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janey
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"Did your father (or mother) serve in Vietnam?"


  

          

Or the Gulf War?

Have you asked them about their experiences?

  

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Did your father (or mother) serve in Vietnam? [View all] , janey, Mon Jun-13-05 04:56 PM
 
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Poppa Claw served in Vietnam.
Jun 13th 2005
1
It was a (negatively) transformative experience for so many
Jun 13th 2005
2
3 Uncles
Jun 13th 2005
3
have you asked them about it?
Jun 13th 2005
4
      I wonder......
Jun 13th 2005
6
           this is off topic but
Jun 13th 2005
13
                Its a popular name
Jun 13th 2005
32
nope
Jun 13th 2005
5
you know what is fascinating to me
Jun 13th 2005
7
dad did a tour in Korea
Jun 13th 2005
8
how old is dad?
Jun 13th 2005
25
      uh...late 50s
Jun 13th 2005
26
           aha
Jun 13th 2005
28
                Him and my mom are still married living together
Jun 13th 2005
47
                     I'm really glad that you've got someone
Jun 13th 2005
49
                          don't know...
Jun 13th 2005
51
My father did...
Jun 13th 2005
9
does he talk to you about it at all?
Jun 13th 2005
15
      He won't talk about it at all
Jun 13th 2005
19
           how did you learn this?
Jun 13th 2005
22
                I asked in high school and he refused
Jun 13th 2005
52
                     How old are you now?
Jun 13th 2005
54
                          I am 31 now
Jun 13th 2005
64
                               how's your relationship with him in general?
Jun 13th 2005
67
                                    My parents split when I was 6 or 7
Jun 13th 2005
72
                                         I think that many of us
Jun 13th 2005
76
                                              I am in Atlanta and he is in Seattle
Jun 13th 2005
81
                                                   wow
Jun 13th 2005
83
my father served two tours in Vietnam.
Jun 13th 2005
10
So if he doesn't want to talk about it
Jun 13th 2005
16
I come from a military family.
Jun 13th 2005
91
      Really?
Jun 13th 2005
95
           The education, the connections, etc....
Jun 13th 2005
100
                Okay, so what is it that you do
Jun 13th 2005
104
                     I'm a nerd.
Jun 13th 2005
113
you mean like pictures of dead bodies?
Jun 13th 2005
37
      dead people.
Jun 13th 2005
92
yep
Jun 13th 2005
11
hmmmm, "crazy" is kind of a broad term
Jun 13th 2005
34
      well
Jun 13th 2005
74
apparently two of my dad's 5 brothers died
Jun 13th 2005
12
but you say "apparently"
Jun 13th 2005
17
      nail on the head.
Jun 13th 2005
21
           what would happen if you asked your dad?
Jun 13th 2005
23
                well
Jun 13th 2005
33
                     they're uncles, so
Jun 13th 2005
35
                          yeah i'd like to know about all of that as well, but my dad
Jun 13th 2005
43
                               and we're always fearful of re-opening old wounds
Jun 13th 2005
48
                                    maybe you're right
Jun 13th 2005
119
                                         I don't know the latest state of the diagnosis
Jun 13th 2005
120
my father
Jun 13th 2005
14
what kinds of stories?
Jun 13th 2005
20
Uncle
Jun 13th 2005
18
I know, right? -- how do we know WHAT causes shit?
Jun 13th 2005
24
      Yeah I definitely agree.
Jun 13th 2005
27
           Yes indeed AND
Jun 13th 2005
30
                Yeah....
Jun 13th 2005
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                     While I see how that's true
Jun 13th 2005
42
                          Yeah I feel you.
Jun 13th 2005
45
im from a military family in the south
Jun 13th 2005
29
have you talked to them about their experiences?
Jun 13th 2005
31
My uncle died in Vietnam.
Jun 13th 2005
36
Was he the only family member who served?
Jun 13th 2005
39
      Yes, the only family member who served.
Jun 13th 2005
44
           Wow.
Jun 13th 2005
55
                I'm saying.
Jun 13th 2005
127
yes
Jun 13th 2005
40
that's so hard
Jun 13th 2005
46
      good question
Jun 13th 2005
57
           Have you thought about
Jun 13th 2005
60
stepfather was a green beret
Jun 13th 2005
41
wow, that's pretty amazing
Jun 13th 2005
53
Naw, but grandpa fought WWI...
