Messican. Coworker just told me a story

She was with a dude for a year. Black dude. Her family took like 4-5 months warming up to him.

He hit her repeatedly one nite in April drunk one night. She left him cold turkey.

Dude been trying to get in in since then then.

She won't have it.

She hasn't told any of her (huge sized) family members what dude did.

They just think they broke up

She goes out to eat with family and always someone calls dude(they like him and want her to give him another shot) to meet them up n shit.

She tells me she don't wanna tell her dad n uncles n brothers cause they'd lay hands on dude and she just wanna leave it be.

BUT DUDE DONT STOP TRYING TO CONTACT, FOLLOW, HARASS LIGHTWEIGHT HER.

Nigga sent her a BOOKAY of flowers here today....

i'm the only person(besides one of her good homegirl friends) that knows dude hit her...

Poll result (16 votes) I've struck my S/O before and they stayed (4 votes) Vote I've struck my S/O before they bounced (0 votes) Vote I've been struck by my S/O before and I stayed (3 votes) Vote I've been struck by my S/O before and I bounced (3 votes) Vote I've been struck by Whiteness. (6 votes) Vote

anyway

Dude's family reached out to her asking her what the deal is with them...or what the not deal is lol.

@geahuwine

i think she gotta tell them though

@geahuwine

will fuck him up if they find him)
when she has moved on and isn't with dude any more?
i would say that i caught him fucking a friend or something
so they won't invite him any more

>i would say that i caught him fucking a friend or something
>so they won't invite him any more

Messicans ain't playin that. Daddy, uncles, and brothers (and prolly lil cousin Chuey) will be lookin to issue a critical beatdown over some shit like that... and then her momma, aunts, and sisters (and cousin Lupe) will be lookin for the chick.


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She still cared enough about dude and her family to keep it quiet. Hopefully she can be 100% firm with them both and have that be the end of it.

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I dated a girl who was hit by her ex and she stayed. The psychological damage it created was too difficult for me to deal with at the time. I did my best to help her but the relationship eventually fell apart.

Girl asked me to hit her several times if we argued. I think she believed that was the only way to settle arguments.

Otherwise, she could get a Temporary Order of Protection.

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Will they beat the shit out of dude or will they ask her "what did you do to make him hit you?"

i'm guessin' they'd whoop his ass.

he had the potential to be violent with her
they wouldn't have warmed up to him period
8/10 says they still call him to come around simply because they don't know

here for dis.

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here for dis.

I have never been struck by an S.O.

Why is that not an option?

This is fucked up.
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it didn't hurt (it was on my arm) and I called her out on and it and she realized she was bugging.


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LOL

fuck you.

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I know it can be hard with a large and engaged family but they shouldn't be going behind her back anyway, no matter the reason.

I think she'd have to reveal it to them at this point but she ought to still say "I GOT THIS" but reserve that right to call in the goons.

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she should tell her family what happened
let the dude get the well deserved ass whooping coming to him
and only then can she entertain the idea of not taking him back.
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miserable niggas yo
cant let nobody have nothing
"god save the queen pip pip cheerio tea time princess di" ass niggas (c)white desus

She would kick/bite me damn near weekly (It didn't really have much impact since she was way smaller than me)


She wanted me to give her a black eye on Valentines day, it didn't work out too well.

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
Dec 29th 2009 - Dec 17th 2017

I ask this because I've concluded she might like the attention even if she isnt taking him back

hell, she could just tell her family "he's harassing me" and dude would still get dealt with

her not exercising either option seems shaky

her getting a restraining order
would involve telling people what happened
she obviously doesn't want anyone to know
and wants to move on

but that doesnt seem to be what's happening from what Geah is saying
he isnt respecting her space
society has these measures in place to aid in protecting people
hell, my ex had the police call me and politely ask that I stop contacting her because I was calling her trying to work it out DAY 1 OR 2 AFTER A BREAKUP like a normal person
phone calls werent enough of a case to go through with a restraining order, but yeah all she has to say to cops or her family is "dude wont leave me alone"

http://www.americanbar.org/groups/domestic_violence/resources/statistics.html

- 28% of female victims and 10% of male victims obtained a protective order. 69% of female victims and 81% of male victims had the protection order violated.

Some people just DGAF.

here for dis.

she'd better get prepared.

he choked me and kicked me...I left...

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