boyfriend to thanksgiving
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      LOL
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damn. it's part of the process tho
May 20th 2015
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I fucked around and tried to be nice & fix her plate in front of family....
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      Shit. All this shit sounds difficult!
May 19th 2015
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what man "expects" that in 2015?
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feminine thug
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^^^tryna get your face on the Feminist $20 Bill^^^
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No head. No anal. Not fixing your mans plate
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RE: No head. No anal. Not fixing your mans plate
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some men value women for things other then what they offer sexually
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Indeed. But do you value men for what they offer - non-financially?
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Why wouldn't I?
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      They get that hand on the fat crayon
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      LOL @ fat crayon....+1
May 20th 2015
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           I can't even front, I laughed my fuckin' ass off at dat reply!
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      apologies - perhaps I had an inaccurate perception
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           RE: apologies - perhaps I had an inaccurate perception
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and yet, you still wont bring him a plate. smh
May 19th 2015
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      Lol and no where in here did I say I wasn't fixing him a plate.
May 19th 2015
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y'all are drawling in here
May 19th 2015
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You guys keep dossier's on what she has said in the past, huh
May 20th 2015
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      nah just have a working memory lol
May 21st 2015
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My experience is that is just life lol...
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opening doors and paying for dinner for able bodied women
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Because patriarchy
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      Man come on. You know Y'ALLLL wouldn't let us just stop that!!!
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           sure you could..
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                lol going dutch makes them desperate?
May 24th 2015
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I swear fo' egyptian gods, SH be experimenting
May 19th 2015
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Cenario summed it up perfectly
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No he didn't.
May 20th 2015
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      nah, that shit was perfect... needs to be a meme
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Id like to thank everyone for making this post possible.
May 19th 2015
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For me, it was a reflection of us eating together as a family...
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thats pretty much how it went
May 19th 2015
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And it really ain't that big of a deal cuz the ga damn kids gonna eat fi...
May 19th 2015
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again as long as it isn't a thing
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kinda of just something that happens in the process
May 20th 2015
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https://twitter.com/lowkeyuhtn/status/600851606830194688
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Sucking your able bodied man's dick
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Well, do you?
May 20th 2015
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RE: Sucking your able bodied man's dick
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      https://media.giphy.com/media/10RrvZ3MT4EIE/giphy.gif
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      a form of what the fuck???
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      does not compute
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      troll on, troll on...
May 21st 2015
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Is something you should do outta love for him.
May 20th 2015
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I refuse to believe that women are this thirsty
May 20th 2015
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      this is how other women get chose..
May 21st 2015
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           I guess fam
May 21st 2015
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                well, it gives you more time to come all that hair.
May 21st 2015
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I ALWAYS fix my man or date's plate. Yes, tradition.
May 20th 2015
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Just know, the Plate that you won't fix is being made by another woman
May 20th 2015
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And shes single because?
May 20th 2015
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      Cause he gotta show face around his family/girl since it's Wednesday.
May 20th 2015
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      From single to side piece
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           Lolol
May 20th 2015
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      You keep telling yourself that, right before he ask for his keys back
May 20th 2015
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           What you talking about?
May 21st 2015
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                Stop Fronting and fix the dang plate
May 25th 2015
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expert trolling, S(M)H, 300 replies and growing.
May 20th 2015
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dawg she is the queen of this shit
May 20th 2015
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I'm good off that, but I enjoy her performance art
May 21st 2015
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smh, I know you ain't tring to take a lil credit up in here
May 21st 2015
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      lemme get a lil' legs, others did work too
May 21st 2015
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At this point I'm not sure she isn't an Alias. She's too good at this...
May 21st 2015
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this shit is interesting from a (South) Asian -American view...lol
May 20th 2015
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man, this explains so much, thanks fam.
May 21st 2015
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Lmmfao
May 21st 2015
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      I was concerned for a few but this calmed my nerves.
May 21st 2015
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           lol what?
May 21st 2015
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                Whose food is bland????
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                     ;)
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                     bland = not drowning in curry
May 21st 2015
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OKP really is your little peephole into black America isn't it. Holy s...
May 22nd 2015
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if a man caters to me i will cater to him
May 21st 2015
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To be honest this is how it should be
May 21st 2015
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I told yall NO but you didnt listen
May 21st 2015
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I don't expect her to or ask but she just does it anyway
May 21st 2015
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hmm
May 21st 2015
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So.... The single, anal sex having plate fixers
May 21st 2015
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free spirits
May 21st 2015
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i'm gay so it doesn't count.
May 21st 2015
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Youre also not apart of the single woman shaming brigade
May 21st 2015
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      who is shaming single women?
May 22nd 2015
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killing an insect/rodent for your able bodied woman.
May 22nd 2015
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AMEN
May 25th 2015
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anal sex isnt a dealbreaker, but I believe you also said no to head
May 24th 2015
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      RE: anal sex isnt a dealbreaker, but I believe you also said no to head
May 24th 2015
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           it's like not studying and asking why you dont have a 4.0
May 24th 2015
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                Not really
May 24th 2015
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                     this post is about making plates
May 25th 2015
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I fix his plate when I cook, he fixes mine when he cooks...
May 23rd 2015
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Your avatars RARELY disappoint.
May 24th 2015
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I fix plates.
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333
May 25th 2015
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I fix my own food... period..
May 25th 2015
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140. "RE: LMAO"
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146. "crine!"
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3. "Nice loaded subject title"
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4. "it's cute."
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my parents are old school Southerners. they've been married for 50 years.

sometimes she fixes his plate, sometimes she doesn't. sometimes he fixes her plate, sometimes he doesn't.

after observing them i assume that when ppl are in love they sometimes do nice things for each other - like fixing plates. not out of obligation but out of desire. like, they want to make each other happy. they want to do favors for each other. it's not a burden to them - they gladly perform the favors.

i've seen how they do it and if/when i marry i'll do the same. sometimes i'll fix his plate. sometimes i won't. hopefully he'll fix mine sometimes too. either way it won't be a big deal between us. i hope.

fuck you.

  

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16. "I can dig it"
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And I agree

  

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38. "I agree"
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279. "well-said"
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peace

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285. "not quite the same thing, lol..."
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>i've seen how they do it and if/when i marry i'll do the same.
> sometimes i'll fix his plate. sometimes i won't. hopefully
>he'll fix mine sometimes too. either way it won't be a big
>deal between us. i hope.

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297. "Fuck whatever your bitch ass has to say about anything, ho."
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fuck you.

  

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312. "#IJS"
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314. "Fuck whatever your bitch ass has to say about anything, ho."
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fuck you.

  

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5. "It's a complete non-issue..."
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until another chick makes your man a plate.

  

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11. "Any chick that voluntarily makes another chick's man a plate"
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Reeks of thirst and desperation. Which is a whole separate issue.

