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15. "That is so deep"
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2 me. Please tell us more. I am learning so much from what U R posting here b/c my father was certainly no prize, but I guess he wasn't the WORST father in the world either(or at least that's what my mother tells me). I have had a LifeLong battle w/ reconciling my feelings about him and the way he treated my mother, the way he behaved in general, and most importantly, the way he treated me. So I tend 2 attract men who have his best qualities, but some have his worst qualities 2, which R TOTALLY unacceptable 2 me. I have not been able 2 run away nor escape that, although I've employed a myriad of methods in attempt 2 do so. U seem 2 have found that "way out", which intrigues me. Even though U were not directly abused, being witness 2 it was psychological abuse, "I" say. So, U were subjected 2, and affected by it 2. But U freed Urself from it. There has 2 be more 2 Ur liberation than what U have stated. I for one would appreciate it if U could elaborate further. U R being quite informative/instructive.

peace.


I was
>able to get involved with
>men who were not like
>my father. If anything,
>I bounce back from adversity.
> I am resilient but
>I chose my path and
>I feel at peace.
>
>>are the Ultimate Survivor.
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>"Don't Hate the PLAYA Boy...hate the
>>GAME," Granddad Freeman of the
>>Boondocks(7-11-99)
>>
>>*Twenty-three percent of women are "autoerotic
>>singles" — they prefer to
>>achieve sexual satisfaction alone(source-bet.com)
>>
>>*If U have won a Grammy,
>>one of two things are
>>at play: 1. Your shit
>>is TIGHT
>>
>>
>>
>> 2.
>>U are white
>>-(Me)
>>
>>"'Cuz U answer the phone 'peace'
>>that means U not a
>>freak?"-The Questions(c) Common
>
>
>"Know thyself"
>
>"Let your conduct be without covetousness;
>be content with such things
>as you have. For
>He Himself has said, "I
>will never leave you or
>forsake you". So we may
>boldly say, "The Lord is
>my helper, I will not
>fear. What can man
>do to me?"
>-- Hebrews 13:5,6
>
>"There is a difference between knowing
>the path and walking the
>path"
>--Morpheus in "The Matrix"
>
>"It's our choices, Harry, that show
>what we truly are, far
>more than our abilities"- Dumbledore
>to Harry Potter "Chamber of
>Secrets"


"Don't Hate the PLAYA Boy...hate the GAME," Granddad Freeman of the Boondocks(7-11-99)

*Twenty-three percent of women are "autoerotic singles" — they prefer to achieve sexual satisfaction alone(source-bet.com)

*If U have won a Grammy, one of two things are at play: 1. Your shit is TIGHT
2. U are white
-(Me)

"'Cuz U answer the phone 'peace' that means U not a freak?"-The Questions(c) Common


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Oooo baby I like it raw. Oooo baby I like it RAAAW!(c)ODB- Shimmy Shimmy Ya

  

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fatherlessness & blk women [View all] , rgv, Mon May-21-01 07:11 AM
 
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funny that u posted this...
May 21st 2001
1
great post...
May 21st 2001
2
thats bs
May 21st 2001
3
Thank you...
May 21st 2001
4
fav quote of the day:
May 21st 2001
5
RE: fav quote of the day:
May 31st 2001
40
RE: Thank you...
masani
May 21st 2001
6
RE: Thank you...
May 21st 2001
7
RE: Thank you...
May 23rd 2001
16
Hey, I'm not scared to answer this
May 21st 2001
8
Educate & Enlighten Us
May 22nd 2001
9
      RE: Educate & Enlighten Us
May 22nd 2001
10
           RE: Educate & Enlighten Us
May 22nd 2001
11
           Sounds like U
May 22nd 2001
12
                RE: Sounds like U
May 22nd 2001
13
                    
                          RE: That is so deep
May 23rd 2001
17
                               Thanks for sharing.
Jun 04th 2001
44
RE: fatherlessness & blk women
May 23rd 2001
14
RE: fatherlessness & blk women
SheRise
May 24th 2001
18
      Whoa...I had to read that 3 times...
May 26th 2001
24
I just want more people to talk about this issue..^
May 25th 2001
19
RE: fatherlessness & blk women
May 25th 2001
20
YEP.
May 25th 2001
21
RE: YEP.
May 25th 2001
22
      RE: YEP.
May 25th 2001
23
           Abusive Fathers
May 29th 2001
33
RE: fatherlessness & blk women
philiagoddess
May 26th 2001
25
      PEACE, sis...
May 26th 2001
26
           What is strength
May 26th 2001
28
           Good Points, may I add...
May 26th 2001
29
                RE: Good Points, may I add...
May 26th 2001
31
           RE: PEACE, bro...
philiagoddess
May 29th 2001
36
           RE: PEACE, bro...
Jun 05th 2001
47
           UNtrue
May 30th 2001
37
                Protectors??? gimmeabreak.
Ylana
May 31st 2001
39
                RE: Protectors??? gimmeabreak.
Jun 05th 2001
46
                     4 YLANLA & YASETSHEGO
Jun 05th 2001
49
                          I was about to be offended
Jun 06th 2001
50
                               RE: I was about to be offended
Jun 06th 2001
53
                                    RE: I was about to be offended
Jun 07th 2001
57
                                         Whoa, sis....
Jun 07th 2001
61
                                              Furthermore,
Jun 07th 2001
62
                                              Please do,
Jun 12th 2001
64
                                              Oh okay,
Jun 12th 2001
63
                RE:True
Jun 05th 2001
48
                     Questlove is not white
Jun 06th 2001
51
Children need both...
May 26th 2001
27
my answers
May 26th 2001
30
Answers
May 26th 2001
32
i'll answer...
May 29th 2001
34
RE: i'll answer, too
philiagoddess
May 29th 2001
35
got me thinkin.....
May 30th 2001
38
RE: Yo love, congrats
philiagoddess
Jun 01st 2001
41
tho ur not blk
Jun 01st 2001
42
      we have this joke,
Jun 01st 2001
43
RE: fatherlessness & blk women
Jun 04th 2001
45
it's simple to me
Jun 06th 2001
52
RE: fatherlessness & blk women
Amerllis
Jun 06th 2001
54
RE: fatherlessness & blk women
Amerllis
Jun 06th 2001
55
My neice
Jun 06th 2001
56
I am glad that you realize that.
Jun 07th 2001
58
WAIT, but whut about
Jun 07th 2001
59
      RE: WAIT, but whut about
Jun 07th 2001
60
           Solitayre's Good Black Man
Jun 12th 2001
65
DEFINE "FATHER" FOR ME AGAIN
Jun 12th 2001
66
Great line in a great song.
Jun 12th 2001
67
here's my $0.02
Jun 12th 2001
68
RE: here's my $0.02
Jun 12th 2001
70
I admire you for this
Jun 13th 2001
72
RE: I admire you for this
Jun 13th 2001
76
      Girl,
Jun 13th 2001
80
that's my point
Jun 13th 2001
73
WEll,
Jun 13th 2001
74
This is my point
Jun 13th 2001
75
      Indeed
Jun 13th 2001
78
      I like that hard w/o soft
Jun 13th 2001
82
Hmmmmm.....
Jun 13th 2001
71
      It took years...
Jun 13th 2001
77
      That is deep
Jun 13th 2001
81
      RE: Hmmmmm.....
Jun 13th 2001
79
...
Jun 12th 2001
69

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