at least a couple of posts above show that simply having a "father" is not the answer to why good women go bad part III...______"you came and opened me, now there's so much more i see" stevie wonder verse / that's what friends are for"...sell crazy somewhere else, lady. we're all stocked up here." jack nicholson line / as good as it gets"it took a while to get me here and i'm gonna take my time" gwen stefani / eve's -let me blow ya mind-