  

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15. "mother in law? auntie? m'sayin...."
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30. "Aint nobody talking about them"
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lol

  

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294. "now that's trouble"
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and I wanna watch

  

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6. "in a healthy relationship this happens from time to time"
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with me and my wife its not an expectation
if im cooking and she busy with the kid i may make her a plate and set it on the table
vice versa
or if we are out at say a friends house...if im socializing she may ask if i want anything
vice versa

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7. "NO"
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8. "It's not an expectation, but it's greatly appreciated"
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12. "RE: It's not an expectation, but it's greatly appreciated"
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If a man can walk on his own two feet and proceed to run verbal game on any woman he shall also be able to fix himself a plate.

"If one forces the process, it comes out fake. And to me there's nothing worse than being fake." - Heavy D

  

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9. "sometimes when you care about someone...."
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.... you do nice things for them

what a novel concept right?

  

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10. "just in time for summer!"
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13. "same reason we hold doors open for able bodied women"
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act of courtesy

i expect it(at least the offer) personally....


standard operating procedure

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28. "^^^"
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Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

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29. "in a nutshell."
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34. "i'm surprised the right answer took this long to show up..."
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35. "*waits for another rebuttal*"
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39. "this works."
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56. "act of chivalry, not courtesy"
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because courtesy extends to everyone regardless of gender

  

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116. "SHOCKINGLY simple, well reasoned answer."
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148. "Proceed Governor "
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182. "is this still a thing though?"
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I mean, specifically holding the door open for women?

If a dude is behind you, do you let the door slam in his face?

  

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192. "no i wouldn't...but i'm not gonna (routinely) open a door and allow "
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a dude to go in 1st

women i do

that's my definition of holdin a door open

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246. "pretty much, i look at dudes that go through first sideways."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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212. "pretty much."
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221. "but do men REALLY "
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care about plate fixin

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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245. "honestly....no..but me myself personally...i'm used to it"
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I don't mean no everyday stuff

but if I'm at a cookout and I'm playin cards or whatever
usually the chicks are by the food...normally 'my chick' would just bring me a plate...or ask me what I want


it aint that serious but ...

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247. "it aint that serious but .."
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you notice. lol

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287. ""My nigga!"(c)Denzel"
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17. "we are talking at a bbq right? not regular dinner at home"
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>Why is this a thing? Or is it mostly a southern thing? Men do
>you expect your significant other to make you a plate? Women
>is this something that you've been taught? Lol

  

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18. "tangent: ladies and kids go first in line at the BBQ"
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is this also frowned upon?

  

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45. "RE: tangent: ladies and kids go first in line at the BBQ"
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Not in South Central they don't.

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61. "RE: tangent: ladies and kids go first in line at the BBQ"
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>Not in South Central they don't.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z3acdQLTliA

"If one forces the process, it comes out fake. And to me there's nothing worse than being fake." - Heavy D

  

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67. "exactly"
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"depends on how many oldheads are there "


          

that whole "erebody for themselves" mad rush seems to be for when no elders are present

i've noticed (younger) dudes and women here are on some other stuff in regard to "chivalry" type mores

  

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117. "NOPE, That's always been the way I've seen it."
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One of the reasons some women probably make their man a plate.

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126. "exactly...which makes this post that much more odd"
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162. "never in my life have i been to a bbq where that happens"
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women fix mens plates first so the men can get the fuck out to go watch football or talk shop.

<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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19. "Because Chivalry ain't dead and neither are real women. "
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"Jesus is my Lord and Savior. And if you believe in him, he can be your's too."

  

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26. "What is a "real woman"?"
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36. "Are you really asking this?"
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"Jesus is my Lord and Savior. And if you believe in him, he can be your's too."

  

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"Yes Jerome, I am."


  

          

  

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171. "😂 Really? "
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I'm referring to real women and chivalry being the standard for taking care of and showing genuine care for each other. Real men train and teach younger males. Real women train and tech young ladies. And so young men learn to open doors and take care of ladies, just like young ladies learn to make plates for their men. Both show care and affection.


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"Jesus is my Lord and Savior. And if you believe in him, he can be your's too."

  

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198. "so if a woman teaches young ladies"
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how to take care of themselves + how to treat others (of the same and opposite sex) fairly, but doesn't include lessons on traditional roles around chivalry bc they are against them, they aren't real women?

  

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225. "So, you want to take the narrow absolute road approach? "
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Nah, side step that trail.

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226. "Lol...nah that's what you are doing. "
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I'm just trying to point out how silly it is to say things like real man/woman.

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227. "Your Opinion is like 1 in 10 trillion. We're cool doe."
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"Jesus is my Lord and Savior. And if you believe in him, he can be your's too."

  

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SimplyHannah
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228. "You really just refuse to proof read your posts before posting them .."
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Don't you?

  

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229. "I know. I need to stop being lazy.. I'm bad."
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"Jesus is my Lord and Savior. And if you believe in him, he can be your's too."

  

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boombapdame
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72. "RE: What is a "real woman"?"
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>

I ask this often in regards to how "womanhood" in society is constructed from Puritanical and Victorian mores.

"If one forces the process, it comes out fake. And to me there's nothing worse than being fake." - Heavy D

  

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MrThomas43423
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21. "i hope to never be in a competitive relationship"
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what happened to i do for you, you do for me. if i'm closer to the food....why wouldn't i make you a plate? if you're closer to the food....why wouldn't you do the same for me. if i'm headed to the kitchen, i'm going to see if you want anything as well and hope the same would be done for me.

muthafuckers stay trying to ration out love.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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75. "RE: i hope to never be in a competitive relationship"
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>muthafuckers stay trying to ration out love.
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That good ole Beanie Sigel meets Paul Pierce

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“There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.†-Albert Camus

  

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119. "DUDE"
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>muthafuckers stay trying to ration out love.
>---------------------------------------

I just don't get it at all. Like, do you LIKE your partner? Don't you WANT to do nice things for them?

wtf, yo?

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127. "right. i feel like i'm in bizzaro world"
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>I just don't get it at all. Like, do you LIKE your partner?
>Don't you WANT to do nice things for them?
>
>wtf, yo?

i feel like i'm the odd ball because i like doing nice things for others, and like nice things done for me. and as impossible as it sounds, its not difficult at all.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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Boogie Stimuli
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237. "That DOES make you an oddball to alotta ppl on here tho."
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>i feel like i'm the odd ball because i like doing nice things
>for others, and like nice things done for me. and as
>impossible as it sounds, its not difficult at all.



Hell, being a decent person who isn't full of snark makes you an oddball here.
Thank goodness for oddballs though.

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22. "RE: Fixing your able bodied man a plate..."
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Lol def a southern thing. When my girl came down for thanksgiving and didn't fix my plate, all the men looked at me in disappointment. I had let them down. "She's supposed to fix ya plate nephew." I don't know where it started but it's funny watching all the ladies try to one up each other when fixing their man's plate during any family gathering.

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23. "post jack why should we still give women engagement rings? "
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or why do we buy women gifts on valentines day

or why do we open doors for women?

I got a good life man

  

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25. "because its part of the trilogy "
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>or why do we buy women gifts on valentines day
>
>or why do we open doors for women?
>
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24. "if the man is keeping the lights on, paying for the food"
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a good woman will clean and make the food. fair exchange.

~Experience is the currency of the soul.

  

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27. "Dudes with bomb dick aint even gotta ask."
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They know they plate getting made. Ijs

  

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33. "but you don;'t like sex"
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so...

