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initiationofplato
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"Men, are you tired of having your sexuality exploited?"
Tue Jan-13-15 10:15 AM by initiationofplato

          

95% of websites and advertisements have tits and suggestive imagery wallpapered all over them, and you can't go a day without seeing a pair of tits conveniently placed by a logo or product.

Maybe I don't want to look at tits or think about sex five times a day. Perhaps, one day where my thoughts are not infiltrated by suggesting visuals will leave room for more productive and constructive thinking.

Does society have any concept of love or "making love"? Sperm is a source of life, and yet we are brainwashed into thinking that we need to masturbate or have sex at every and any opportunity. Perhaps there are some benefits of maintaining your sperm count as opposed to rebooting on a daily basis? I've read several articles suggesting that losing your sperm daily plays a part in hair loss, could this be true? Can prostate cancer be a direct result of over fapping considering you work it so much? Would they even tell us considering the media is constantly ramming sex down our throats?

Exhibit A:

http://postimg.org/image/ivq8pf6it/

(I am aware of and use adblock, however, I surf incognito at work to keep my history clear and adblock does not work in incognito mode.)

Am I alone in this thinking?

  

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log off fam
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don't know how
Jan 13th 2015
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      the log out button in the Lobby is a start
Jan 13th 2015
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           can't find it
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If this is showing up when you're on YouTube you might want talk to
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its my work computer, noone else uses it except me
Jan 13th 2015
5
lol...you poor non pussy getting clown.
Jan 13th 2015
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*this is where we compare dick sizes*
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      I have no desire to discuss that subject with you sir.
Jan 13th 2015
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           you got all that from my post?
Jan 13th 2015
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you are the Feds
Jan 13th 2015
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lol!
Jan 13th 2015
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i get you. wrong audience bro.
Jan 13th 2015
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not sure i follow
Jan 13th 2015
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everything is somehow sexualized these days
Jan 13th 2015
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doesn't it bother you?
Jan 13th 2015
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      you're speaking to issues greater than sex
Jan 13th 2015
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      RE: you're speaking to issues greater than sex
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      How invasive it's become bothers me
Jan 13th 2015
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           Exactly
Jan 13th 2015
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I do get your point, we're inundated with it
Jan 13th 2015
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i want to have a daughter someday
Jan 13th 2015
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      every man should hope to succeed as a father
Jan 13th 2015
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           True.
Jan 13th 2015
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Hi, Case
Jan 13th 2015
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^^ So desparate.
Jan 13th 2015
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      ^^^ So obvious.
Jan 13th 2015
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I'd be more bothered as a woman.
Jan 13th 2015
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that's definitely a big part of the problem
Jan 13th 2015
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you will never catch me complaining about looking at titties
Jan 13th 2015
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You're threatening the status quo and the foundation of hyper-masculinit...
Jan 13th 2015
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lol, true
Jan 13th 2015
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You know incognito mode does really protect you right?
Jan 13th 2015
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Yes I know.
Jan 13th 2015
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Actually according to studies frequent ejaculation prevents prostate can...
Jan 13th 2015
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John Forte
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1. "log off fam"
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initiationofplato
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2. "don't know how"
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9. "the log out button in the Lobby is a start"
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here for dis.

  

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initiationofplato
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14. "can't find it"
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darn it

  

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GrumpySmurf
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3. "If this is showing up when you're on YouTube you might want talk to"
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whoever is using your computer other than you.

  

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initiationofplato
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5. "its my work computer, noone else uses it except me"
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it was a brand new machine and has never been used to access anything of that nature

  

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Binlahab
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4. "lol...you poor non pussy getting clown."
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#itgetsbetter bro

Wait til spring. Good luck.

  

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initiationofplato
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6. "*this is where we compare dick sizes*"
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Tue Jan-13-15 10:43 AM by initiationofplato

          

btw, what's a "non pussy" and how do you get it?

  

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Binlahab
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8. "I have no desire to discuss that subject with you sir."
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I see what the issue is you're sexually confused.


does it really matter?

for all my fans who keep my name in their mouth: http://i.imgur.com/v2xNOpS.jpg

  

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initiationofplato
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12. "you got all that from my post?"
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so, not wanting to have sexual imagery rubbed in your face on a daily basis = sexual confusion?

i'd like to follow your logic but it sounds like insecurity to me. shrug.

  

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7. "you are the Feds"
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11. "lol!"
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10. "i get you. wrong audience bro. "
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initiationofplato
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15. "not sure i follow"
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Tue Jan-13-15 10:54 AM by initiationofplato

          

what entails the right audience for secure men to discuss sexuality with one another?

  

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Atillah Moor
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13. "everything is somehow sexualized these days"
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just gotta tun away from it. Or try to.

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Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days

  

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initiationofplato
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17. "doesn't it bother you?"
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i don't think we need to run from it, i just think we need a healthy balance.

the fallout of having everything sexualized is destructive. as men, we look at women and only see their tits and ass. in turn, women whom see what we oogle at, invest a lot of energy into accentuating their tits and ass, or "enhance" it with plastic, and ultimately sell themselves short.

do we really need to create a plastic world in order to enjoy one another? can't sex be a major part in society without becoming a cancer to love?

are any men truly satisfied? why do married men stray? could it be because they are constantly encouraged to think about sex, and to notice tits and ass? have you ever looked at a woman and wondered about her character, or have you just thought about whether or not you would "i'd tap that". think about how destructive those attitudes can become.

