I have a fb but I rarely post. I add people,all the time and think nothing of it.
I have all types of old flames on there too. No one who would get messy but I literally don't give a shit because I don't use it that often.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*