  

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44. "That's y'all's story, not mine."
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58. "you dont even like fixing your man a plate. i could only imagine "
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how much you avoid his body.

  

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SimplyHannah
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81. "I give hand jobs instead "
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> you dont even like fixing your man a plate.

  

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89. "hand jobs are wastes of time. "
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96. "HJ's? ole middle school ass nigga"
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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105. "Baby steps, my friend "
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118. "I'm not aware. Are you a virgin?"
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SimplyHannah
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121. "Yep."
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123. "you taking a cab home if you tried that shit. "
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I got 2 hands who are experts at that shit...

so get to slobbing or diddy boppin home.

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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131. "Chances of me even looking directly at it are slim to none."
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Let alone all this.

>I got 2 hands who are experts at that shit...
>
>so get to slobbing or diddy boppin home.
>
>

  

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135. "stay single my friend! -Dos Equis"
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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SimplyHannah
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139. "It honestly sounds better than anal sex and making plates."
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legsdiamond
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143. "I have a sneaky suspiscion you can't cook"
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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"did you notice? we're being trolled."


          

  

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149. "did you notice? we're being trolled."
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176. "you think I'm taking this seriously? "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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150. "if we're gettin' anal...we don't even wanna leave the "
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house long enough for you to be somewhere to make us a plate.

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172. "lmao "
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Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

Building repetoires (c) spm since 1983

  

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263. "LOFL"
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31. "Selective southern gallantry is trés interesting."
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I'm from the Deep North, so how does this work?

Can you on one side of the coin demand that the man pay for all dates/dinners, be the sole breadwinner, open vehicle doors, and espouse southern chivalry that would make Robert E. Lee smile in his grave - and then at the same time complain about that same man (drenched in patriarchal gallantry) wanting his plate fixed for him?

Where might they do this at?

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48. "DO NOT IGNORE THIS REPLY"
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50. "lol"
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MrThomas43423
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54. "quite Crennelian"
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>Where might they do this at?
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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SimplyHannah
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85. "I don't have all of the answers Sway."
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>I'm from the Deep North, so how does this work?
>
>Can you on one side of the coin demand that the man pay for
>all dates/dinners, be the sole breadwinner, open vehicle
>doors, and espouse southern chivalry that would make Robert E.
>Lee smile in his grave - and then at the same time complain
>about that same man (drenched in patriarchal gallantry)
>wanting his plate fixed for him?
>
>Where might they do this at?
>
>-->

  

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93. "I'm saying. The question itself isn't crazy. The source makes it strange"
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Given her posting history. From what I remember, she has a staunch women never pay for dates stance and similar "traditional" views on male roles

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122. "very CONVENIENTLY traditional values."
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smh

Unfortunately I've dated women like this. It's not a good look.

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"You probably wouldn't worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do!" - Olin Miller

  

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"damn"


  

          

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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288. "My white dude!"
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________________________________________
"Take the surprise out your voice Shaq."-The REAL CP3
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2H5K-BUMS0

  

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32. "honestly, i'd rather fix my own damn plate."
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that way i get what i want and how much of whatever it is i want. let someone else fix the plate the portions might be all fucked up.

  

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40. "that too."
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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42. "that's where i'm at. i don't mind making you a plate"
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but how much of whatever do u want? i gotta ask u a series of questions or just give you a lot of everything.

~
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47. "^^^"
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49. ""I just got you a little of everything""
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Thanks but no thanks.

  

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51. "a real woman knows exactly what her man wants"
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*random shots fired*
*not sure at whom i'm even shooting*
*tryina get these 'puters 'putin'*

www.royallegacy.org

For Real (Official Video):
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63. "all jokes aside, this is true"
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a woman will know what her man likes and doesn't like.

and will serve him up an EXTRA serving of some shit he doesn't like when she is mad at him.

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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73. "not necessarily. i may like all the shit on the spread, but only "
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want a little bit of this one so i can get more of that one etc. or i may not want the beans runnin' into the chicken. or maybe i'm not in the mood for a burger right now and only want the fried fish. you see where i'm goin' with this.

like i said, thanks but i'll just do it myself.

and Sha, you a trip.

  

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110. "A good woman knows you aren't in the mood for a burger"
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especially if there is fried fish.

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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129. "haha, now good women are mind readers. "
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i'll say this, if my plate gets fixed for me i appreciate it, but it's probably not exactly how i wanted it fixed. maybe that's just me, but i doubt it.

but yeah, fish was a bad example. OF COURSE i want fish and she would know that. i shoulda said chicken or something. haha

  

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156. "I always asks first..."
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if it's my uncles/cousins, they usually say without me asking "fix me a plate with this, this, this, and 4 rolls. and bring a beer" which makes it easy.

but if it's a wide spread, I will ask "what do you want? they got xyz" and wait for his response. I only do this though when I'm around family/back home. I don't fix any plates up north because the men up here don't like it...but if you go home with me? please know i will be fixing your plate at my grandma's house because if I don't, all hell will break loose.

  

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196. "STEPH IS GOOD!!!"
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109. "my wife knows exactly what I want"
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that don't mean she wants me to have it. She be on that Claire Huxtable.

  

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114. "LMAO..nigga be in line eating while making his plate"
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264. "ohh my... bwhahaha"
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270. ""..IF YOU'D HAVE LET ME HAVE THE SALT...""
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IG: amadu_me

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124. "this is kinda true (minus the 'real' woman part)"
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If I'm with a dude long enough to have an occasion where I'm "fixing a plate" I would know what he likes and how much of it

  

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102. "real men fix their own plates"
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And don't need no woman to take care of em!

  

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202. "RE: real men fix their own plates"
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>And don't need no woman to take care of em!

This I co-sign.

"If one forces the process, it comes out fake. And to me there's nothing worse than being fake." - Heavy D

  

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37. "i like the appearance of it. it's proper."
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125. "Good point! It is quite proper. "
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MzOnyxVI
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41. "I'll fix his plate, serve him first (before kids) & wait on him to eat"
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my sister does this too

its not a big deal

and by 'wait on him to eat,' i mean for example, if my brother in law is outside or getting ready, we wait for him to get to the table before we eat


  

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76. "my lady does this waits for me to take the first bite thing"
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i like the generosity of the other stuff but this one makes me a little uneasy sometimes

i mean totally a small deal

but i never dealt w that level of deference before

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92. "so does mine... she will wait for me to sit before eating"
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well, she used to but now that she's pregnant she be going in

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147. "lol hilarious"
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159. "I actually do this :-/ i never start eating till the person(s) with me"
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have theirs or start

idk why i do
i just do

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169. "yeah i think i do too so when she does it it throws me off"
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n/m

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82. "i serve the kids first then him"
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just because
in our household
we make sure that our kids are cool first
then us
so that's how it goes

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94. "We do the same. We plate the children, men, and then ourselves."
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<----- ...I'm a peace-loving decoy
Ready for retaliation...

  

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SHAstayhighalways
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43. "i don't get why its an issue or cause for debate"
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when did this become such a point of contention
like you can suck the dudes dick but god forbid you have to make the nigga a plate
i just don't get it.

