nor am I sitting around waiting to get chose. I don't have a sister circle of female single friends that gather to lament the lonely lot in life.

I am very proud of my education and my professional achievements. All hard earned with long hours and lots of sacrifices. Nobody put me on. I don't start introductions of myself with my title or where I work. I wear nice clothes and eat well because I can afford it and as my name is the only one on the bill/account that means I get to choose what fits for me.

I don't expect you to hold the door open for me and when you do I usually smile or say thank you. If I'm in the bar I am not rolling three deep I am usually posted up chatting with the bar tender solo. Yes he does make my drink just right, after all I am paying and I tip well.

If I ask you out I firmly expect to pay or if you insist drop 1/2. Yes I'm in the nail and hair salon but I don't have a weave and my nails are my own. No I don't expect or want you to pay for it. Those are my standards for me.


I know you don't know what to make of me yet but just in case.

- I have a daddy, he's my best friend and he's still married to my mom 50 years and they like each other.

- No I don't have children. I might at some point but there isn't a clock or a gun to my head. I am a kickass godmother though.

- I have girlfriends and guy friends. Most I've known for 15+ years. No introvert here.

- I don't have cats. I did have a cat but I am now more a dog person. I share my sisters dog.

- I don't have a kameeelah ass list.
- I don't think I know everything, but I know myself.
- I am not a bitch.
- I date regularly.


I don't think I am intimidating. I think you just don't want me and have 0 interest in getting to know me. And thats ok. Its too much work maybe. I think it helps you somehow or some way to label me a bitter black broad waiting to get chose. I think it makes it easier for you. But you don't know me at all but on the daily you find new ways to cut me down and diminish me. Meanwhile you are a single maybe childless male and nobody has a negative thing to describe you. Why not the same for me?


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You posting in a hoe's tone (c) monkeynuts

you just ran down all this shit abt how awesome u are (& u are) then ended it w/ why yall talking abt MEEE?

nobody IS talking abt you DUH.

meanwhile the most bummed out bunch of babys he dont pay for no job having dude out there will hear chicks talking abt ppl JUST like him...& be laffing like shit...because in his mind they aint talking abt HIM...they talking abt other ppl

its either:

- she bitter
- shes a cat lady
- she waiting to get chose
- she's a bitch

etc etc.

You resemble this remark.


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You posting in a hoe's tone (c) monkeynuts

if it aint abt u, who cares?

shit if it IS abt u, but said by someone (like me) who dont matter...? who cares?!

who cares what some stranger got to say, most ppl are hypocritical haters anyway


do or die

if only there were more like you.

we get quickly thrown in a box.



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You posting in a hoe's tone (c) monkeynuts

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But I think you all get thrown in the box because it seems that women place more importance on the value of those sorts of things, and are more outspoken about it. I you all do more judging when it comes to this sort of thing than men do. Men don't really care...at least in my opinion.

Im not deep, Im just a regular dude, with a little bit of sense, trying to he happy.

i could date a lot of men, i could waste my time on any number of suitors that i don't particularly like for one reason or another

it would be easy for me to be "wifed" because thats what women are supposed to do, right?

but instead, god forbid, i'd rather be alone than settle for someone i think is corny, dumb, uninteresting, or whatever else

because of that you think i'm defective. whats wrong with her? she too pretty to not have a man.

i agree, but unfortunately my looks don't make my options any more attractive

so instead, i think i will get me a cat & new readers to boot

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

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You posting in a hoe's tone (c) monkeynuts

and not yall I'm just saying..

*Im pretty
*I make good money
*I'm smart*
*I'm nice
*I ain't a bitch about bullshit..

why I cant find someone.

and the truth is you maybe all of that. but shit that's life. hell accordingly I should be able to find a decent looking hoodrat with some intelligence and and a few goals/dreams it doesn't work like that all the time.

Honestly I think alot of "YOU" are looking for perfection and that's just not how life works.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

i didn't say woe is me, im pretty

i'm saying, people look at me like i'm defective/crazy/bitchy/ whatever because IN THEIR EYES i am too pretty to be single

i hear this shit all the time

has nothing to do with my ego

in fact, i didn't even get your point or why you'd say that to me

as you are..without a mate..dont know your age but lets say 28-30ish. either one of two thing come to mind and they dont have to be true

1. you are a bitch to be around or
2. you unstable.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

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You posting in a hoe's tone (c) monkeynuts

shes friendly...likes to go to the park and have picnics.

is great fun to be around, if that was the case she would be booed up already.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

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You posting in a hoe's tone (c) monkeynuts

niggas got sense too. and if its for the best or the wort we use that shit when hunting.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

you are confirming what i've already said

there is no issue here

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

is single but who gives a fuck what i want or expect

not expect you to, you know you're worth. BUT. that's why everything is a game. "you dont know about the game", "you in the dating game", "life is just a game". Its not as simple as you want it to be.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

i'm 24, by the way please don't give me them years just yet

anyway

people make the assumptions you just did & my only point is, i'm not with anybody because i dont want to settle

not because i'm an unstable bitch

so you just confirmed what i was saying

any one else tho.

