Man getting older maintaining friendships is a full-time job!

I spoke to a "friend" this week and said "Wow, you still live in NYC, I thought you moved away", they responded "Srsly??? been in the same place for years now". This is after they came through to the rescue like a true friend and offered something I needed purely out of the graciousness of their heart and our friendship. I felt like poo.

How about you. Do you feel like your are as giving to your friends as you are taking? Or do you want to be not be bothered a lot of the time?

Poll result (17 votes) Great Friend! Always there for folks; Remember Bdays; Call just to say "hi"... (3 votes) Vote Good Friend. Not the best at small stuff, always there when they need me. (9 votes) Vote Ok Friend. "So sorry I didn't get back to you, I was busy with..." (3 votes) Vote Not a good friend. Why do my "friends" keep bothering me. Leave me alone. (2 votes) Vote Other. Explain. (0 votes) Vote