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legsdiamond
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"Poll question: How much do you blame your parents for your shortcomings, faults, etc "


          

Personally, I used to blame my Dad for a ton of shit. Then I found out about his story and let that shit go...

Is it fair to hold onto that bitterness or blame or do you have to take ownership of who you are once you are an adult?

I can see a fucked up childhood impacting ones adult years but I think once you get to a point where you can point out what, who, when, how it impacted you.. you kinda have to put that shit in a box and mail it off to the past.

or maybe not, what say you?

Poll result (14 votes)
100% (1 votes)Vote
75% (1 votes)Vote
50% (6 votes)Vote
25% (3 votes)Vote
wtf is a shortcoming? I'm white (3 votes)Vote

  

  
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How much do you blame your parents for your shortcomings, faults, etc [View all] , legsdiamond, Fri May-22-15 11:07 AM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
blame is such a harsh word.
May 22nd 2015
1
I think the word blame IS harsh but necessary.
May 22nd 2015
5
      i just meant for my situation. some folks do have a right to blame their
May 22nd 2015
10
from birth to age 14 or so, it *might* be on them.after that, it's on me...
May 22nd 2015
2
im fortunate to have had 'good' parents.
May 22nd 2015
3
respect is such a strong word. "Good" is relative.
May 22nd 2015
6
i know respect is strong, that's why i'm fortunate.
May 22nd 2015
14
a lot of people respect their parents regardless of how good
May 22nd 2015
9
i feel iike respect is the first to go when your parent starts acting up...
May 22nd 2015
15
im in this category
May 22nd 2015
20
No blame deserved for shortcomings & faults.......
May 22nd 2015
4
good answer
May 22nd 2015
8
50
May 22nd 2015
7
its totally natural but if you recogonize it
May 22nd 2015
11
None. I believe she did the best she could with what she had
May 22nd 2015
12
sooner or later as an adult we have to do the work to get over what
May 22nd 2015
13
everybody definitely has a story bruh... so true.
May 22nd 2015
17
      i mean, life is hard and we all been thru some bullshit of one sort
May 22nd 2015
19
if your parents were abusive you gotta
May 22nd 2015
16
i forgave them.
May 22nd 2015
18
as an adult, not much at all
May 22nd 2015
21
Zero. My faults are my own.
May 22nd 2015
22
Most of it, is long forgiven. My pops doesn't let shit die though
May 22nd 2015
23
damn, it's hard when someone won't let shit go
May 22nd 2015
34
I'ont really have any so I don't know.
May 22nd 2015
24
it's dope that you feel this way and at your age it's expected...
May 22nd 2015
35
a lot more difficult to put away when it affected your personality
May 22nd 2015
25
what shortcomings? nm
May 22nd 2015
26
I'm 5'4. My dad is 5'4. My mom is 4'11. I blame them for my height.
May 22nd 2015
27
Aww boo... Poor little tink, tink...
May 22nd 2015
29
      Chill cuhh
May 22nd 2015
38
i did and still could
May 22nd 2015
28
on one hand, i just put a bunch of shit away when I was young
May 22nd 2015
30
Not blame
May 22nd 2015
31
yup... my dad been sober for 20 years.
May 22nd 2015
36
0..I thank em for raising me the way they did..took my lumps early
May 22nd 2015
32
nah i blame my dad 100%
May 22nd 2015
33
i think they did the best they knew how...
May 22nd 2015
37

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