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"and down goes aziz"


  

          

https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355

some mixed reactions on twitter tho...

  

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and down goes aziz [View all] , sndesai1, Sun Jan-14-18 03:00 AM
 
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i gave head twice and dropped clues that it was uncomfortable
Jan 14th 2018
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no matter how many times we tell y'all...
Jan 14th 2018
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how are dudes supposed to know if women don't speak up?
Jan 15th 2018
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normally consenual acts being done under duress =/= consent
Jan 14th 2018
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the narrative in the article makes me dislike the accuser but
Jan 14th 2018
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      pretty good summary, feel the same n/m
Jan 15th 2018
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"you ignored clear non-verbal cues".
Jan 14th 2018
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this quote here from her:
Jan 14th 2018
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yes
Jan 14th 2018
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      lol that bugged me for some reason too.
Jan 14th 2018
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      I thought I was the only on bugging out over red wine lol
Jan 14th 2018
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      these are the points I struggle with
Jan 14th 2018
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      though, on the other hand, mixed signals don't seem sexy to me.
Jan 14th 2018
43
      really good point here:
Jan 14th 2018
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      Yup seems like there were signs she ain't like from jump
Jan 14th 2018
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      yeah the wine thing threw me too lol
Jan 14th 2018
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      you know what? i hadnt even picked up on the pattern of behavior
Jan 14th 2018
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      well, if she speaks up she can't paint him in this negative light
Jan 15th 2018
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           You really think that was her goal?
Jan 15th 2018
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                I definitely think its possible
Jan 16th 2018
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yeah this where im at.
Jan 14th 2018
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I keep saying it, but these dudes need to just go ahead and BUY
Jan 14th 2018
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bought sex makes the experience fake.
Jan 14th 2018
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you think all of these powerful men's sexual encounters are "real"?
Jan 14th 2018
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to them they are.
Jan 14th 2018
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      then they're wrong and need to get some perspective
Jan 14th 2018
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It does take out a good amount of the ambiguity and risk though
Jan 14th 2018
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so does pretending you don't notice the woman isn't into you.
Jan 14th 2018
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^this is kind of a great point
Jan 14th 2018
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also, how do you know? have you bought sex?
Jan 14th 2018
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      naw i just know a couple people who have
Jan 14th 2018
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THANK YOU!!!!
Jan 14th 2018
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Best Answer EVER! The Male Ego is the problem
Jan 14th 2018
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There's the whole ILLEGAL part of it too.... I'm just saying...
Jan 14th 2018
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haha.. right?
Jan 15th 2018
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      you know!?... the only real answer is "CONTROL YA BALLS"
Jan 15th 2018
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           Rub one out AFTER they leave.
Jan 15th 2018
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A hit to the Ego? Nawww they're looking at it wrong
Jan 15th 2018
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this assumes that you cannot sexually assault a prostitute..
Jan 15th 2018
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      I'm well aware you can Sexually assault a SW and I think that's
Jan 15th 2018
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           this is actually a very interesting point.
Jan 16th 2018
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Sounds like an episode of his show.
Jan 14th 2018
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RE: Sounds like an episode of his show.
Jan 14th 2018
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Comedians literally be telling us their dysfunction LOL
Jan 14th 2018
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"Oh, you mean,second date?" *pours wine*
Jan 14th 2018
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creep moves.
Jan 14th 2018
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The gospel right chea ^^^^
Jan 14th 2018
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exactly. anyone who doesn't know doesn't want to know.
Jan 14th 2018
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he stopped too... and those folks could say you assaulted them
Jan 16th 2018
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yeah
Jan 14th 2018
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plain and simple...you have to move a woman's hand to your...
Jan 14th 2018
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damn
Jan 14th 2018
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(famous) men who are pussy hounds have to be crass/potentially awkward
Jan 14th 2018
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Edit: I do have a comment
Jan 14th 2018
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thank you for this.
Jan 14th 2018
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Meh. This isn't the same level of Harvey or Spacey.
Jan 14th 2018
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I'm in the same place
Jan 14th 2018
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given his act, and his characters
Jan 14th 2018
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      Given the characters he plays on tv?
