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"American Academy Of Pediatrics On Spanking Children: Don't Do It, Ever."


          

https://www.npr.org/2018/11/11/666646403/the-american-academy-of-pediatrics-on-spanking-children-dont-do-it-ever


Twenty years after urging caution among parents who choose to discipline their children with spankings, the American Academy of Pediatrics has updated its stance. Now, its overwhelming consensus for parents: do not do it.

In a new policy statement issued earlier this month, the group warns that "Aversive disciplinary strategies, including all forms of corporal punishment and yelling at or shaming children, are minimally effective in the short-term and not effective in the long-term. With new evidence, researchers link corporal punishment to an increased risk of negative behavioral, cognitive, psychosocial, and emotional outcomes for children."

The advisory for parents and adults "to avoid physical punishment and verbal abuse of children" comes at a time when support of such discipline is on the decline. As the AAP detailed in its policy statement:

An analysis of a 2016 national survey conducted by yougov.com revealed that respondents with young children in the home, regardless of race and ethnicity, did not support corporal punishment, "suggesting the possibility that a generational shift in social norms may be taking place.

Despite these shifting attitudes, several states continue to have laws on the books that explicitly allow schools to perform corporal punishment, as NPR reported just last year.

"But the majority of states do not and I would hope that we would continue to shift in the direction of encouraging nonphysical punishment," said Dr. Jennifer Shu, pediatrician and author of Baby and Child Health: The Essential Guide from Birth to 11 Years, in an interview with NPR's Lulu Garcia-Navarro.

Shu presented the AAP's findings alongside Dr. Robert Sege, an author of the updated policy Effective Discipline to Raise Healthy Children. She said the evidence shows that spankings do more harm than good when it comes to a child's development.

"We know that the brain does not grow and develop as well once there has been physical punishment to the point where it can cause learning problems, problems with vocabulary and memory, as well as aggressive behavior," Shu said.

Verbal reprimands were found by the AAP to be detrimental to a child's health as well.

"Anything that's verbally abusive in addition to being physically abusive can change the brain architecture," Shu said. "Basically, these are adverse childhood events that can cause toxic stress that can lead to health problems as well as emotional problems as a child reaches the pre-teen and teen years."

A less harmful way to discipline children effectively would be to reward good behavior and stay consistent with expectations, Shu said.

"Some children might respond to timeouts, a minute per year of age for ages 2 to 5 basically," Shu said. "So sometimes having that timeout to take a break and regroup can help them calm down and then see why that behavior was not good."

Though physical disicpline has been part of American culture for generations, Shu said the research is clear — it is time for change.

"I think it's great that so many parents did get spanked growing up and turned out what seems to be ok, but knowing what we do now, we really need to avoid physical punishment because we know that can be harmful," Shu said.

And what does Shu think about the argument that people who received spankings as kids turned out fine? She compares it to growing up at a time when car seats weren't required for young children.

"There weren't any car seats, for example when I grew up, we turned out fine – those of us who lived to tell about it," Shu said. "But now that we have safety information and car seats, we do recommend that everybody use them all the time."

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American Academy Of Pediatrics On Spanking Children: Don't Do It, Ever. [View all] , PimpTrickGangstaClik, Mon Nov-12-18 07:53 AM
 
