I had a white coworker who is a full MAGA/blue lives matter type who tried to talk to me about that, assuming I would be sympathetic. It didn't go the way he thought it would and that was that. Same dude was friendly with any black/Latino/Asian (east or south) in the office. But I'll bet any amount of money he's never tried to talk to them about why cops should be able to kill everyone or why eating soy turns you gay or whatever. And they know he never would.

So if you're almost certainly not going to get that verbal confirmation, what's left but your own intuition?