Jan 14th 2018
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           that's exactly what the woman said in her interview
Jan 14th 2018
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Ugh.
Jan 15th 2018
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      That's not what he said at all.
Jan 15th 2018
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           RE: That's not what he said at all.
Jan 15th 2018
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                Lol not what I said at all
Jan 16th 2018
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                     So what is your point?
Jan 16th 2018
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                          I think it's because you replaced "could" with "supposed to"
Jan 16th 2018
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                               Lol exactly
Jan 16th 2018
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                               So sex was on his brain.
Jan 17th 2018
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                                    OK
Jan 18th 2018
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There was a pickup artist video posted on here one time...
Jan 14th 2018
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Underrated post....
Jan 15th 2018
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realest shxt written.
Jan 16th 2018
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https://media.giphy.com/media/NKYhvtKmAyXf2/giphy.gif
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response:
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On one hand I'm glad the woman came forward....
Jan 14th 2018
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      public image assassination is the only thing on the menu
Jan 14th 2018
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           if I was famous I wouldn't date for the next 3 to 5 years. lol
Jan 15th 2018
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                no you wouldn't
Jan 15th 2018
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                     while this might be true...
Jan 15th 2018
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                          I think I'd be in with the new,
Jan 15th 2018
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dag @ this atlantic piece:
Jan 14th 2018
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ooh this article will not go over well
Jan 14th 2018
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damn. *Mero fingers*
Jan 14th 2018
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Gotta appreciate the perspective n/m
Jan 14th 2018
51
Oh damn... this bout to get good
Jan 14th 2018
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holy shit. i don't understand this reaction at all.
Jan 14th 2018
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Is that all you got from it?
Jan 15th 2018
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think you missed the point
Jan 15th 2018
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i think i got the point
Jan 15th 2018
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Sounds like she understands intersectional theory very well
Jan 15th 2018
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i'll say it again, explain what she's getting at
Jan 15th 2018
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      Doesn't matter how many times you say it. The onus is on you to
Jan 15th 2018
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           nah, i'm trying to engage. i mean it, if i've got the wrong read
Jan 15th 2018
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                Cool...
Jan 15th 2018
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Imho its a case of right paragraph, wrong time
Jan 15th 2018
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      i can definitely get with that
Jan 15th 2018
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*popcorn gif*
Jan 15th 2018
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Here's the (long) Cat Person story she referenced, for context
Jan 15th 2018
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      Didn't see that ending coming.
Jan 15th 2018
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           this robert fellow sounds like an absolute loser
Jan 15th 2018
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           «Cat Person» IS fiction, but it sho nuff is a good read
Jan 15th 2018
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                RE: «Cat Person» IS fiction <- oh damn. that's a good story then
Jan 15th 2018
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           What? Now you know where that was heading.
Jan 16th 2018
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This is going to sound terrible but fuck it...
Jan 15th 2018
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Basically.
Jan 15th 2018
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      when I hear stories that end with "I went back to his place"
Jan 15th 2018
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Obligatory OH HE JUST LOOKS LIKE A CREEP comment
Jan 15th 2018
75
Awkward although fingers down the throat? WTF is that?
Jan 15th 2018
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Is that a pron move? Maybe it’s an Indian thing?
Jan 15th 2018
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Rapist technique trying to get her to pass out
Jan 15th 2018
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      lmao what?
Jan 15th 2018
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           lmaoooo
Jan 15th 2018
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                Dude is like PAGE 231 OF THE MODERN RAPIST'S HANDBOOK, DUH!
Jan 16th 2018
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                geez
Jan 16th 2018
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                     dude said he was going for the mandible claw
Jan 16th 2018
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so Red Wine or White Wine w/Lobster rolls? I'm torn?
Jan 15th 2018
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white wine: Muscadet, Chablis or Sancerre
Jan 15th 2018
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      yeah, Aziz def a creep then.
Jan 15th 2018
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           lolol. I think he was just being his food snob self there
Jan 15th 2018
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Aziz seemed pervy AF but that is more "When Starfucking Goes Wrong"
Jan 15th 2018
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Ionno, maybe it’s the show but he seems socially awkward
Jan 15th 2018
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a lot to process in this, not sure where to start.