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there's a movement towards not doing this,
Nov 12th 2018
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I've come to realized a lot of traumatized f'd up ppl are walking around
Nov 12th 2018
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      yup.
Nov 12th 2018
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      Hardest thing to accept when being true to yourself...
Nov 12th 2018
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      its because
Nov 12th 2018
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           It's easy to say it's unreasonable
Nov 13th 2018
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                its not unreasonable to take ownership
Nov 14th 2018
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                     this whole thread is about w/n spanking is to their detriment
Nov 16th 2018
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      Yeah, nobody who says that
Nov 12th 2018
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Binhalab made a good point a few years back
Nov 12th 2018
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so did SoWhat
Nov 12th 2018
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Yeah, that sounds like the argument SoWhat would make.
Nov 12th 2018
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the 2nd part of that was beat them again.
Nov 12th 2018
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      Looks like I missed your intent then
Nov 12th 2018
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      Whats terrible is that the way you mis-interpreted his point is
Nov 12th 2018
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ill do whatever i deem necessary to raise these kids
Nov 12th 2018
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damn right n/m
Nov 12th 2018
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I got my ass whupped. Now I realize that its just lazy parenting.
Nov 12th 2018
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I agree with you.
Nov 12th 2018
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Smh at Little nights needing a 30 minute convo on why it’s wrong
Nov 12th 2018
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What you are describing is lecturing. I hate lecturing and think that's...
Nov 12th 2018
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      No, I said convo.. that means there is a back and forth.
Nov 12th 2018
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           "talking" to a child for 30 minutes about why they are wrong sounds like
Nov 12th 2018
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                I see why it doesn’t work
Nov 12th 2018
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                     so don't lecture & don't spank
Nov 13th 2018
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                          Right? How can you possibly raise a kid without doing either? LOLOL.
Nov 13th 2018
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                          you think the Obama girls've never been slapped?!
Nov 13th 2018
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                               I am highly doubtful that the Obamas have ever slapped their children.
Nov 13th 2018
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                                    Why? Because they are famous and successful?
Nov 13th 2018
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                          Don’t raise your voice either.
Nov 13th 2018
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                               You gon' learn Tre'....
Nov 13th 2018
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RE: Now I realize that its just lazy parenting.-this, 100%
Nov 13th 2018
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oh, now you callin my mama LAZY?
Nov 13th 2018
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      RE: oh, now you callin my mama LAZY?
Nov 13th 2018
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      RE: oh, now you callin my mama LAZY?
Nov 13th 2018
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           Plenty of non spanked folks who struggle with jobs and housing
Nov 13th 2018
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                I never said non-spanking meant a great life.
Nov 13th 2018
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Spanking doesn't prepare your kids for shit
Nov 13th 2018
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sheeeeeeeiiiiiiitttttt.
Nov 12th 2018
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We are trying the no spanking
Nov 12th 2018
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I got spanked as a kid. I didn’t learn shit from it
Nov 12th 2018
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I didn’t but it’s because my older sisters did
Nov 12th 2018
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Time out can't be the only tool in the toolbox either I think
Nov 12th 2018
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the people who say spanking made them who they are
Nov 12th 2018
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Where you spanked?
Nov 12th 2018
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      just saying what?
Nov 12th 2018
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the problem with spanking is
Nov 12th 2018
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The evidence is always, "I turned out fine".
Nov 13th 2018
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meh
Nov 13th 2018
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Define ‘defiance’
Nov 13th 2018
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I tell you not to hit your baby brother and you look at me
Nov 13th 2018
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How you going to do posts about how much trouble you have molding
Nov 13th 2018
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      This ain’t cool bruh
Nov 13th 2018
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           How you trying to do the best AND be dismissive of what the AAP
Nov 13th 2018
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                Studies don’t raise kids.. parents do
Nov 13th 2018
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                     All you got is "shit gets real in the battlefield". Ok.
Nov 13th 2018
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                     No. I typed more than that but you are doing a great job ignoring shit
Nov 13th 2018
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                          What the fuck "the struggle" have to do with beating your kids?
Nov 13th 2018
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                               all these teachable moments are on some Cosby Show tv set
Nov 13th 2018
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                                    My dude, there is a difference between me saying I resort to spanking
Nov 14th 2018
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                     that's an extreme example.
Nov 13th 2018
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There are ways to exert your authority without spanking!!!! I have my
Nov 13th 2018
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Man the first time I put that scary face and voice on and saw my kids
