but I cmoe from a big family and it's how I grew up.

I haven't lived in a city with family for a minute tho so it's only around the holidays.

We have talked about moving to the same city tho because I want my kids growing up around family and getting that knowledge and love instead of being raised by strangers.

ATL would be the move since my brother and sister live there.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*