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53. "right?"
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55. "it's not. this individual thinks special thoughts."
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59. "i wish it were just her."
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Tue May-19-15 12:56 PM by SHAstayhighalways

  

          

i'm in a random ass anti-misogyny group on facebook
and a lot of those chicks are so anti-plate making that they have gone so far as to
call women who 'cater to their men beyond what is necessary'
PLATE FIXERS

this is a serious thing for a lot of women and i just don't get why.
i'm not making plates for random niggas but for my man wtf why not?

edited: yea it was plate fixers not plate makers had to double check lol

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66. "PLATE MAKERS... LMAO"
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I can only imagine how lonely these women are....

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70. "it might be plate fixers now that im thinking about it but"
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yes i am inclined to agree. mad about all the wrong things smh

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83. "I blame Oprah"
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69. "<<< PLATE MAKER FOR LIIIIIIIIIIIIIIFFEE"
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here for dis.

  

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KiloMcG
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80. "haha, that is hilarious."
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99. "this is that sick-sad-world steeze"
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acting like a GOOD thing is a bad thing

(like calling people "breeders", or calling you "white" because you like to read, etc.)

folks are special

  

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104. "i def took several steps back from the group when i saw that"
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now i just stick around to see what other foolishness may arise from it lol

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238. "Ok, I'm really glad it's not just me..."
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>acting like a GOOD thing is a bad thing
>
>(like calling people "breeders"

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204. "RE: i wish it were just her."
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>i'm in a random ass anti-misogyny group on facebook
>and a lot of those chicks are so anti-plate making that they
>have gone so far as to
>call women who 'cater to their men beyond what is necessary'
>PLATE FIXERS
>
>this is a serious thing for a lot of women and i just don't
>get why.
>i'm not making plates for random niggas but for my man wtf why
>not?
>
>edited: yea it was plate fixers not plate makers had to double
>check lol
>

I don't do FB nor other social media but what is the name of this group? I'm anti misogyny myself all day and unashamed but I get that some people are fine with traditional gender roles but I ain't.

"If one forces the process, it comes out fake. And to me there's nothing worse than being fake." - Heavy D

  

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79. "nah fam, this post gets made at least twice a spring and summer."
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60. "Oh I set Twitter on fire a few years ago when I said it's easier to get"
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head than to get a cooked meal. And damn near every guy said that they had got head from more girls than they had got cooked meals...they started acting up! "You only deal with hoes" "That's because you don't even try to deal with educated classy women" and all that bullshit that was false.

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62. "do you genuinely believe that?"
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68. "I'm gonna say this...it's a combo of things"
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Sure, many of us guys may try to get sex more than a meal, so I'll take that.

But I'm 30, and I'm in L.A., which makes a HUUUUUUUUUUUGE HUGE difference from the South. In the South/in College, this wasn't the case. But in L.A? Yeah...it's women, whether you're dating them or not, who'll surely suck your dick before they cook for you. I've really had a few say shit like that too..."I'll only cook for my man" or even "I don't even cook for myself!"

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84. "I don't trust a woman who can't cook"
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niggas too.

how the fuck you over 30 and can't burn?

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91. "i hate that i firmly believe in this too :'("
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here for dis.

  

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98. "what's to hate? that shit is unacceptable. "
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88. "point of order tho"
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LA has this weird "I don't know how to cook" thing going on (more so than ANYWHERE I have ever been)

stuff here is type bizarro-world ofttimes

so I dunno if you can use here as a basis for anything

  

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100. "Yeah for sure. As said, it's been different in the South"
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And shit, even in L.A, my homegirls who cook tend to be from other places. And some of the women who do cook here are on that super healthy shit. Fuck yo kale, what up on some fried porkchop????

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113. "haha, kale is good, fam. eat it with your pork chop."
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239. "Folks with gobble some turnip, mustard and collard greens..."
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then sneer at kale.
Nigga it's just another green! And got more nutrients than the others
except maybe dandelion.
Smh... my people.

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310. "Nahhhh they're typically prepared waaaaaay different"
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And Kale's whole connotation is within this healthy eating era, polar opposite from soul food. I've never had it as a soul food dish.

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321. "Lol, I'm just sayin they don't have to be prepared different."
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It's just an association thing mainly.

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163. "i live in the south and it's damn true"
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all the women i know under 30 that can cook have kids. these single broads outchea cant cook a lick.

<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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177. "having kids =/= not single"
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lmao it means they had unprotected sex. Tis all.

  

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181. "if you got kids you aint single to me."
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<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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184. "thats to you."
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And inaccurate else where.

  

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194. "kids are side pieces that you know about..."
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****************
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65. "lmao"
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295. "hahaha, that shit classic. n/m"
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86. "likelihood of this also happening is slim "
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>when did this become such a point of contention
>like you can suck the dudes dick

  

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130. "yo, do you even like men?"
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like, for real, for real.

Do you?

Are you sure?


It REALLY doesn't sound like it.

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SimplyHannah
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134. "They're nice to have around some times "
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Kind of like accessories.

  

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spades
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137. "You know what, this makes complete sense."
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Well, you're pretty enough to get a dude that will put up with all the expectations of the relationship while you enjoy all the pleasantries - merely to keep your company.

Good luck, finding that.

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SimplyHannah
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161. "Contrary to popular belief its actually not that bad dating me."
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I promise.

  

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legsdiamond
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178. "you need more people"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Cold Truth
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251. "lol dating you sounds like a nightmare"
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I guarantee nobody who dates you knows how you feel about any of this up front, unless he's a DR looking for a beard. That's just about the only scenario where you'd be good to date.

Don't get me wrong, *you* seem like good people. Just not dating material.

  

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106. "nah see seem like the 'but he pees from there type'"
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>like you can suck the dudes dick but god forbid you have to make the nigga a plate

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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144. "Mostly for single ppl, I think."
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fuck you.

  

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SimplyHannah
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175. "Some divorced folks in here too yammering on"
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I dont think theyre any more fit to give advice either tbh.

  

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legsdiamond
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180. "whether you win the war or not you are still a vet"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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SimplyHannah
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183. "If they lost the war then why would I use their tactics?"
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legsdiamond
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193. "who the hell suggest losing tactics? "
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only the bitterest of bitter double down on what didn't work the first time.

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soulpsychodelicyde
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185. "."
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223. "because when dudes EXPECT it, rather than taking it as a kind gesture"
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it becomes a problem
not to mention niggas that aren't your man that expect you to fix them a plate

i don't have an issue making a plate for my husband but only if he asks rather then demands or expects me to do it. i'm not bout that "traditional" life

  

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233. "Exactly"
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>it becomes a problem
>not to mention niggas that aren't your man that expect you to
>fix them a plate
>
>i don't have an issue making a plate for my husband but only
>if he asks rather then demands or expects me to do it. i'm not
>bout that "traditional" life

and like SoWhat mentioned above
It's reciprocal
Dudes can make plates as well
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46. "isn't a big deal unless it's a 100% of the time thing"
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on some "babe, i'm hungry, so..."

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52. "shit, a Latino walks into his house"
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and the plate just materializes in front of him. It's not even a thought.