Nov 13th 2018
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That's just it though...what happens after 3?? What's the driver behind ...
Nov 13th 2018
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      Yeah you're right about everything and I really don't like getting to th...
Nov 14th 2018
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           Felt. Wasn't coming at you BTW...just relating and the question was
Nov 14th 2018
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SoWhat smiled....
Nov 13th 2018
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SoWhat wept
Nov 13th 2018
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      yeah, at some of these replies. but he smiled at the study.
Nov 13th 2018
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           Indeed, indeed...
Nov 13th 2018
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I didn't get spanked....I got BEAT & WHUPPED though.....
Nov 13th 2018
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Man my soul cries these days when I see the parents cussing at their
Nov 13th 2018
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      Yeah the cursing too...yelling...though, i'm guilty of yelling...but I d...
Nov 13th 2018
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      When I got to repeat the same command 5 times to get my boy with AD/HD
Nov 13th 2018
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      RE: Man my soul cries these days when I see the parents cussing at their
Nov 13th 2018
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Spanking (corporal punishment)...
Nov 13th 2018
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Thinking of the post of the kids fighting with/punching their teachers
Nov 13th 2018
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Now a teacher throwing blows with a kid that squares up with you.
Nov 13th 2018
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      right.
Nov 13th 2018
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      Sorry what?
Nov 13th 2018
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           Nah. They will grow up thinking spanking is ok or not ok
Nov 13th 2018
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I don't do it myself, with the most rare of exceptions
Nov 13th 2018
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I'm always reluctant to get into these convos
Nov 13th 2018
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Good post
Nov 13th 2018
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My daughters are the ones who get it faster
Nov 13th 2018
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yeah this is all bs.
Nov 13th 2018
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This is what I meant by super emotional
Nov 13th 2018
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where's the emotion?
Nov 14th 2018
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Calling someone's approach BS is emotional
Nov 14th 2018
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      I don't think you know what emotion is.
Nov 14th 2018
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           I very well know what it is...apparently you don't
Nov 15th 2018
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Folks without kids have all the answers
Nov 14th 2018
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      lollllllll
Nov 14th 2018
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Folks will justify their behaviors to the grave
Nov 13th 2018
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      mans created a whole system out of nothing
Nov 14th 2018
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      As opposed to no reason for actions?
Nov 14th 2018
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           As opposed to, considering the costs of getting desired results
Nov 14th 2018
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           Those 'costs' are speculative at best
Nov 14th 2018
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                I’m not reading all that, they’re clearly quantifiable
Nov 14th 2018
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                Bruh, how you go in and then refuse to read the response? Lmao
Nov 14th 2018
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                     Because I didn’t go in.
Nov 14th 2018
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                          Yeah.. you seem more emotional than he/she is right now.
Nov 14th 2018
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                               Right on.
Nov 14th 2018
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                People FAIRLY hyperventilate on being told how to raise their kids
Nov 14th 2018
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                     Seems you're more interested in judgement than discussion
Nov 14th 2018
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                          I don’t care what you do with your kids or your reasons why
Nov 14th 2018
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                               Yet, here you and post #84 are
Nov 14th 2018
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                                    I’m judging YOU in those posts
Nov 14th 2018
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                                         Alright Meat, I see you've tapped out so I'll let you rock with this;
Nov 14th 2018
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                                              “Folks will justify their behaviors to their graves” (c) me
Nov 14th 2018
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                                                   "Judging me when you are nobody to do so" (c) you
Nov 14th 2018
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                                                        Guess I’ll need to be spanked to get the message
Nov 14th 2018
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                                                             The spanking is over already
Nov 14th 2018
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                                                                  OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH!!!!!!!
Nov 14th 2018
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                                                                  FATALITY!!!
Nov 15th 2018
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           right. that's why you use this system on people who are big enough
Nov 14th 2018
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                Lol...this is easy
Nov 15th 2018
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                     Damn bruh, you fathering these dudes up in here.
Nov 15th 2018
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I'm not being emotional when I ask...You take a RULER to your kids?
Nov 13th 2018
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Maybe you are thinking T square
Nov 13th 2018
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lolol
Nov 13th 2018
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lmao
Nov 14th 2018
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To tell me what's not ok in MY house is emotional