Jan 15th 2018
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society has not put women in a position to say "no" in these circumstanc...
Jan 15th 2018
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      Not at all.
Jan 15th 2018
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           not sure but I think there is no reason to stay once you say no
Jan 15th 2018
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           well I think before he did that, he was going down on her.
Jan 15th 2018
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           yeah, I get it. Both parties want to be there but at different speeds
Jan 15th 2018
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                exactly, thats what I got from it. She legit says
Jan 15th 2018
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           meh she couldnt even speak up for what kind of wine* she wants
Jan 15th 2018
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                I agree, the onus has to also be on people to be more voiced
Jan 15th 2018
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           Nah, if there's a chance that saying no could mean death
Jan 15th 2018
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                but....it happens.
Jan 15th 2018
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                Which is why you can't be going to random niggas crib
Jan 15th 2018
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                     I can defend Aziz in this, but gotta defend her too.
Jan 15th 2018
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                          You are right, she should be able to voice that.
Jan 15th 2018
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                               Agreed, Aziz is not her viotalor.
Jan 16th 2018
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                I don’t think Aziz would kill her if she said no.
Jan 15th 2018
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                     not just about Aziz tho. We don't know what kind of dude he is.
Jan 15th 2018
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                          You say I'm not ready to do that, I just want to talk
Jan 15th 2018
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                               right? If he stopped her from leaving I could see her frustration
Jan 16th 2018
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                                    Right but to say that she's a woman, he's a man, she had no voice
Jan 16th 2018
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is this a case of men r from mars, women r from venus?
Jan 15th 2018
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yeah.
Jan 15th 2018
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that's probably a lot of it, but there seems to be an age component too
Jan 15th 2018
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innocent white girl vs. big bad brown man.....
Jan 15th 2018
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Kharisma projecting a LOT in this.
Jan 15th 2018
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Nah, she's incredibly on point, sexual issues aside and in life in gener...
Jan 15th 2018
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      Hey I mess with a lot of white chicks so I know lol
Jan 15th 2018
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           #metoo bruh
Jan 16th 2018
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                had a white girl lie on my boy and say he hit her..
Jan 16th 2018
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Whew lawd
Jan 15th 2018
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Daaaaamn
Jan 15th 2018
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YUUUUUUUUUP
Jan 16th 2018
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Yeah, this whole issue of white women & agency needs to be addressed
Jan 16th 2018
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it seems like the sort of thing everyone should have access to
Jan 16th 2018
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Where was this post made? I'd like to share it.
Jan 17th 2018
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Agree with ALL of this!
Jan 18th 2018
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He's cultivated this cuddly, exotic forest creature steez...But IRL....
Jan 15th 2018
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Not necessarily that simple
Jan 15th 2018
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      That's what y'all don't get.
Jan 15th 2018
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           Caping? Lol pretty much everyone here that sees both sides
Jan 15th 2018
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           who's caping? most folk say his moves were wack as shit
Jan 16th 2018
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NYT op ed swipe
Jan 15th 2018
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*stands in this line*
Jan 15th 2018
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All of this
Jan 15th 2018
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yep yep
Jan 15th 2018
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it's interesting how the campus rape debates are leaking off campus
Jan 15th 2018
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the Margret Atwood piece is worth reading:
Jan 16th 2018
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wait, this just got worse for me. he literally stopped when she said no?
Jan 16th 2018
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...and WaPo’s op ed (swipe)
Jan 15th 2018
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the poor mens
Jan 16th 2018
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      You're a white male, correct?
Jan 16th 2018
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           yup
Jan 16th 2018
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                Perhaps this accounts for your lack of understanding concerning the
Jan 16th 2018
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                     that's a fair assessment
Jan 16th 2018
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Ashleigh Banfield (CNN/HLN) aint with it. spews fire
Jan 16th 2018
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damn.
Jan 16th 2018
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"...a bad case of blue balls." End scene.
Jan 16th 2018
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llolol that caught me so off guard bruh.
Jan 16th 2018
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damn
Jan 16th 2018
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Y'all thought Chappelle was tripping. #Brittlespirits
Jan 16th 2018
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dave was (as always) too right
Jan 16th 2018
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ummmm.... I don't know if this is a good look for her
Jan 17th 2018
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writer responds by condemning Banfield's age and looks.
