Joe Corn Mo Member since Aug 29th 2010 15139 posts
Tue Dec-09-14 02:03 PM
"they didn't dump you because they want to see more of you. "
this is what i remind myself when i think about contacting him.
we are creeping up on christmas and we spent last christmas together so now i find myself thinking of dumb texts to send like "how have you been?" or "i heard this song i know you'll like"
and then maybe that will start a correspondence and maybe we'll meet for dinner and maybe he'll suggest getting together later and maybe we could hang out over New Years
but that's a stupid fantasy because nobody dumps ppl because they want to hear or see from them more often so really i need to chill.
it's been months since i've bumped into him and when i did bump into him he said "it seems like it's been forever since we've talked."
which is true. because he broke up with me. presumably because he wanted to see less of me.
how come every so often, you'll think about an ex and start having these delusions about how they may want to "hang out" or "see how things are going."
there's no need for any of this. if he wanted to hear from me, he'd call.