Nov 14th 2018
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Yeah, no I can't imagine doing that to my daughter
Nov 14th 2018
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And I'm not asking you to do so
Nov 14th 2018
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Alot of words to say you do it as a last resort. Got that the first time...
Nov 14th 2018
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Well said. Did you mean to say "weren't" here though?
Nov 14th 2018
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I did. Thanks for catching that.
Nov 14th 2018
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RE: Alot of words to say you do it as a last resort. Got that the first ...
Nov 14th 2018
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      Acknowledging corporal punishment has origins in slavery isn't
Nov 14th 2018
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      I didn't want to really go there too deep because I have heard it but do...
Nov 14th 2018
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      No, thank YOU. I'm glad you did because now I'm not the only one lol
Nov 14th 2018
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      Let me say this
Nov 14th 2018
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           I hear ya. Even though we differ in opinion.
Nov 14th 2018
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                One of the things I've learned in my lifetime is
Nov 14th 2018
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                     America is violent.
Nov 15th 2018
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      Several people here, including yourself, said you Need to beat your kids...
Nov 14th 2018
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           Buddy, I appreciate your candor on this
Nov 14th 2018
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Anecdotal evidence doesn't overturn this study, fwiw.
Nov 14th 2018
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Thanks Frank, I appreciate your approach
Nov 14th 2018
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do what you have to do player.
Nov 14th 2018
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I'm of the opinion corporal punishment is a product of slavery, so good...
Nov 14th 2018
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What's wrong with I got spanked and turned out fine?
Nov 14th 2018
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Define "fine"
Nov 14th 2018
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Discipline instilled early and consequences for actions
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      What you describe is only a slither of what constitutes being "fine"
Nov 14th 2018
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           This is limited though
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                RE: This is limited though
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One problem is that there are a lot of fcuked up people talking about
Nov 14th 2018
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We are all fucked up in some way.. it has nothing to do with spanking
Nov 14th 2018
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      i can confidently say that a good portion of my fckedupness is
Nov 14th 2018
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      agreed
Nov 14th 2018
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Doctors and lawyers up in here blaming spanking for their terrible lives
Nov 14th 2018
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Those two industries have the highest rates of substance abuse by profes...
Nov 14th 2018
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And that has to do with spanking and not the high stress and stakes
Nov 14th 2018
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      Do you have a wrong conclusion dart board? Jesus Christ
Nov 14th 2018
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           Wow...let me correct this for you since you struggle with convo
Nov 14th 2018
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Oh we taking personal shots now?
Nov 14th 2018
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so you really think if you hadn't got slapped
Nov 14th 2018
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People really don’t get this ‘round here...
Nov 14th 2018
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sorta in this line...I know I needed certain beatings cuz I was
Nov 14th 2018
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Man don't "I needed to be Beaten" sound like some sunken place...
Nov 14th 2018
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      cant say that it does..I'm a firm believer that not enough people
Nov 14th 2018
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           LOL.
Nov 14th 2018
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                no doubt... I can dig it...I'm not pro beating or anti timeout
Nov 14th 2018
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There are no other ways to show how serious the situation is?
Nov 14th 2018
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The penitentiary is packed with folks who got spanked and whupped
Nov 14th 2018
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      it's the most bizarre argument of all time
Nov 14th 2018
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this is one of those topics we really shouldn't even bother with here.
Nov 14th 2018
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maybe. maybe not.
Nov 14th 2018
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valid point
Nov 14th 2018
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isnt that every topic at this point in our old lives?
Nov 14th 2018
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eh, not necessarily. but i see your point.
Nov 14th 2018
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i think it's worthwhile for a couple of reasons
Nov 14th 2018
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      but people are doing that in this post right now.
Nov 14th 2018
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      feel like the balance has shifted a bit at least.
Nov 14th 2018
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      I can't front, an okp post might have started me down this path.
Nov 14th 2018
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I wonder if a survey was done in prisons asking how many were
Nov 16th 2018
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Spanking and beatings are 2 different things
Nov 16th 2018
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Within this link thegodcam provided:
Nov 16th 2018
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      apparently spanking doesn't teach you how to read statistics
Nov 16th 2018
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Anyone out here really think this is part to f a healthy child
Dec 09th 2018
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cmon ..nobody does
Dec 09th 2018
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You really passing this off as a spanking?
Dec 09th 2018
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      Even if you wouldn't classify that level of violence as spanking
Dec 09th 2018
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