Jan 17th 2018
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      What a proud and awesome feminist.
Jan 18th 2018
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      This is such a lame response *smh* n/m
Jan 18th 2018
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The Katikatykate piece: (to answer all that tripe above)
Jan 16th 2018
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tl:dr the whole thing.
Jan 16th 2018
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My problem is you immediately went to physical intimidation and
Jan 16th 2018
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good post
Jan 16th 2018
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this was a decent read
Jan 16th 2018
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not here for it. riding with the Atlantic on this one.
Jan 16th 2018
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This bitch ain't shit - She was on a date..
Jan 16th 2018
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you know.. I totally glossed over that part
Jan 16th 2018
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Low Key astute observation.
Jan 16th 2018
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you just posted about pandering to harmful stereotypes
Jan 16th 2018
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      cosigning what?
Jan 16th 2018
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      what stereotype is that?
Jan 16th 2018
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           bitch, hoe, starfucker, etc.
Jan 16th 2018
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                the story painted him as both
Jan 16th 2018
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                     you can excuse it however y'all want, it's derogatory
Jan 16th 2018
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                          sticking your fingers down your date's throat
Jan 16th 2018
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                          I have no problem with being derogatory against an individual.
Jan 16th 2018
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                               these are all common defenses related to structural inequality
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                                    that definitely speaks to people's character
Jan 16th 2018
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                                    I think trying to arrange a date, while on a date is shitty.
Jan 16th 2018
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wasnt it at an event or something though? not necessarily a date-date
Jan 16th 2018
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      I don't think anyone thinks its the smoking gun that absolves Aziz
Jan 16th 2018
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calling this assault basically infantilizes women
Jan 16th 2018
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don't y'all get tired of doing the same gymnastics all the time?
Jan 16th 2018
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Yo Flabby Ass would be talking about tired of the gym.
Jan 16th 2018
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      shouts to you for checking out my new pics
Jan 16th 2018
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           new pics? You've gotten flabbier?
Jan 16th 2018
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                oh you're still jerking it to the old ones?
Jan 16th 2018
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                     Gross.
Jan 16th 2018
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                          ....but you're the one doing it.
Jan 16th 2018
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I'm reading the Larry Nassar article..
Jan 16th 2018
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yup...this is where i am on this.
Jan 16th 2018
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True
Jan 16th 2018
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Nope. because nassar was dismissed before this story happened
Jan 16th 2018
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this sounds like whataboutism, but i felt the same way abut Dushku story
Jan 16th 2018
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      it gives many people the time to feel superior.
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      for some it is, for some it isn't
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           show me the ones for whom it is and what they were doing
Jan 16th 2018
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                lol there's pieces all through this post
Jan 16th 2018
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                     that wasn't what I asked.
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                          cool. in that case i don't know or care what you're asking
Jan 17th 2018
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                               I know.
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      Yeah it is whataboutism.
Jan 16th 2018
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After the #MeToo backlash, an insider’s guide to French feminism
Jan 16th 2018
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American culture doesn't reflect
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..and look for the right things to >SAY.
Jan 16th 2018
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      i just have to join the convo to cosign both of these comments
Jan 17th 2018
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some good stuff in there
Jan 16th 2018
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how can we hit the reset button?
Jan 16th 2018
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That encounter read like a bad timeshare presentation
Jan 16th 2018
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damn, aziz...
Jan 16th 2018
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IDK if you make rape jokes in your standup that shit can look bad later
Jan 17th 2018
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Everything looks bad later
Jan 17th 2018
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Perspective: She was naked the first 2 hours
Jan 17th 2018
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What's interesting is, you can take everything she said as true
Jan 17th 2018
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      She learned the grass is not greener the hard way
Jan 17th 2018
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      Someone above said he apologized so it must be all true.
Jan 17th 2018
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But how dude write a book about Modern Dating....
Jan 17th 2018
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Its in alot of S&M porn. There’s an interesting doc on netflix
Jan 17th 2018
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      I always wonder around the consent talk.