Nobody is searching for a girl that will fuck someone else at the drop of a hat, can't cook, has no ambition, isn't worldly, thinks Tyler Perry is on a buster keaton level of genius, and does her nails everyday.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

whats settling for you?

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

because im 37 and single?

wow.

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@frawgystyle

something is up. but we wont get a chance unless we get to know you and if you just shooting everybody down for some Prince charming you have in your head then thats bullshit.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

just because YOU get shot down doesnt mean everyone is.

why waste time on someone that you already know isnt gonna be the one for you?

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@frawgystyle

Im attractive, cool, down to earth, smart hood and unemployed. sounds like a recipe for marriage in Real life

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

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@frawgystyle

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

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@frawgystyle

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

<-------- definitive proof I never would get with a white girl...


http://www.tumblr.com/tumblelog/inner-city-griot

Buy something: http://www.electrocart247.co.uk/

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You posting in a hoe's tone (c) monkeynuts

its subtle, everyone has a thought process. can you REALLY talk negatively about other peoples thoughts. thats not fair. If I think your pussy stink...it may not be true..but if I dont holla cause of that. thats just my fuck up.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

if thats what you want then you are right. but if you want to be booed up then there are issues keeping you from doing so.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

not all women engage in fuck buddy actions.

there are some women that actually DONT have sex at all unless involved in a relationship/married.

u cant assume just because one woman does, that all women do. thats not fair and its just plain wrong.

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@frawgystyle

its a million different type of people. come on Churl

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

Do you always have negative thoughts when it comes to women? In general not about sex or anything.

Stayls aka Peaches Cochran (THE REAL STAYLS)

Yes Natty!™

Don't try to downplay Pac and get mad because MC Underground with his complicated flows and lyrics can't move a crowd even if he pointed a gun at them. -Clash Sic

there are a myriad of reasons as to why you could be singgle

work, timing, location, etc.

if you don't choose to be single and you ARE single then WTF. Yall just ignore reason for the hell of it.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

yall mfers kill me
you say oh you choose to be single that's why your alone
your standards are too high

so if a woman gets with any random dude, oh you pick shiftless ass mfers so you deserve to be treated that way

there is a lot of wading through bad folks before you ultimately meet the right match for you. it aint like trying on a pair of shoes.

dating for men and women is difficult even without a kameelah ass list. and even if you end up boo'd up it doesn't mean its going to work out. its working FOR NOW.

you are 100% accurate but the problem is..or the issue is you dont seem to understand how chick beneath you get men ABOVE them. and its not because of pussy. Im pretty sure your pussy is good, head is good and you smell like summers eve. But THAT is not all. its complex. especially if you are actually a good girl.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

rational discussion with you is done.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

spew bullshit and confirm hatred

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

you want the opinion of a heart surgeon then see you later. If you want to hear something much more down to earth, well I'm you're man, I'm not going to give you typical okspeak, cause I'm 99% sure I will never see any of you all in my lifetime. I'm just telling you what I imagine what the regular cats will tell you.

AP

*Cocaine Alumni*

<-------- definitive proof I never would get with a white girl...


http://www.tumblr.com/tumblelog/inner-city-griot

Buy something: http://www.electrocart247.co.uk/

... surely you know what this dude is on. Save your keystrokes.

<-------- definitive proof I never would get with a white girl...


http://www.tumblr.com/tumblelog/inner-city-griot

Buy something: http://www.electrocart247.co.uk/

There were a lot of angry black men in there *shivers
I don't know how they couldn't see it.

_____________________

People are not taking some responsibility on the people that they choose to date. Some men and women have a problem with seeing this. If you can change you and be honest with yourself you'll prolly have a very great relationship to come.

Stayls aka Peaches Cochran (THE REAL STAYLS)

Yes Natty!™

Don't try to downplay Pac and get mad because MC Underground with his complicated flows and lyrics can't move a crowd even if he pointed a gun at them. -Clash Sic