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>And yes...A weak man CAN NOT >BE A PROTECTOR OF A >SURVIVOR (<--I hope) such as >your likes...However, to give up >on the structure of FAMILY >(TWO OPPOSITE SEX PARENTAL FIGURES >TO GUIDE THE CHILDREN), whether >married or not... > >It WILL lead to disappointment... > >TRUST... >Though you MAY NOT be able >to appreciate it now through >what you see/have seen...YOU AS >A WOMAN NEED A GOOD >"STRONG"(<--By the way, what's your >definition? Just Curious...) MAN TO >GROW INTO OLD AGE WITH....MOST >ESPECIALLY TO RAISE HEALTHY CHILDREN >WITH....OVERSTAND THAT NO WOMAN CAN >RAISE A BOY INTO A >MAN. I KNOW THIS >FROM A FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE >BEING THE SON OF A >SINGLE MOTHER WHO TRIED TO >RAISE ME TO AVOID PHYSICAL >CONFRONTATION AT ALL COSTS...(didn't work >also).......Plus, there are just things >a boy can NOT discuss >with a woman for guidance >and understanding...Plus.... > >The world is tough without us...You'd >be SURPRISED at all the >little things our strength can >accomplish. Even when you >break it down to the >point of moving heavy objects >around the apartment/house, a man, >in the most basic sense, >is a utility no woman >can/should be without...
>i have not given up on >the structure of family.....i believe >that two whole and spiritually >healthy adults can raise children....
This is Good.
>inept and spiritually broken parents lead >to disappointment also...
Oh no doubt.
>please, do not presume that you >know what i need.....i don't >need a man to save >me from my abusive past >or be my knight in >shining armor.....i won't raise children, >without a husband.....and i understand >that i may never find >a man to build a >family with.....therefore, i am content >with being single, without children......
Please don't presume YOU'LL know what you need 10-20 years from now....Not saying that you can't PLAN ahead for the next 10 years. But as a biological species, SURVIVORS ADAPT TO THEIR SITUATION.
>physical strength...is that why i should >trust a man with my >vulnerability for life, because he >can move my frickin' furniture.....surely >you jest....and believe you me >and can be without it......you >underestimate my strength......
Once again the answer to this depends on what YOU define as STRENGTH, and your comments imply that you meant in a physical sense, or you just read me wrong.
I define strength as PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL/SPIRITUAL, and MENTAL stability.
Sure athleticism is NICE, but each one has their own gifts. Not everyone can be James Evans, just as not every one can be Heathcliffe Huxtable.
>peace in love, >philia
Peace and love (or is it love?)
Solitayre
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