How the fuck do I navigate this one? On Saturday she sends a text asking if we eat mushrooms and spinach. She says she is at a farmer's market and picked up some shit from a local grocer.

I come into work and she has a cooler bag with rolls, casserol, sides, etc. We just had a baby and this is her gift, she had a card to go with it but forgot it at home. Bringing another woman's food into a Black womans house is a deal breaker.

now, waaaaay back when we first bought a house we hosted thanksgiving and I was stupid and asked the bosses wife to make her banging ass Mac n Cheese. My wife wouldn't touch it. Gave me the "nigga, you breaking the #1 rule" speech. I learned that day... I knew. but since we had a new house and shit going on, I was trying lighten the load.

so.... what do I do? Do I Lie? Say I picked it up at some farmer's market on the way home? She can burn too....

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

or sneak it into the house, chop it up, cook it down, bag it up, freeze it.....enjoy free lunch for a month....


"Get ready..for your blessing..."

Seriously.

Obviously that's a no go for you but IMO that's the real solution here.

Granted I can't relate since my wife is pretty easy going when it comes to that sort of thing and she apparently didn't get this phantom gene most other black women seem to have that precludes them from accepting food cooked by another woman. I say that based on your statement, as I've never seen this manifest in any other black women I've ever known.

Honestly I doubt homeless shelters would take it. Maybe a friend outside your work circle? Otherwise, take it, smile, and toss it into a plant, clean the dish at work if it's something she'll need returned and call it a day.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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seems kinda silly. someone from your job is trying to help yall out. it's pretty customary for that type of shit to happen if you've just had a baby, or death in the family, or someone in the hospital etc.

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She's only picky about who cooked it, especially pet owners.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

They're all the exact same?

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

welcome back

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You asked for one thing, yet you're whining because you wanted something else.

Seems you could use a dose of serious.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

I'm dead serious.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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Try again.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

retirement for this.

.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

>RE: Kill yourself.
>I'm dead serious.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

Plus, you know, nobody asked for your opinion.

I realize that you're unhappy with me for giving your girl a taste of her own medicine for her relentless antagonism, but this is another situation where you simply haven't a goddamned clue.

Your prior good deed only holds so much weight when you keep taking me to task for throwing shit back on the face of people continually targeting me.

So kindly shut the fuck up and mind your own business.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

>Plus, you know, nobody asked for your opinion.

its why this is a message board.
>
> I realize that you're unhappy with me for giving your girl a
>taste of her own medicine for her relentless antagonism, but
>this is another situation where you simply haven't a goddamned
>clue.

no i dont take kindly to people telling others to kill themselves
i dont really care what else y'all got going, but this is stepping a line.

>
>Your prior good deed only holds so much weight when you keep
>taking me to task for throwing

its not even about this any more- thats the past and it wasnt such a big deal.
realizing that you are an asshole who doesnt deserve shit in life- doesnt change the fact that i did it with good intentions- which is all that matters, at the end of the day
so no, this is not about that at all

this about what looks to me like callous vindictive behaviour
that is completely unnecessary and unwarranted

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

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i dont take kindly to people telling others to kill
>themselves
>i dont really care what else y'all got going, but this is
>stepping a line.

Fuck you and your arbitrary moral boundaries, I don't need to adhere to that.

>realizing that you are an asshole who doesnt deserve shit in
>life-

Callous? Bitch, THIS is callous right here. You've made such a complete character judgment with very little knowledge of who I am as a result of limited online interactions with people who play in the same mud. You're a judgmental, contextually ignorant piece of trash. I deserve every good thing that's come my way, bitch. Either get used to being spoken to like that or leave me be. Simple. You deserve no less and will be given no less, you disgusting pig.

doesnt change the fact that i did it with good
>intentions- which is all that matters, at the end of the day
>so no, this is not about that at all

I didn't say it was about that, but you're good for ignoring context. I already know. Anyhow you can expect nothing but the utmost disrespect from me from here on out. If you don't like it, uou, know, ignore me

>this about what looks to me like callous vindictive behaviour
>that is completely unnecessary and unwarranted

No you hideous bitch, you see what you have chosen to see and ignored what you've chosen to ignore. The end.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

i dont take kindly to people telling others to kill
>themselves
>i dont really care what else y'all got going, but this is
>stepping a line.

Fuck you and your arbitrary moral boundaries, I don't need to adhere to that.

>realizing that you are an asshole who doesnt deserve shit in
>life-

Callous? Bitch, THIS is callous right here. You've made such a complete character judgment with very little knowledge of who I am as a result of limited online interactions with people who play in the same mud. You're a judgmental, contextually ignorant piece of trash. I deserve every good thing that's come my way, bitch. Either get used to being spoken to like that or leave me be. Simple. You deserve no less and will be given no less, you disgusting pig.

doesnt change the fact that i did it with good
>intentions- which is all that matters, at the end of the day
>so no, this is not about that at all

I didn't say it was about that, but you're good for ignoring context. I already know. Anyhow you can expect nothing but the utmost disrespect from me from here on out. If you don't like it, uou, know, ignore me

>this about what looks to me like callous vindictive behaviour
>that is completely unnecessary and unwarranted

No you hideous bitch, you see what you have chosen to see and ignored what you've chosen to ignore. The end.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

When you say "stalking", do you mean dude is intruding into your private life on OKP?

