How am I a terrible atheist?

Please explain.

Is it because I held him accountable to his dishonest pretense?

Is it because I let him know he was showing himself to be a poor representative of his ministry?

Or because I encouraged him to continue with that ministry if that was what he thought he needed to stay clean?

Or was it when I didn't impose my lack of belief onto him, choosing instead to take a cliffs note approach to why I'm no longer a believer?

Was it when I encouraged him with the notion that he may well have the strength and capability of making the choices he needs to stay clean?

I'm just wondering what you find so terrible about those things.