Jan 17th 2018
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      I don't know how you're a middle aged dude and can't ask
Jan 17th 2018
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           First off I am 40. Secondly, Nigga, do you honestly think there is
Jan 18th 2018
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                ...I was talking about aziz.
Jan 19th 2018
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                mans really decided I was going in on him even though all the clues
Jan 19th 2018
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Dave had the foresight
Jan 17th 2018
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The writer of the article fucked up...
Jan 17th 2018
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Seems like babe dot net is a trash fire too
Jan 18th 2018
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don't worry, they're all 22 and doing just fine, thanks
Jan 18th 2018
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Free, White and.... 22
Jan 18th 2018
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Make America Great Again, indeed
Jan 18th 2018
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Dat privilege
Jan 18th 2018
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thank you so much for exposing me to this.
Jan 18th 2018
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wow
Jan 18th 2018
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It's like you can see this in their eyes today, no words needed
Jan 18th 2018
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Belafonte's face hahaha
Jan 18th 2018
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forget the age, what journalist inserts themselves in the story
Jan 18th 2018
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      22 year old white "feminist" that's who
Jan 18th 2018
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Yeah, looks like its activist in content only
Jan 18th 2018
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      Shit's fucking shameful
Jan 18th 2018
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Those birkenstocks were made for walkin'
Jan 18th 2018
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so the fourth wave is upper crust YT girls clawing at each other?
Jan 18th 2018
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It’s been 22 long hard years I’m still strugglin
Jan 18th 2018
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in this case, "only 22" isn't an excuse, it's an honorific
Jan 19th 2018
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"You're a virgin who can't drive"
Jan 18th 2018
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Aziz has to learn how to read the field like Tom Brady
Jan 18th 2018
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yeah, the zone blitz got him
Jan 18th 2018
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Dude walked up to the line of scrimmage, saw eight in the box...
Jan 18th 2018
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      dudes romantic career is over, he will never get a date again
Jan 18th 2018
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      RE: dudes romantic career is NOT over
Jan 18th 2018
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      he probably has six dates tonight bc people realized he's single
Jan 18th 2018
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      Ummm, OJ is having no problem finding dates. His romantic life
Jan 19th 2018
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      "Oh, you been watching film? Cool, watch this" - Cam Newton
Jan 18th 2018
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      lol
Jan 18th 2018
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      lol @ change the camera view
Jan 19th 2018
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this dude came in with sports analogies lol
Jan 18th 2018
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Yup:
Jan 19th 2018
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Good lord babe.net is a dumpster fire
Jan 18th 2018
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'fuckboy diaries'
Jan 18th 2018
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nah it's boilerplate dumb white girl under 25
Jan 18th 2018
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in case there's any confusion.
Jan 18th 2018
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Based on Grace's account, did Aziz commit sexual assault?
Jan 18th 2018
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      are you a sexual assault investigator?
Jan 19th 2018
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           RE: are you a sexual assault investigator?
Jan 19th 2018
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                Were you supporting the quotation you quoted?
Jan 19th 2018
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                #1 totem poles are not ordered by rank
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                     You should be more culturally sensitive to my people's idioms.
Jan 19th 2018
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                          which tribe? you guys use rank on totem poles?
Jan 19th 2018
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                thank you for proving definitively
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                     And thank you for saying
Jan 19th 2018
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                          ...what?
Jan 19th 2018
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Jezebel has a good article
Jan 19th 2018
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So Jezebel wrote a think piece about how other think pieces are wrong?
Jan 19th 2018
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they trying to get those clicks fam
Jan 19th 2018
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I don't think that article makes a good case that the reporting is
Jan 19th 2018
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      Thanks for the article.
Jan 19th 2018
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Don't celebs of Aziz level get panties thrown at them
Jan 19th 2018
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Technically the panties were thrown at him
Jan 19th 2018
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the wine "2nd date" ? the chasing around the apt, the hand placement
Jan 19th 2018
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      The stuff she said he did had probably worked for him in the past.
Jan 19th 2018
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      nah b, 9 out of 10 times when he gets back the the apt
Jan 19th 2018
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      famous or not a whole BUNCH of dudes aren't cozy round
Jan 19th 2018
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You might not like the type of girls he likes
Jan 19th 2018
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Funny thing is he sounds like an Aziz character.
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