It's not ENOUGH 2 have a father AROUND. What is the Brothah doing during the time that he IS AROUND is what's key. My single parent household friends are all psychologically damaged b/c they had no father around. I always tell them, "Having a father in the home is a HIGHLY overrated experience". I'm psychologically damaged from HAVING my father around. This fatherhood thing is something Brothahs are just going 2 have 2 figure out on their own. It's crucial, and Sistahs don't know how 2 teach Brothahs how 2 be good at it, b/c we are not men. Motherhood is hard enough 2 get down-pat by itself! I just pray that Brothahs figure it out, 4 ALL of our sakes!
>>at least a couple of posts >above show that simply having >a "father" is not the >answer to why good women >go bad part III... > >______ > >"you came and opened me, now >there's so much more i >see" >stevie wonder verse / that's what >friends are for > >"...sell crazy somewhere else, lady. we're >all stocked up here." >jack nicholson line / as good >as it gets > >"it took a while to get >me here and i'm gonna >take my time" >gwen stefani / eve's -let me >blow ya mind-
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