Or do you mean you have allowed him to antagonize you with replies on a public message board?

Because only one of those is actually stalking.

And before your stock reply of "what about him??", please know that I have made no secret of my disgust for him many times over.

WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

>When you say "stalking", do you mean dude is intruding into
>your private life on OKP?

Perhaps I'm the idiot for assuming that everyone understands the rather clear context of my use of the term "stalking", but but there it is.

>Or do you mean you have allowed him to antagonize you with
>replies on a public message board?
>
>Because only one of those is actually stalking.

Sure, if you're being intentionally dishonest about the obvious context if my use of the term "stalking".

I'll humor you and assume you're not just playing dumb. I clearly mean "stalking" in regard to his continued habit of following my posts and deliberately trying to antagonize me here on OKP. I avoid his posts and it's rare when I actually reply to a post of his, yet he's always good for some snark no matter what I post or when I post.

Now, if you want to nitpick my phrasing to death and pretend that I'm not saying it in an obviously specific context so you can feel comfortable saying CT is crazy, knock yourself out. You and I both know that's a dishonest conclusion but whatever.

Oh, and this nonsense about me "allowing" him to antagonize me is dishonest as well. He says what he says whether I respond or not.when I choose to ignore him, his comments are still there, and yet I'm still the guy you have an issue with in those exchanges.

>And before your stock reply of "what about him??", please know
>that I have made no secret of my disgust for him many times
>over.

That stock reply is stocked with good reason: you pretty much only call me out whenever there's a back and forth between he and I. That's the damned truth. For a guy who is so disgusted by him, it's odd that you only zero in on me in exchanges that are nearly always initiated by him.

Basically everything about your preoccupation with me in my interactions with people who, at a minimum, throw an equal amount of shade my way is completely dishonest.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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You've damn near had a bat signal attached to my screen name since the day you logged in under your screen name.

Your post went poast and you look like a damned fool. Deal with it

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

you got 40 post up on this bitch.

keep up the good work.

everyone is reading your crazy... don't stop now. double up.

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for lunch.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

Bringing
>another woman's food into a Black womans house is a deal
>breaker.
>

i still blame hip-hop.

I was expecting some jokes

yall too serious.

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So, OKP is dead because you asked what appeared to be a serious question that got honest answers in response?

God forbid!!

You're on some Rosey Perez in White Men Can't Jump shit, talking about you're thirsty and getting mad when people bring you water because we didn't read your mind to know what you REALLY meant.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

you said she just had a baby? she might appreciate the meal.

put it in the fridge and there's your lunch for the week.

this is a weird rule though...pretty standard for folks to bring you food when you have a kid. isn't she tired as shit? she might appreciate it. tell her some dude made it if that helps.

http://www.youtube.com/user/gumzization
twitter: @BrosefMalone

for a woman to cook for you and you alone. But it is not a violation for a woman to eat another woman's cooking. Ain't no way.


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Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

Five Star - https://goo.gl/jBHbVv
Appropriate Behavior - http://goo.gl/isCzTM
Ma

pretty sure as long as it's for both of us I'd never get so much as a side-eye, but *shrug*

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

i can't see your wife being cool with donna the secretary cooking chicken for your house.

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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

That put that chick into the penalty box for a minute.

Also my wife doesn't cook so the rules are totally different. We both especially grateful for some home cook meals.





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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

Five Star - https://goo.gl/jBHbVv
Appropriate Behavior - http://goo.gl/isCzTM
Ma

Whether that's fixing him a plate at a BBQ or making dishes for him.... Whether it's some single chick that's after him or some older woman trying to throw shade.

A new baby, though, is reasonable excuse... I'm sure people are dropping off all kinds of dishes. This is only an issue if the wife has some other reason to dislike or not trust the intentions of the bosses wife.

How often does the bosses wife come up in conversation?

<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->
<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->

take the tiny ones you have now and make a new casserole with them.

take that one home.


problem solved.

d

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

Five Star - https://goo.gl/jBHbVv
Appropriate Behavior - http://goo.gl/isCzTM
Ma

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https://soundcloud.com/swageyph/yph-die-with-me

Not quite what you were hoping for 8 know, but it's jokes!

actually that was sound advice. You should probably take it.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

http://soundcloud.com/djshinobishaw
http://www.rareformnyc.com
http://twitter.com/DJShinobiShaw
https://twitter.com/RareFormNYC
PSN: ShinobiShaw

"Arm Leg Leg Arm How you doin?" (c)T510

and do the cobra dance while you give your wife the dick nugget combo

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-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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https://soundcloud.com/swageyph/yph-die-with-me

https://youtu.be/fi8MI7jjpSY

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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>

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Now...feel free to add on that there was a chick you were smashing behind her back who used to send food home all the time and your wife was sitting there eating her snacks not knowing she was the Clean Up Woman...and we'll understand.

But as it stands...this is some new nigga 1st world problem shit that is alien to most of us.

Let somebody offer to cook dinner for my wife up in this bitch.

Shiiiiiiiiiiiiit

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This is a black woman thing none of us can grasp unless our wives are black, except for mine, who is apparently a mutant.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.