  

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64. "#facts"
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here for dis.

  

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71. "LOL...Basically"
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My wife is Puerto Rican...shit is damn near automatic at a cook out

We went to her aunt's house and same shit

A lot of Caribbean women really don't care

  

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77. "Lol yes"
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108. "lol haha "
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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152. "Bwahahahaha! "
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Furious Styles: https://blacknative.bandcamp.com/album/furious-styles

Black Confederate on iTunes:
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RobOne4
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207. "can confirm"
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but my wife has always made my plate for me. She is white and black. So I guess its just how you were raised.

November 8th, 2005 The greatest night in the history of GD!

  

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astralblak
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266. "FACTS"
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!!!!!!

  

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57. "i get my own plate 90% of the time, but it is nice when she just brings"
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me a plate and i didnt even ask. just out of the kindness of her heart and sh*t. i try to do the same for her.

it looks crazy when the woman has a kid by the wrist, making three plates, spilling sh*t and dude is sitting on his ass sipping a brew, lol.

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74. "i always fix his plate.....i would NOT have it otherwise"
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78. "Now that's love"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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MzOnyxVI
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154. "high five! "
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MrThomas43423
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87. "all ya'll plate fixers....do you ever get food cooked for you??"
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i can't see myself cooking a meal, and then having her fix my plate. or are ya'll doing all the cooking?
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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95. "if I'm cooking I'm fixing"
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if he cooks, he can fix
since I end up cooking more often, I usually fix

here for dis.

  

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101. "yep."
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this plate fixing debate normally pertains to shit like thanksgiving or bbqs where the food is laid out.

but yes you cook you fix plates is usually how it should go imo.

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97. "I cook 95% of the time, but even if I'm at a gathering elsewhere"
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we fix the children's and men's plates.
And yes, when he cooks he makes my plate or at least tries to before I get to making his.


<----- ...I'm a peace-loving decoy
Ready for retaliation...

  

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151. "if he cooks, he serves me"
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158. "all the time...and sometimes the guy makes my plate and sometimes I "
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make my own plate.

  

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173. "when he cooks, he fixes my plate"
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174. "that's a direct contradiction to your previous statement tho."
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and that's not a knock on you. like i'm not coming at you. but words like "always" have such a gender specificity to them, and its really not like that. to me....its more about practicality and selflessness, and that gets lost in the whole 'men do this' and 'women do that' argument. you can't be selfless if you're holding onto gender roles.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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234. "bam"
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>'men do this' and 'women do that' argument. you can't be
>selfless if you're holding onto gender roles.
>---------------------------------------

A lot of this simply isn't practical
If I reach the door first I'll open it
Esp if your hands are full!

If you get up ask the person sitting if they want something
Man or woman
Also take whatever detritius is in the area to the trash
Folks make this hard
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250. "Yes and he will make my plate for me"
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90. "I don't want my plate fixed. It's a setup for something down the line."
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Mattafact, don't do shit for me. Short game vs. long game.

Streets won't let me chill.

  

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103. "ole Good Will Hunting ass nigga...."
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it's not your fault.

it's not your fault.

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107. "Fellas: If your girl makes your plate wrong, what do you do?"
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Like three heaping spoonfuls of potato salad taking up half the plate when you don't want no got damn potato salad.

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120. "I look at it, then look at her like she is crazy"
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real talk... she knows I don't like my food integrated and shit. She mixed all my shit up (on purpose) and tried to give me the plate.

I gave her a death stare and said "nah, I'm good....

Ain't no fucking way we been together this long and you do that shit unless you tryin to be starting something.



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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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128. "playfully/romantically feed her some potato salad"
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restoring order to the ratios while keeping things rosy

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138. "eat it."
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160. "what the hell is wrong with people man? lolsmh"
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WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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spades
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165. "they be making shit WAY too complicated. :("
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Get Out The Room!
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"You probably wouldn't worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do!" - Olin Miller

  

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168. "You're going to eat some stuff you don't want? For why?"
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cgonz00cc
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179. "to complete the circle of reciprocal appreciation"
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WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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legsdiamond
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191. "ole eat anything to make her happy ass nigga"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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267. "they are fucn confused. i swear our gen is the most"
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god damn confused gen ever. complicating shit for no reason

also simply hannah's troll game has become epic

  

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303. "what's confusing is eating some shit you don't like"
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just to be nice which means in the future you will eat more shit you don't like.

That's dumb as shit.



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145. "she should know your food idiosyncrasies"
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i don't like hot stuff and cold stuff on the same plate

i don't like my food crowded and touching other food

don't put juicy food next to food that i want to stay dry cuz who wants collard green juice making the chicken soggy? plus i'd pref you to strain those greens before putting them on the plate to avoid the extra juice factor

she knows this about me because she cares...


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153. "I'm a say sump'n (c) Gary Owen....so she get it right next time"
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lol

nah...i'd say somethin like u know damn well i don't eat no sauerkraut...and playfully shake my head(but be serious on the inside)

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273. "Yo that Gary Owen bit with the chitlins. Comedy Gold"
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164. "if she make it wrong then she aint the one."
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Boogie Stimuli
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240. "This is where it's really easy to deal with me..."
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I'll eat anything in a cookout setting.
I don't care if my food is touching or mixed up.
I don't care if you put hot and cold on the same plate.
I don't care if there's gravy on my pound cake.
You can literally dump all the food on the plate and I'm grubbin.

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112. "I've seen a lot of I fix my man a plate vs"
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When I get a man, he can fix his own damn plate...

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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133. "rolled up in the post like: "
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141. "WHEN I GET A MAN.... "
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anytime a woman says that shit they already lost.

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190. "Aint no one in here said that."
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He must be referring the conversations that he has amongst the women in his family.

  

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legsdiamond
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195. "http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view3/1967611/harlem-nights-o.gif"
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http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view3/1967611/harlem-nights-o.gif

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166. "A sneak disser that's the shit I don't like (c)"
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I had to read that like 4 times to completely see the snark dart lol. Impressive

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187. "I'm a little upset no one else caught it. "
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189. "Oh it was cold"
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200. "!!!!"
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______________________________
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241. "Damn! Dude just dropped the #actualfactuals on 'em"
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Because, sure enough, when u read over the post, that's very apparent.

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atruhead
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115. "I dont expect it, and I'll even make her a plate around family"
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but if you dont get it...yeah

  

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legsdiamond
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132. "first time I brought my wife around the fam when we dated"
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I was making her a plate because she was nervous as fuck and my fam is aggressive. She the type to drop the plate or knock over a pitcher of water when she is nervous.

My aunt screamed out "WHAT'S WRONG, YO HANDS BROKE!!!"

smh...

then when she went to sit down my cousin screamed out "EH, EH.. THATS MY SEAT"

they baptized the fuck outta her.


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136. "haha, they were wrong for that"
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legsdiamond
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142. "those same 2 women are her favorites now... "
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my dads side of the fam makes sure you are built to be with one of us.

She went to VCU too tho so she was built for it.

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167. "good shit. guess they broke her in properly."
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199. "LMFAO @ dat whole shit!"
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The visuals is killin me.


