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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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Tue Jan-06-15 11:59 AM

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"So I didn't get the job because of my hair... Lol "


  

          

Sigh, like I'm just really disappointed. I interviewed with a company about a month and a half ago. A friend of mine had actually told me to contact her friend because they needed to fill a manager's position at her company.

I interviewed with that friend and it went extremely well. I wound up interviewing three more times at their head quarters with the Vice President, and president of the company. Every interview had gone better than the previous. Everyone loved me! The president of the company had even asked and wrote down my salary requirements.

They said they'd contact me within the week. Never heard from anyone, and no one responded to my e-mails.

Now fast forward to yesterday. I finally hear from my friend who referred me. Well turns out there was quite a fuss up there about me. Now this is just what I was told but I totally believe it. She says that when her friend had asked what happened with hiring me, they told her that I had dreads and that did not fit with the company's image or dress code policy. She says she took the matter up with HR. Who knows?
I believe this only because the second time I was called to come to their corporate office, the lady literally asked me two questions, and asked me did I have any questions for her. I said to myself then, that bitch just wanted to see me because there was no other reason to have me come up there!!

My hair the exact day of my second interview http://i62.tinypic.com/2hy8o4o.jpg . I was very polished and poised.
I'm still interviewing and I have recently taken my braids out. I guess I'll wait before putting some back in. It is what it is but it still sucks to hear that. All because of my hair?
I was more than qualified for the position and got a long well with everyone. Left every interview laughing and smiling. Now I'm wondering if that could've been the reason I didn't get another job in which I applied to but met the same fate with. Multiple interviews, everyone loved me but again I never heard anything back?

It's a dirty game. Any other women go through this? What's funny is my friend who referred me actually suggested I get my hair braided or wear a wig to the interview because at the time I was rocking my fro... The irony. Should've gone with the wig!




Somebody's lying...

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So I didn't get the job because of my hair... Lol [View all] , ThisIs_ATruthThang, Tue Jan-06-15 11:59 AM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrghhghhhhgghhhhhhhggggghhhhh!!!!
Jan 06th 2015
1
Damn sorry to read that
Jan 06th 2015
2
That sucks :(
Jan 06th 2015
3
That sounds fishy
Jan 06th 2015
4
that caught me too
Jan 06th 2015
23
exactly.
Jan 06th 2015
31
^^^I wasnt gonna say it but glad you did
Jan 06th 2015
39
at my job some ppl call me "the girl with the dreads"
Jan 06th 2015
52
Unfortunately, most people don't.
Jan 06th 2015
61
      ^^^^ this black hair is a mystery and frightening to many of them.
Jan 06th 2015
62
when i had braids and would go on interviews,
Jan 06th 2015
5
Yea everyone otherwise loved my braids. I always got complimented
Jan 06th 2015
19
RE: So I didn't get the job because of my hair... Lol
Jan 06th 2015
6
It's sad that our appearance and not our character
Jan 06th 2015
7
wtf. sorry about that. I am nappy at work w/o issue.
Jan 06th 2015
8
You look great! Their loss.
Jan 06th 2015
9
Thank you :) Yea, Womp womp
Jan 06th 2015
25
Thank you :) Yea, Womp womp
Jan 06th 2015
26
I'd hire the hell outta ya
Jan 06th 2015
10
Welcome to being Black in America.
Jan 06th 2015
11
How conservative of a shop was it? A law firm?
Jan 06th 2015
12
A French company. And yea. Have the talk with him.
Jan 06th 2015
14
      My sister is facing something similar with her dreads.
Jan 06th 2015
24
next time wear a bun
Jan 06th 2015
13
I've definitely worn them in a bun on an interview before but now I know...
Jan 06th 2015
16
yeah.
Jan 06th 2015
21
This is 100% it. Nail on head.
Jan 06th 2015
63
Turrible.....keep on pushin', though
Jan 06th 2015
15
Will you do anything different next time?
Jan 06th 2015
17
That's fucked up. Fuck em.
Jan 06th 2015
18
fuck them...
Jan 06th 2015
20
that sucks and is totally wrong
Jan 06th 2015
22
you're better off not working for people who carry it like that...
Jan 06th 2015
27
That's pretty much what I chucked it up to. Was a cool position though
Jan 06th 2015
28
is your friend white?
Jan 06th 2015
29
IZ YO FRIEND WHITE?
Jan 06th 2015
57
      Nah she black.
Jan 06th 2015
59
Don't let these folks have you passing up jobs just to keep a hairdo.
Jan 06th 2015
30
is the employer in the right though?
Jan 06th 2015
33
      I guess it depends, but some can demand a clean shaven man
Jan 06th 2015
34
      The employer can be in the wrong AND she should change her hair
Jan 06th 2015
54
           if she actually had dreads i'd say fuck 'em
Jan 06th 2015
58
                It's all arbitrary. Like why say she has to cut dreads...
Jan 06th 2015
65
                     hunh? i was saying if she had locs she SHOULDN'T cut them
Jan 06th 2015
72
Been there. I should'a sued them. I didn't know that I had a case.
Jan 06th 2015
32
how could you sue? lol..there is no case
Jan 07th 2015
80
Unfortunately, that's how the corporate world is.
Jan 06th 2015
35
Someone is lying.
Jan 06th 2015
36
I honestly can't think of anything else it could've been.
Jan 06th 2015
49
      they found a more qualified candidate could be a reason or
Jan 07th 2015
81
have they filled the position?
Jan 06th 2015
37
Somebody is lying
Jan 06th 2015
38
French company = it ain't really about the hair
Jan 06th 2015
40
OMG really?
Jan 06th 2015
42
not a fan of the french so I have no clue if it was a one off
Jan 06th 2015
48
Wait, what? lol
Jan 06th 2015
43
But in France, they don't exactly love Africans
Jan 06th 2015
46
yeah but they love americans
Jan 06th 2015
50
prolly because they wanted your money...
Jan 06th 2015
56
      clearly
Jan 06th 2015
71
Right. I said they love African-Americans, not Africans.
Jan 06th 2015
51
he was SHOCKED that neither parent was white...
Jan 06th 2015
47
WoW!
Jan 06th 2015
68
      I mean, she isn't Lisa Bonet light skint
Jan 06th 2015
73
This racism is killing me inside.
Jan 06th 2015
41
oh, don't get me started
Jan 06th 2015
44
That's messed up. Your hair looked nice.
Jan 06th 2015
45
that's a lawsuit. just saying...
Jan 06th 2015
53
no its not
Jan 07th 2015
82
i went w/o facial hair for the first few yrs of practice.
Jan 06th 2015
55
This is precisely why I'm nervous to go on interviews with these braids
Jan 06th 2015
60
damn! Who wouldn't want that around the office? #IsThatSexist?
Jan 06th 2015
64
IKR...I bet a hatin ass french hoe was like, nah... not on my watch.
Jan 06th 2015
67
that sucks I hope you find something better
Jan 06th 2015
66
So fucked up. This is how white supremacy keeps us self-hating...
Jan 06th 2015
69
Btw, you look great, sister.
Jan 07th 2015
77
Does your city have a Better Business Bureau or something like that?
Jan 06th 2015
70
oh yall aint hear bout dis nigga accepted THEN rejected by thurgood mars...
Jan 07th 2015
74
That's foul. Your hair looks very professional
Jan 07th 2015
75
try being a black male with a brush cut and a felony...
Jan 07th 2015
76
something like that happened to me, with the same hairstyle
Jan 07th 2015
78
they probably think you're a major pot head....
Jan 07th 2015
79
this post inspired me to braid my hair tonight....
Jan 07th 2015
83

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