  

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21. "you're speaking to issues greater than sex"
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>the fallout of having everything sexualized is destructive. as
>men, we look at women and only see their tits and ass. in
>turn, women whom see what we oogle at, invest a lot of energy
>into accentuating their tits and ass, or "enhance" it with
>plastic, and ultimately sell themselves short.

superficial living is more than sex. women do what they think men find attractive (butt implants), men do the same (fancy cars)


>do we really need to create a plastic world in order to enjoy
>one another? can't sex be a major part in society without
>becoming a cancer to love?

people use sex to form connections no matter how fleeting or shallow, because emotions are difficult and erratic. also sex physically feels better than a physiological emotional bond



>are any men truly satisfied?

I dont know

>why do married men stray?

marriages and the rest of life require a ton of energy, it can be difficult for a sex life to be strong. But if there's a side piece who only has one function, that answers your question


could
>it be because they are constantly encouraged to think about
>sex, and to notice tits and ass?

no


have you ever looked at a
>woman and wondered about her character

no, that isnt how eyes work. we process what we see

or have you just
>thought about whether or not you would "tap that". think
>about how destructive those attitudes can become.

nothing is destructive about visual attraction


  

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27. "RE: you're speaking to issues greater than sex"
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>superficial living is more than sex. women do what they think
>men find attractive (butt implants), men do the same (fancy
>cars)

but it is superficial isn't it? is that all we can hope for in terms of the way we socially communicate with one another? maybe i can't afford a fancy car, where does that leave me in the pecking order?

>people use sex to form connections no matter how fleeting or
>shallow, because emotions are difficult and erratic. also sex
>physically feels better than a physiological emotional bond

hmm. do you choose and hope to achieve perfect physicality over emotional control?

you're right of-course that emotions are difficult and erratic, but, i think that beast can be tamed. i think in many ways, emotions are programmed impulses we have trained ourselves to have. all these patterns can be changed and unlearned, we can gain full control on how we emotionally react to just about anything.



>>why do married men stray?
>
>marriages and the rest of life require a ton of energy, it can
>be difficult for a sex life to be strong. But if there's a
>side piece who only has one function, that answers your
>question
>

I'm not married so that's why I ask. Why can't the wife be the side piece? Is it because she doesn't have any energy either, or perhaps, maybe it has a bit to do with the constant social programming of getting as much ass as possible?


> have you ever looked at a
>>woman and wondered about her character
>
>no, that isnt how eyes work. we process what we see

I'm speaking about the way we process and why.

>
>nothing is destructive about visual attraction
>

All that glitters is not gold.

  

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25. "How invasive it's become bothers me"
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I remember as a teen I got too into porn (tapes at the time) and I committed to not purchasing them or anything and was actually doing a very good job at it. Then internet porn just took off and it was like-- it was easy to avoid when you had to go to some seedy place to get it, but now it's in my house with little to no buffer or barrier save for my self control.

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28. "Exactly"
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It's in our faces, all the time, every day. When I was younger, a suggestive picture of a woman in a short skirt was enough to have me watch porn to follow that through. Getting self control over that was not easy.

  

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16. "I do get your point, we're inundated with it"
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between tumblr and porn sites, what used to be taboo has become the norm and it has warped our minds

but I still think you're the Feds

  

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initiationofplato
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18. "i want to have a daughter someday"
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i fear i'm going to bring her into a world full of men who will look at her as nothing but an object they can use to satisfy their perversion with, and i fear she will become brainwashed into thinking that her physicality can be used to manipulate and exploit. i think these are real concerns men need to work out.

don't blow my cover. i got quota's to meet.

  

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22. "every man should hope to succeed as a father"
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29. "True."
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19. "Hi, Case"
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FUCK DONALD TRUMP

  

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20. "^^ So desparate. "
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32. "^^^ So obvious."
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23. "I'd be more bothered as a woman. "
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all these sexy bodies that don't look like mine.

men drool and I just notice while thinking, 'I guess that's what they like'

  

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initiationofplato
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31. "that's definitely a big part of the problem"
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women living in doubt and insecurity because the status quo has given us idols of perfect women which are not even human anymore. photoshop != humanity.

  

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24. "you will never catch me complaining about looking at titties"
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titties. I love them.

“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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26. "You're threatening the status quo and the foundation of hyper-masculinit..."
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Good luck with that lol

"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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30. "lol, true"
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Talk about going up against an army, haha, but still, I'm sure many of us have thought about it, and many of us have thought about our own emotions as men, and many of us, have cast them off to the side and continued with conquest as the status quo has suggested.

We live in a social culture based on a fearful attitude (God and nature is what we fear), and a fearful attitude to reality which makes all of us feel as if we don't belong on this planet, and thus, we set out to conquer it. The two great symbols of man are the rocket (to conquer space) and the bulldozer.

  

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33. "You know incognito mode does really protect you right?"
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IT can still see all that stuff

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35. "Yes I know."
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34. "Actually according to studies frequent ejaculation prevents prostate can..."
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dude

  

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