53. "How do you not like the person you are married to? " In response to In response to 51
You fucking married them! At some point, not liking is inevitable. They are human beings who change and evolve and suck and go through all kinds of shit. That doesn't mean that you divorce.
You don't "stick it out". You go deeper, explore, look at the reasons why things evolve.
Getting along with people isn't hard if you understand yourself and the human condition. People get along with siblings, best friends and their kids without divorce. What makes someone you love and share your body with so different?