"to friend...or not to friend that is the question"
so in further bland banal adventures of your favorite high water wearing suburban dad type.
got a friend request from one of my step cousins.
now. i havent seen this side of my extended brood since the mid 90s. me and this one in particular are roughly the same age and never had any issues, if we were classmates for example, no problem i'd friend her w/ no issues
but! her brothers my other step cousins were assholes esp the eldest AND long after i left home, the eldest pulled some money related bullshit on another of our family members that was utterly breath taking for its gall. put it like this if certain OTHER members of my fam were still alive that nigga would have got pistol whipped @ mininum.
and i personally dont care for em even tho these events happened over a decade ago AND the person who was shat on is over it, and friended all of em
i guess the mountain im making of this molehill is: should i just let that dumb shit go...?
or no?
because in my heart...im cool w/ never speaking to em. like i said...not on some beef shit w/ most. but the beef to me? is so strong that sooner or later when they inevitably start liking & friending me themselves...im gonna bust that shit out in the broad open daylight & cause some real heated words to be exchanged & im too old for that shit. so yeah