Some Fam just don't give ANY fucks and its truly a thing of beauty to behold from off inna cut while you off yo brew/herb whatever.





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216. "my cousin brought her white boyfriend to thanksgiving"
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My aunt: Brad, what type of meat do you want, white or dark?

Brad: dark

Aunt: thats what I thought...

Aunt: Stacey, lemme guess, you want white meat?

Stacey: yes ma'am

Aunt: mmhmmm... just like I thought

Stacey: I hate her (under her breath)

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232. "LOL"
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269. "damn. it's part of the process tho"
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157. "I fucked around and tried to be nice & fix her plate in front of family...."
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She have me THEE coldest look like "Nigga! You tryna embarrass me?!"

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197. "Shit. All this shit sounds difficult! "
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170. "what man "expects" that in 2015? "
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188. "feminine thug"
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186. "^^^tryna get your face on the Feminist $20 Bill^^^"
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201. "No head. No anal. Not fixing your mans plate"
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What a catch this broad is lol

  

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203. "RE: No head. No anal. Not fixing your mans plate"
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>What a catch this broad is lol

Why should she be about those particular acts? Like as if it ain't disgusting.

"If one forces the process, it comes out fake. And to me there's nothing worse than being fake." - Heavy D

  

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205. "some men value women for things other then what they offer sexually"
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I mean I know it's really hard to believe, but they're out there.

  

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209. "Indeed. But do you value men for what they offer - non-financially? "
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For some reason (based on your posts) I can't picture you dating a man who can't provide financially - regardless of how virtuous, kind, or good he may be as a man.

Incidentally, that type of dynamic generally attracts a man who feels sexually entitled to the woman he is with, as well as having expectations of being served on in the home.

I just don't see how it's reasonable to expect a man to be the solo breadwinner, pay for everything/take care of all finances, *and* expect him to fix his own plate, come home and attend to household duties, and then when it gets dark bring out the oral/vaginal sleeve he copped at the adult store because his lady is disgusted by sexual orifices/fluids.

like, is that how dudes get down in the New South now?

  

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SimplyHannah
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213. "Why wouldn't I?"
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>For some reason (based on your posts) I can't picture you
>dating a man who can't provide financially - regardless of how
>virtuous, kind, or good he may be as a man.

Im not really sure how this became my storyline, but you all seem to have taken it and run with it. You all have done some serious reaching because all I've ever really said is that I want someone whose able to take me out a couple of times a month, nothing more and nothing less.

>Incidentally, that type of dynamic generally attracts a man
>who feels sexually entitled to the woman he is with, as well
>as having expectations of being served on in the home.

Not the ones who actually think you're the prize here lol.


>I just don't see how it's reasonable to expect a man to be the
>solo breadwinner, pay for everything/take care of all
>finances, *and* expect him to fix his own plate, come home and
>attend to household duties, and then when it gets dark bring
>out the oral/vaginal sleeve he copped at the adult store
>because his lady is disgusted by sexual orifices/fluids.

Again if I was trying to be kept, I'd be somewhere doing that and not trying to go to work or school.

>like, is that how dudes get down in the New So>that way i get what i want and how much of whatever it is i
>want. let someone else fix the plate the portions might be
>all fucked up.
uth now?

But do you know why I've been able to get away with this for so long? Some men's irrational fear of settling with a "sexually liberated " woman has somehow outweighed everything else. To them the unwillingness to do this and that suggests that I haven't done these things with a lot of men or any other man which they find intriguing and I guess somewhat of a challenge. There is power in that "good girl" image for lack of better words, and I've made it work for me.

And btw I have no issue with fixing plates, I just asked a question and everyone took it and went left with it as usual.

  

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235. "They get that hand on the fat crayon"
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Before you know it the fridge, walls floors and TV screen been scribbled on

Folks here
As you know
Are a mess
Much like toddlers

Keep treating them like toddlers
Sometimes they need a firm hand
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278. "LOL @ fat crayon....+1"
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i laughed because thats exactly what it reads like....

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334. "I can't even front, I laughed my fuckin' ass off at dat reply!"
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*Dust #GenderWarz cape off*

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265. "apologies - perhaps I had an inaccurate perception "
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>Im not really sure how this became my storyline, but you all
>seem to have taken it and run with it. You all have done some
>serious reaching because all I've ever really said is that I
>want someone whose able to take me out a couple of times a
>month, nothing more and nothing less.

Cool. Not that you have to have your preference validated by me or anyone else anyway - of course. But I did recall reading where you weren't open to dating somebody who was broke and/or had very little financial resources. If that's incorrect, or perhaps you've changed your mind, then now I'm aware of it.

>But do you know why I've been able to get away with this for
>so long? Some men's irrational fear of settling with a
>"sexually liberated " woman has somehow outweighed everything
>else. To them the unwillingness to do this and that suggests
>that I haven't done these things with a lot of men or any
>other man which they find intriguing and I guess somewhat of a
>challenge. There is power in that "good girl" image for lack
>of better words, and I've made it work for me.

I think the issue is in framing it such that the "good girl" is a girl who is necessarily *not* sexually liberated. Why can't a woman be "good" and enjoy oral/anal/experimental sex w/ her partner? I think most post-modern man like a strong woman who isn't beholden to traditional models of sexuality, free from the traditions of the 'delicate, pure flowery woman' who is sexually inexperienced (which was a manufactured gender identity constructed simply to appease men and their sexual insecurities.)

This isn't to say that you *must* enjoy sexually liberated practices, but it also means you shouldn't be ashamed or feel 'bad' if you do enjoy a sexually liberated lifestyle.

>And btw I have no issue with fixing plates, I just asked a
>question and everyone took it and went left with it as usual.

lol fair enough, but the way you phrased it "why do able bodied men need plates fixed for them?" kinda implies that you think it's a silly thing for a woman to do.

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272. "RE: apologies - perhaps I had an inaccurate perception "
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>>Im not really sure how this became my storyline, but you
>all
>>seem to have taken it and run with it. You all have done
>some
>>serious reaching because all I've ever really said is that I
>>want someone whose able to take me out a couple of times a
>>month, nothing more and nothing less.
>
>Cool. Not that you have to have your preference validated by
>me or anyone else anyway - of course. But I did recall
>reading where you weren't open to dating somebody who was
>broke and/or had very little financial resources. If that's
>incorrect, or perhaps you've changed your mind, then now I'm
>aware of it.

They wouldn't be my first choice, that's for sure.


>>But do you know why I've been able to get away with this for
>>so long? Some men's irrational fear of settling with a
>>"sexually liberated " woman has somehow outweighed
>everything
>>else. To them the unwillingness to do this and that suggests
>>that I haven't done these things with a lot of men or any
>>other man which they find intriguing and I guess somewhat of
>a
>>challenge. There is power in that "good girl" image for lack
>>of better words, and I've made it work for me.
>
>I think the issue is in framing it such that the "good girl"
>is a girl who is necessarily *not* sexually liberated. Why
>can't a woman be "good" and enjoy oral/anal/experimental sex
>w/ her partner? I think most post-modern man like a strong
>woman who isn't beholden to traditional models of sexuality,
>free from the traditions of the 'delicate, pure flowery woman'
>who is sexually inexperienced (which was a manufactured gender
>identity constructed simply to appease men and their sexual
>insecurities.)


