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godleeluv
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Sat Nov-25-17 12:07 AM

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"Okp I need advice"


  

          

So there is this person I like. So anyways I have been praying for God to send me more people in my life that are more focused on life and less focused on irrelevant things. And by golly this dude fits the bill. Problem is I still have things I’m trying to work out on my focus. And so there is my dilemma. I’m taking my time but we are at a point where my unfocused ways are possibly beginning to show. Should I fall back or be honest? I am changing but haven’t changed all the way yet. The thought of having someone like him in my life makes me want to hurry and change but my question is should I just fall back until I get where I want to be or just be honest about my journey and keep moving forward. I’m not scared of losing the opportunity. I’m not scared of failing. What I’m scared of is being honest and moving too fast. Any help would be appreciated
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Okp I need advice [View all] , godleeluv, Sat Nov-25-17 12:07 AM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
If you find someone that will support you and yall can build together
Nov 25th 2017
1
good advice
Nov 26th 2017
11
Agreed. nm
Dec 10th 2017
42
everyone is working on themselves, no one has it all together...
Nov 25th 2017
2
Life is short. But memories are long
Nov 25th 2017
8
"I want to hurry up and change for him"=you're not ready
Nov 25th 2017
3
Agreed. Thanks.
Nov 25th 2017
7
my advice is to focus on your kids only now
Nov 25th 2017
4
my main focus is always my kids.
Nov 26th 2017
12
only issue out of all if this
Nov 25th 2017
5
This is what a few of my friends have said to me
Nov 25th 2017
6
      yeah, just be easy about it.
Nov 26th 2017
9
           Ok got it
Nov 26th 2017
10
So it seems like me and the guy’s schedules are a problem
Dec 03rd 2017
13
Dang
Dec 03rd 2017
14
A problem as in....what?
Dec 04th 2017
17
      I’m okay with twice a month
Dec 06th 2017
31
Young Lady,.....
Dec 03rd 2017
15
That’s what I’m doing.
Dec 06th 2017
34
what’s the hurry?
Dec 04th 2017
16
I like him to the point where he offered me a massage
Dec 04th 2017
18
      Church? Oh lawd!!!
Dec 04th 2017
19
      he said yes tho
Dec 06th 2017
21
           That’s cause he knows
Dec 06th 2017
25
      how is church a date? lol
Dec 05th 2017
20
      Well it is the first time we are meeting up together
Dec 06th 2017
22
           church just seems like pressure.
Dec 06th 2017
28
                I go to a small church with a female pastor who is amazing
Dec 06th 2017
33
                     this makes sense.
Dec 07th 2017
36
      LOL...he offered you a massage??? Fam, you DO know that's the eqv.
Dec 06th 2017
23
           Easiest way to get a girl to take her bra off in college. LOL
Dec 06th 2017
24
           Massage = A glob of lotion on the back & approx. 12 circular rubs from
Dec 06th 2017
27
           Yeah you right. That’s why he flaked out tho
Dec 06th 2017
29
           key words in college
Dec 06th 2017
35
                Unless he is doing Rahki that dude is trying to feel you up
Dec 07th 2017
37
                We know YOU are. We talking about him and his weak game. That's all...
Dec 07th 2017
39
           You know I have an MT degree right?.
Dec 06th 2017
32
                Yep, I do recall that. That's why I was confident you'd peeped game
Dec 07th 2017
38
                     Lol you right.
Dec 10th 2017
48
How you asking for something
Dec 06th 2017
26
it’s not like that
Dec 06th 2017
30
so y’all were right.
Dec 10th 2017
40
Ain’t no dude trying to have a date to church.
Dec 10th 2017
41
      He should have just said that
Dec 10th 2017
43
      Prayer hands
Dec 10th 2017
44
      Church was really good tho.
Dec 10th 2017
47
      you gonna have 99% fail rate.
Dec 10th 2017
45
           I’ve had that same rate anyway
Dec 10th 2017
46
                I replied with 'that makes sense'
Dec 11th 2017
49
                     well my point is then he should have said that
Dec 11th 2017
50
      There are people who meet in church
Dec 11th 2017
51
           it seems there is no convincing you that a first date at church
Dec 11th 2017
52
                I want you to understand that we had tried to do first dates at other pl...
Dec 11th 2017
53
                     i get it
Dec 11th 2017
54
                          I don’t know how else to explain it
Dec 12th 2017
55

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