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Buddy_Gilapagos
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"New Yorkers: Are you a bad friend because you won't meet friends in NJ?"
Tue Nov-24-15 03:38 PM by Buddy_Gilapagos

  

          

Or the outer boroughs for that matter?

Of course your Jersey friends come to the city to hang out all the time but are you willing to go to NJ to hang with them?

Isn't it kind of crazy to expect one to one (I come to NJ for every time you come to the city) hanging out in the other folks territory?

Can someone really hit you with "How come you never come kick it in Long Island" with a straight face?


PS. I am not exactly sure what boroughs are the outer boroughs when I made this post and didn't feel like googling it.


Edit: This also could be extended to visiting friends from out of state. I know I see you a couple of times a year when you visit the city but am I really expected to visit you in Cleveland?


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New Yorkers: Are you a bad friend because you won't meet friends in NJ? [View all] , Buddy_Gilapagos, Tue Nov-24-15 03:37 PM
 
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only if they live in Jersey City
Nov 24th 2015
1
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Nov 24th 2015
23
fyi: yes. you are a bad friend.
Nov 24th 2015
2
I am a bad friend because I didn't send thank you notes for...
Nov 24th 2015
4
      i haven't sent out my bday thank you notes either :(
Nov 24th 2015
7
i always thgt outter borough mean all boroughs except manhattan
Nov 24th 2015
3
depends on where you live
Nov 24th 2015
5
ok makes sense...for some reason i ddnt thk it was tht far out
Nov 24th 2015
13
jersey city as most is a 20 minute ride from midtown
Nov 24th 2015
14
      damn. one of my good friends is from newark and everytime
Nov 24th 2015
15
           lol i believe it
Nov 24th 2015
18
Newark is 22-24 minutes on PATH from WTC
Nov 26th 2015
25
      RE: Newark is 22-24 minutes on PATH from WTC
Dec 01st 2015
50
I was stuck on whether people thought BK was an outborough. And if
Nov 24th 2015
6
RE: New Yorkers: Are you a bad friend because you won't meet friends in ...
Nov 24th 2015
8
bout to make that Newark trip pretty soon need about 3 weeks notice
Nov 24th 2015
9
Depends. Did they grow up in, or do they work in New York?
Nov 24th 2015
10
My thing is if they work in the city ain't no reason to go to NJ. We can
Nov 24th 2015
16
      That's where I was going with that, but maybe I wasn't clear.
Nov 24th 2015
20
I have an older cousin deep in Queens, who's a Jazz musician.
Nov 24th 2015
11
So many Queens dudes got cars too so they think nothing of inviting
Nov 24th 2015
19
yes, you're a bad friend.
Nov 24th 2015
12
Getting to JC or Hoboken is too easy for a New Yorker not to go.
Nov 24th 2015
17
this is timely
Nov 24th 2015
21
i wouldn't expect random drop ins but if i explicitly invite you to the
Nov 24th 2015
22
It's selfish and corny, so yes. It's not that far to travel to see a fri...
Nov 26th 2015
24
This is some typical "Everything revolves around NY" BS
Nov 26th 2015
26
^^^
Nov 26th 2015
28
^^^^lives in southern jersey
Nov 26th 2015
29
      I live in Trenton, less than an hour from the GW Bridge
Nov 26th 2015
30
           You've perfectly illustrated the point about ppl who don't live in the c...
Nov 29th 2015
38
           you mentioned nothing about not having a car...
Nov 29th 2015
41
           Uh aint *nobody* going to Trenton. Sorry lol.
Nov 29th 2015
42
           Nothing in any of this has anything to do with
Nov 30th 2015
45
           Trenton is def not less than an hour from the GW Bridge
Nov 29th 2015
44
New Yorkers are such hoes about traveling.
Nov 26th 2015
27
RE: New Yorkers are such hoes about traveling.
Nov 28th 2015
35
depends on if I have access to a car or not
Nov 27th 2015
31
only if you wont go to a housewarming
Nov 27th 2015
32
that's some BS. y'all have trains. don't be a LAZY friend
Nov 27th 2015
33
lulz
Nov 28th 2015
34
When I used to live in JC, I didn't expect my NY friends there often
Nov 28th 2015
36
Yup
Nov 28th 2015
37
RE: New Yorkers: Are you a bad friend because you won't meet friends in ...
Nov 29th 2015
39
You're horrible cuz you live in NY period
Nov 29th 2015
40
Jersey is so diverse that it really depends.
Nov 29th 2015
43
New Yorkers really do believe the world revolves around them huh?
Nov 30th 2015
46
lol... I'll never forget a 40 year old nigga in Brooklyn
Nov 30th 2015
47
Leaving and coming back is probably the best thing a NYer could do
Nov 30th 2015
48
Hood dudes rarely leave the block too.
Dec 01st 2015
49
Nope... Especially whenthey have no issue crashing at your place
Dec 01st 2015
51
You'd charge a friend for crashing at your place a night?
Dec 02nd 2015
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Flip It: Am I an asshole for not going into NYC to visit my friend?
Dec 02nd 2015
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