That's why I said "good girl" for lack of better words, I believe that you can still be a good woman and do and enjoy all of those things. I don't think that who we are is defined by our sexuality or lack there of. I'm just relaying to you some of the things I've been told, plenty of men still subscribe to the delicate pure flower bullshit, and that's why it works. I didn't make the rules, I just play the game.


>This isn't to say that you *must* enjoy sexually liberated
>practices, but it also means you shouldn't be ashamed or feel
>'bad' if you do enjoy a sexually liberated lifestyle.

Of course you shouldn't lol.

>>And btw I have no issue with fixing plates, I just asked a
>>question and everyone took it and went left with it as
>usual.
>
>lol fair enough, but the way you phrased it "why do able
>bodied men need plates fixed for them?" kinda implies that you
>think it's a silly thing for a woman to do.

Because I felt like someone was gonna come in here and say "BUT WHAT IF HE CAIN'T!" Just weeding out some of the hypotheticals plus it made for a great bait don't you think?

  

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218. "and yet, you still wont bring him a plate. smh"
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220. "Lol and no where in here did I say I wasn't fixing him a plate."
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Government Name
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206. "y'all are drawling in here"
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274. "You guys keep dossier's on what she has said in the past, huh"
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lame as fuck b

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302. "nah just have a working memory lol "
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phemom
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208. "My experience is that is just life lol..."
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I don't expect it, and I wouldn't get mad if my girl didn't but the lady just gets the plate *shrugs*

Never read about how it works or why, it's just the way I have seen it growing up.

phemom's the name, all-star writer/
searching 4 journalistic fame, mindframe igniter....www.twitter.com/hayabusaage

  

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Cold Truth
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210. "opening doors and paying for dinner for able bodied women "
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Why?

  

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SimplyHannah
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214. "Because patriarchy "
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>Why?

These are the rules that men made and have been abiding by for years, idk why yall subscribe to it.

  

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230. "Man come on. You know Y'ALLLL wouldn't let us just stop that!!!"
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I saw something recently you posted about "broke niggas." It's really no way we could just say nah, we aren't paying for dates anymore at all.

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SimplyHannah
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231. "sure you could.."
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>I saw something recently you posted about "broke niggas."
>It's really no way we could just say nah, we aren't paying for
>dates anymore at all.

Dating pool might shrink a little bit, but you could. Plenty of women out here that are desperate enough to pay for dates or go dutch. Or even settle for Netflix and chill, that's the new thing.

  

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324. "lol going dutch makes them desperate?"
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“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.â€

  

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211. "I swear fo' egyptian gods, SH be experimenting"
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with yall just to see what kinda outrageous 'traditional' responses she'll get. hard to believe this is such a big deal.

I'm not kicking a chick out for not making plates regardless of what my fam says. they aint living with her.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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219. "Cenario summed it up perfectly"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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SimplyHannah
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254. "No he didn't."
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Like I said, he must have been summing up the experiences of the women in his family or the ones he talks to because no in here said anything of that nature.

  

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291. "nah, that shit was perfect... needs to be a meme"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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SimplyHannah
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222. "Id like to thank everyone for making this post possible."
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>with yall just to see what kinda outrageous 'traditional'
>responses she'll get. hard to believe this is such a big
>deal.


https://instagram.com/p/2eLia0uZC_/

  

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Big Kuntry
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215. "For me, it was a reflection of us eating together as a family..."
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This is gonna sound fucked up but bear wit me...

The men were'nt allowed in the kitchen cuz my mother would use that time to bond wit my sisters, aunties, etc. that was their zone until they felt like it was time to eat.

The men & boys were somewhere else in or around the house, bonding in the same way.

After awhile we'd get called back into the kitchen, plates set or theyre in the process of being made & we ate AS A FAMILY. This carried out to cookouts, showers, buffets, etc. the same we'd do at home.

It isn't anything demeaning it's a cultural norm across the board.

  

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224. "thats pretty much how it went "
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Down in my house

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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217. "And it really ain't that big of a deal cuz the ga damn kids gonna eat fi..."
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before the man anyways

  

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236. "again as long as it isn't a thing"
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I've had instances where folks are ridiculous about it
Ridiculous as in rude and lazy
Women juggling a kid (or plural) or helping out in the kitchen
Yet that grown fools fixing his mouth to ask
Then
To boot
Any other woman around him not currently in the process of getting up
Skip the dude THAT JUST GOT UP you've been chatting with about the game or whatever
But it's okay to ask the person you've barely spoken to words to
Hanh?
Lack of damn sense
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MizClayton
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242. "kinda of just something that happens in the process "
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if I'm getting my food, I'll offer. If I'm cooking, I'll offer

it's never been a demanded thing, it just happens

if he cooking for himself and I'm doing something else, he fixes his plate. that'd be weird for me to drop everything and go fix his plate.

  

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243. "https://twitter.com/lowkeyuhtn/status/600851606830194688"
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https://twitter.com/lowkeyuhtn/status/600851606830194688

oh damb...

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Cenario
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244. "Sucking your able bodied man's dick"
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Why is this a thing? Or is it mostly a southern thing? Men do you expect your significant other to suck your dick? Women is this something that you've been taught? Lol

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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248. "Well, do you?"
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252. "RE: Sucking your able bodied man's dick"
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Before a Brother even fix his mouth to ask for that, he'll either get smacked in the mouth from me, silence or "excuse you, I hope you don't talk to any other women this way" from me as I ain't the one and I ask myself often where are the dudes at that don't demand that and my view is to each one's own and I ain't mad at the women that want to do that but I look at it as a form of rape.

"If one forces the process, it comes out fake. And to me there's nothing worse than being fake." - Heavy D

  

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255. "https://media.giphy.com/media/10RrvZ3MT4EIE/giphy.gif"
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https://media.giphy.com/media/10RrvZ3MT4EIE/giphy.gif

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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256. "a form of what the fuck???"
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262. "does not compute"
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>women that want to do that

+

>I look at it as a form of rape.

=

LOGIC ERROR

WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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283. "troll on, troll on... "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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249. "Is something you should do outta love for him. "
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You gonna be at a cook out one day thinking you cute while another woman fixing yo man a plate.

Is this an annual pos? Jesus

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SimplyHannah
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253. "I refuse to believe that women are this thirsty "
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> while another woman fixing yo man a plate.

Well actually, pickings are slim so they might be. Idk.

  

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284. "this is how other women get chose.."
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keep calling these women thirsty if you want but they are out here quenching their thirst. Whether it's a tall glass a water, a huggie or a 40 oz.

They drinking.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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SimplyHannah
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290. "I guess fam"
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Glad I ain't gotta do shit like that.

  

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304. "well, it gives you more time to come all that hair. "
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that is a lot of hair yo...

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257. "I ALWAYS fix my man or date's plate. Yes, tradition."
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Only time I haven't is when my date invited me somewhere that I did not feel comfortable maneuvering around. Example; a date invited me to his friend's baby shower. I felt too awkward not knowing anybody getting up and making both of our plates. I felt greedy. lol




Somebody's lying...

