"what's your theory on attraction between strangers?" Tue Jun-02-15 10:57 AM by Deadzombie
my long-running theory was that from birth, our brains are constantly evaluating each and every face that we come in contact with.
we take the inventory of faces and attach a measurement of pleasure and pain associated with that face. everyone, your teachers, cab drivers, baby sitters, obnoxious strangers. everyone.
so, after a while we have this subconscious, enormous inventory of faces that we have a lot relative data on. and when we come in contact with a new face, we make an immediate assessment of attraction.
1. "i don't think its that deep" In response to Reply # 0
some people are more into physical appearance than others. Those people will make a judgment/assessment whether conscious or subconscious.
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7. "that's not true at all." In response to Reply # 5
maybe it is actually.
you already know how i feel about that though.
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
2. "I think I can tell in a split second whether I can or will like a woman" In response to Reply # 0
And it goes beyond the physical attractiveness of someones face and body. It's how they carry themselves, smile, dress, hair, etc.
I saw a woman today who was with her man and he was carrying her umbrella and she snapped at him about something and I was just like "damn I don't like you".
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3. "lol i'm the same way..but at the same time, i've allowed women to grow" In response to Reply # 2
on me. Like if you got a great sense of humor or someone that is always in a good/pleasant mood...that ups you at least 1-2 points
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
6. "well thats just silly and how you turn into a crazy stalker" In response to Reply # 4
writing "we were meant to be" on someone's walls in blood. Hopefully, not theirs.
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21. "Nothing is more unattractive to men then a woman expressing anger" In response to Reply # 2
Kim never angry kardashian is a perfect example of a woman who has totally embraced this. Kanye could do the worlds rudest dumbest thing or tell her to wear the dumbest outfit. She never never never expresses anger. It is the exact opposite of sexy in most male brains.
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13. "A group of random FAMU students did a "kiss a stranger" experiment" In response to Reply # 0
Some folks think it's staged. But I do wonder if folks do these type things and end up realizing they're attracted to someone right away, vs some being like "ugh, nahhh" even if they're physically attracted to them.
14. "i have not thought surface-level attraction needs explanation." In response to Reply # 0
or i've just assumed i'm attracted to dudes i think are hot b/c...i think they're hot.
i've done enough stuff w/randoms (like literal dudes i didn't know until minutes/seconds before the doing) but i haven't wondered why i did it. beyond, you know, being a horny dude.
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