14. "RE: fatherlessness & blk women" In response to In response to 0
Aiight...I'm so GLAD this issue was brought to light...It seems like me and my 2 boys is the only one that notices this...
So here's my opinion... Next to drugs, abusive black fathers/absent black fathers are the strongest roadblock to our success as a people... No sense of protection for our communities... this CAN be further worsened by divorce...
I thought as a teen there was nothing more sad to watch, than to see a girl, go through bad relationship after bad relationship, NEVER FIGURING OUT WHY, saying that all men are DOGS, not understanding that you get WHAT YOU PICK...
Until I had seen what type of BITTER or LONELY women those type become if they don't have a moment of clarity at some point in their lives.
No lie, I came in contact with this BEAUTIFUL single older woman who, in a conversation on the difference between GIRLS and WOMEN, broke it down for the bruthas in the ability to use their "power" to get whateva they wanted from a man without sex...She then gives mad examples of her experience with this... And after about 4-5 minutes of telling us we're sheep, she confesses to this guy she dated somewhere like 8 years ago who took her out to eat WHENEVA, acted like a PERFECT gentleman in her presence and treated her like a queen...She then says "He was the one I NEVER should have let get away...If I weren't soooo stupid and young"....