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Subject: "Would you pay off your (not good with money) SO's credit card debt?"

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Vector
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"Poll question: Would you pay off your (not good with money) SO's credit card debt?"
Fri Jul-27-18 10:22 AM by Vector

You're in a good relationship and you have money in the bank. Your SO, who is not very good with money, has a credit card debt of about $5000. You can easily pay it off. Would you?

Edit - assume the SO has never, ever hinted at or expected this action.

Poll result (15 votes)
Yes	(2 votes)	Vote
No	(11 votes)	Vote
Depends	(2 votes)	Vote

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Would you pay off your (not good with money) SO's credit card debt? [View all] , Vector, Fri Jul-27-18 10:05 AM

Subject	Author	Message Date	ID
Marriage or just SO?	MEAT	Jul 27th 2018	1
SO, but a strong, trusting relationship	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	3
There’s no financial gains or losses in trust.	MEAT	Jul 27th 2018	6
same	KiloMcG	Jul 27th 2018	7
Hell-to-da-muthafukkin-NAW! ! !	NoDrawls McGraw	Jul 27th 2018	2
Maybe.	GNT1986	Jul 27th 2018	4
Let's say you've been thinking about it for a while	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	5
if you do it, treat it as a gift	mista k5	Jul 27th 2018	8
^	BrooklynWHAT	Jul 27th 2018	9
I've done it....the responses should be interesting	ambient1	Jul 27th 2018	10
Would you do it again?	MEAT	Jul 27th 2018	12
possibly	ambient1	Jul 27th 2018	17
Was it the right thing to do, on reflection?	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	15
honestly hard to say	ambient1	Jul 27th 2018	18
I like to think that your selflessness will be rewarded some day	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	26
thanks....i hope so too lol	ambient1	Jul 27th 2018	39
salute	infin8	Jul 27th 2018	33
daps	ambient1	Jul 27th 2018	41
we gotta be basically married	BrooklynWHAT	Jul 27th 2018	11
^^^	Monkey Genius	Jul 27th 2018	13
So you would if you were engaged?	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	14
yeah i probably would. i know engagements fall apart as well	BrooklynWHAT	Jul 27th 2018	21
No.	flipnile	Jul 27th 2018	16
when we wer dating...I paid her bills so she could pay her debt off	tomjohn29	Jul 27th 2018	19
I have and would not do again...	silenttype	Jul 27th 2018	20
end post	mista k5	Jul 27th 2018	22
RE: I have and would not do again...	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	27
This:	flipnile	Jul 27th 2018	42
yes...	Trinity444	Jul 27th 2018	23
Hell no	sectachrome86	Jul 27th 2018	24
Nah. Don't enable his or her behavior.	Wonderl33t	Jul 27th 2018	25
I assume "bad w money" means makes enough but wastes alot	Cocobrotha2	Jul 27th 2018	28
Can you help someone change or do they have to do it themselves?	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	32
They've gotta put in the work; that's where the growth happens	Cocobrotha2	Jul 27th 2018	36
Why are you doing it?	infin8	Jul 27th 2018	29
Interesting. Thanks.	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	30
lol @ ethical fap	sectachrome86	Jul 27th 2018	31
you ever help	infin8	Jul 27th 2018	34
because I can...	Trinity444	Jul 27th 2018	35
I'm neither pro nor con	infin8	Jul 27th 2018	40
Great questions! What is the root?	Mori	Jul 27th 2018	53
i think i would only ever help with student debt	sndesai1	Jul 27th 2018	37
if i had the money and the pussy was fire.	Reeq	Jul 27th 2018	38
The day that the last payment on the loans is made:	flipnile	Jul 27th 2018	43
lol	Reeq	Jul 27th 2018	50
It depends if it would solve the problem.	Buddy_Gilapagos	Jul 27th 2018	44
It depends if it would solve the problem.	Buddy_Gilapagos	Jul 27th 2018	45
Why not give a 0% interest loan?	handle	Jul 27th 2018	46
That's what I think	Vector	Jul 27th 2018	47
It's the "reduces stress" part I want to emphasize	handle	Jul 27th 2018	55
If you're EVER in that sitch..please record her response when	ambient1	Jul 27th 2018	48
that's the thing.	infin8	Jul 27th 2018	49
Yes	Lurkmode	Jul 27th 2018	51
Only if I was whipped	legsdiamond	Jul 27th 2018	52
Teach her to fish. Don't just give her money.	Mori	Jul 27th 2018	54
thats why you don't GIVE her the money	legsdiamond	Jul 27th 2018	56
debt? $5000 total? please...	sosumi	Jul 29th 2018	57
Nah. I would help them design a budget tho	spirit	Jul 29th 2018	58
Reading this again, you forgot the "FUCK NO!" option	flipnile	Jul 30th 2018	59

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