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258. "Just know, the Plate that you won't fix is being made by another woman"
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"Jesus is my Lord and Savior. And if you believe in him, he can be your's too."

  

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259. "And shes single because?"
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260. "Cause he gotta show face around his family/girl since it's Wednesday."
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But on Thursday he has a "business trip" and on Friday he's "out with the fellas."

Before you know it she ain't single anymore.

Ask Alicia Keys

  

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261. "From single to side piece"
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#goals

  

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MizClayton
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268. "Lolol"
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275. "You keep telling yourself that, right before he ask for his keys back"
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"Jesus is my Lord and Savior. And if you believe in him, he can be your's too."

  

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SimplyHannah
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280. "What you talking about?"
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That's the scenario you came up with. Surely she's single if she's up fixing other men's plates.... Any chick that's there with her man won't be up looking to fix other men's plates.

  

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332. "Stop Fronting and fix the dang plate"
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>That's the scenario you came up with. Surely she's single if
>she's up fixing other men's plates.... Any chick that's there
>with her man won't be up looking to fix other men's plates.


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"Jesus is my Lord and Savior. And if you believe in him, he can be your's too."

  

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271. "expert trolling, S(M)H, 300 replies and growing."
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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276. "dawg she is the queen of this shit"
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it's an art watching her do it, and i'm happy I helped it get rolling with my she doesn't like sex narrative, which she plays up, then hides her hands... it just makes me want to nestle my face in her tetas even more

  

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298. "I'm good off that, but I enjoy her performance art"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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306. "smh, I know you ain't tring to take a lil credit up in here"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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308. "lemme get a lil' legs, others did work too"
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305. "At this point I'm not sure she isn't an Alias. She's too good at this..."
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277. "this shit is interesting from a (South) Asian -American view...lol"
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never knew so much could be inferred from something as seemingly trivial as this

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I wanna go to where the martyrs went
the brown figures on the walls of my apart-a-ment...

  

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286. "man, this explains so much, thanks fam. "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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289. "Lmmfao"
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292. "I was concerned for a few but this calmed my nerves. "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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296. "lol what?"
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it really is fascinating...gender/marriage roles, patriarchal views coming into play...

all over the simple question of fixing a plate of that bland boring ass food yall eat

i was entertained.

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I wanna go to where the martyrs went
the brown figures on the walls of my apart-a-ment...

  

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300. "Whose food is bland????"
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Here you go starting shit! lol




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301. ";) "
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the brown figures on the walls of my apart-a-ment...

  

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SimplyHannah
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316. "bland = not drowning in curry "
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317. "OKP really is your little peephole into black America isn't it. Holy s..."
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godleeluv
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281. "if a man caters to me i will cater to him"
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If I have to do everything myself then, so will he.


That's how I roll.

So I guess it depends on the man.

  

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SimplyHannah
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293. "To be honest this is how it should be "
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>If I have to do everything myself then, so will he.
>
>
>That's how I roll.
>
>So I guess it depends on the man.

  

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282. "I told yall NO but you didnt listen"
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Hannah got yall good.


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299. "I don't expect her to or ask but she just does it anyway"
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I could be at a BBQ talking or playing cards and next thing I know there's a plate in front of me. I mean she doesn't have to ask me to cut the grass, take care of the yard, or take her car to get serviced. I just do it.

  

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307. "hmm"
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I can somewhat understand if a woman feels uncomfortable fixing a man a plate, if she isn't into traditional gender roles and expectations and lives an egalitarian-ish type of lifestyle.

But..

If she tripping off of fixing someone she is dating or allegedly cares for plate, but wants meals paid for and doors opened, by the same person she has an issue fixing a plate, then she is on that super uber bullshit which is clearly a deal breaker(for me).

Double standard one way street relationships don't work for me, but I am sure it may work for those who wants to be in an unhappy relationship. Those who care for one another do for one another, whether huge or small.

  

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309. "So.... The single, anal sex having plate fixers"
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What's their excuse? Or is there none because it doesn't fit the narrative?

  

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311. "free spirits"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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313. "i'm gay so it doesn't count."
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fuck you.

  

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315. "Youre also not apart of the single woman shaming brigade "
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So your input is welcome.

  

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318. "who is shaming single women?"
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that's wack.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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319. "killing an insect/rodent for your able bodied woman."
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to me this is much more in line with the "plate fixing" than the sexual favors things people are listing above.

I'm more than willing to fix my own plate AND yours if I don't have to get up from the Conference Finals game to kill a fly or take out the trash, since we talking able bodied.

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330. "AMEN"
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322. "anal sex isnt a dealbreaker, but I believe you also said no to head"
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women who give head and fix plates that are still single could be for a ton of reasons:

- baggage
- ridiculously high standards
- havent met the right dude
- they cant get out of their own way and always block their blessings
- giving head and fixing plates isnt enough to take you off the market for long if you're still crazy
- etc.

  

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323. "RE: anal sex isnt a dealbreaker, but I believe you also said no to head"
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>women who give head and fix plates that are still single
>could be for a ton of reasons:
>
>- baggage
>- ridiculously high standards
>- havent met the right dude
>- they cant get out of their own way and always block their
>blessings
>- giving head and fixing plates isnt enough to take you off
>the market for long if you're still crazy
>- etc.


Which is precisely why " that's why you're single " or single shaming b/c said chick dosent do "xyz" dosent work. There is no definite recipe to finding a significant other but niggas (not you) will not admit that because it dosent fit the narrative.

  

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325. "it's like not studying and asking why you dont have a 4.0"
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doing the right things wont guarantee you success, but it damn sure helps more than it hurts

  

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327. "Not really "
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Point is, you could be doing all that stuff and still not have a significant other, or you could not be and have still find one. Different strokes for different folks, most eventually find someone that fits their groove. I've never had a problem getting into or maintaining relationships and I don't anticipate on it. Folks need to stop trying to measure everyone by their own personal rulers because we are not one size fits all.

  

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333. "this post is about making plates"
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>Point is, you could be doing all that stuff and still not
>have a significant other, or you could not be and have still
>find one. Folks need to stop trying to measure
>everyone by their own personal rulers because we are not one
>size fits all.

I dont know too many men who would stay with a woman who REFUSED to make him a plate, that usually indicates way deeper control/power issues she has going on

  

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320. "I fix his plate when I cook, he fixes mine when he cooks..."
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and he cooks 70% of the time and works outside the home, while I work from home and take care of the babies.

It just works, you do me and I'll do you. It works for us.

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326. "Your avatars RARELY disappoint."
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<<<<"Nothings more attractive than a heavy praying woman" © Andre 3000

  

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328. "I fix plates."
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I've fixed my side nigga a plate at a family gathering. I like fixing plates.


I've also been in relationships where the men fixed the plates. When I visit family, I expect my mom and sis to fix my plate lol.


I LIKE FIXED PLATES.

  

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329. "333"
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R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
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331. "I fix my own food... period.."
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..

"You used to be so cool, but now, you know you're so cold"

  

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