Jun 13th 2005
50
Religious figure? You mean like a chaplain?
Jun 13th 2005
56
      Not sure exactly, I'm gonna look more into it when I see my uncles....
Jun 13th 2005
59
           what denomination?
Jun 13th 2005
62
                Greek Orthodox
Jun 13th 2005
63
                     good golly!
Jun 13th 2005
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                          lol... my mom was the youngest, she's 50 now...
Jun 13th 2005
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                               Big families!
Jun 13th 2005
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                                    Naw...
Jun 13th 2005
71
                                         Wow, so I think
Jun 13th 2005
73
                                              Lol, sure
Jun 13th 2005
82
                                                   although it's not about Greece
Jun 13th 2005
85
                                                        Thanks for that....
Jun 13th 2005
87
                                                        Thanks for that....
Jun 13th 2005
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                                                             I should warn you
Jun 13th 2005
94
                                                                  Cool...
Jun 13th 2005
96
Pops did..
Jun 13th 2005
58
yeah
Jun 13th 2005
61
my pops was in the Korean War
Jun 13th 2005
69
Have you ever read any books
Jun 13th 2005
70
father(vietnam), he is too messed up to talk about it
Jun 13th 2005
75
how do you feel about that?
Jun 13th 2005
78
      RE: how do you feel about that?
Jun 13th 2005
90
           wow, and are you in a PhD program?
Jun 13th 2005
97
                Masters
Jun 13th 2005
102
                     Loewen talks about the interrelationship
Jun 13th 2005
103
                          good looking out Janey
Jun 13th 2005
105
                               I'm all excited about your degree
Jun 13th 2005
107
                                    yes it is
Jun 13th 2005
114
                                         yahoo!
Jun 13th 2005
121
                                              its called a hood, and i think for ours it will be lined with white
Jun 14th 2005
132
I don't ask, some ppl don't like talking about bad shit
Jun 13th 2005
77
and sometimes we don't talk about bad shit
Jun 13th 2005
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      Honestly, I don't like talking about it with
Jun 13th 2005
84
           Fair enough, but aren't we talking here
Jun 13th 2005
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                I meant to highlight the whole "if you weren't there to witness
Jun 13th 2005
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                     but isn't that sufficient reason to discuss it?
Jun 13th 2005
99
                          I don't agree with this part at all
Jun 13th 2005
109
                               those who do not remember the past
Jun 13th 2005
110
                                    You don't need to force a man to discuss his personal
Jun 13th 2005
111
                                         while that's true
Jun 13th 2005
112
                                              he refuses, sort of just a known family thing
Jun 13th 2005
117
                                                   that's sad
Jun 13th 2005
122
yup...got infected with agent orange and shit...
Jun 13th 2005
80
Did he get treatment for that?
Jun 13th 2005
106
      yeh he was treated...
Jun 14th 2005
133
Pop was 101 airborne ranger
Jun 13th 2005
93
I never did see that
Jun 13th 2005
101
i have an uncle who served in Vietnam.
Jun 13th 2005
98
Is it of interest to you?
Jun 13th 2005
108
      without a doubt.
Jun 14th 2005
134
Father.
Jun 13th 2005
115
I went to Nam but got an honorable discharge
Jun 13th 2005
116
I once asked a veteran if he'd been to Vietnam and he said
Jun 13th 2005
123
yes and i never asked
Jun 13th 2005
118
my mother lived in Vietnam
Jun 13th 2005
124
was she born there?
Jun 13th 2005
125
      yeah, she was...
Jun 13th 2005
126
           ooooh how I envy you
Jun 13th 2005
128
daddy did
Jun 14th 2005
129
my father is a vietnam vet
Jun 14th 2005
130
Pops didn't see combat but was in Thailand...
Jun 14th 2005
131

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