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Topic subject** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **
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13320889, ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **
Posted by Geah, Wed Mar-20-19 06:09 AM
Zzz
13320922, respect. my. fucking. time.
Posted by double negative, Wed Mar-20-19 09:22 AM
my wife is driving me crazy.

Lately...shes been driving me crazy with these fucked up last minute "oh I FORGOT I committed to this thing"

It's been a month since I've had a haircut because I keep missing appointments because she keeps forgetting to remember her prior commitments and tells me last minute and so my shit is fucked up. Further, my barber only cuts on three days of the week - Wednesday, Friday and Saturday.

This weekend I got us tickets to a movie we have been wanting to see on Saturday.

Then she tells me that she forgot she has to go to a networking event on Saturday evening and suggests Friday which "oh by the way, we've been invited to a networking dinner.." which means, nope, no haircut for me that day, and I have an important meeting to go to after work.

I'm like...."OK, I'm not happy about this but I can roll with it, we will exchange tickets for a Sunday show"

Then she tells me this morning "Oh snap, I forgot that I (and in turn WE) was planning on driving to Philly on Sunday"

This was after we sat down and she looked at me exchange the tickets for the Sunday show and then we had a talk, where I said "Ok, I am getting a haircut on Saturday during the day"

But now to make up for the oopsie she picked up tickets for the play Saturday during the day time.

Which means...no fucking haircuts at all and I gotta drive us to Philly last fucking minute which means the next week is going to be FUCT up because I do shopping, cooking and prep for the week on Sunday or Saturday because if none of that shit happens on the weekend it just wont happen during the week.


I HATE CHAOS.





13320982, i'm tired just reading alladat. Y'all got kids?? No WAY y'all got kids...
Posted by FLUIDJ, Wed Mar-20-19 11:18 AM

"Get ready....for your blessing....."
13321011, Kids is why this sistuation has me fucked up
Posted by double negative, Wed Mar-20-19 12:40 PM
Without kids I would be more willing to roll with shit, but we have a toddler and a second one on the way. I've found parenting to be easy as long as I have time to prepare clothes, meals and whatever else for the week...when shit falls apart like it is right now then I know the week will be a fucked up jag - everybody walking around with dry ass hair, wrinkled pants, crusty faces and no sleep.
13321014, damn...wifey doing 4much....some folks are just built like that I guess.
Posted by FLUIDJ, Wed Mar-20-19 12:52 PM
My brother's ex was like that...she always had to have SOMETHING going on...

My wife started a girl scout troop this past fall...shiiiiiit....by February we BOTH looked at each other like "Naw...this busy body shit ain't for our family" lol...

Around here the logistics of doing anything not within a 5 mile radius of the house just don't even add up.

Dance lessons for our oldest are up in DC and it's ROUGH making that happen every Saturday.

I CHERISH my weekends...that's the only time to do all the shit that NEEDS to be done... Groceries, Laundry, Cleaning, Planning for the week, bills, paying attention to the kids lol...

>Without kids I would be more willing to roll with shit, but
>we have a toddler and a second one on the way. I've found
>parenting to be easy as long as I have time to prepare
>clothes, meals and whatever else for the week...when shit
>falls apart like it is right now then I know the week will be
>a fucked up jag - everybody walking around with dry ass hair,
>wrinkled pants, crusty faces and no sleep.


"Get ready....for your blessing....."
13321025, This is why I married her and I'm the same way though...
Posted by double negative, Wed Mar-20-19 01:02 PM
If shes NOT doing something then she starts to fall apart and truth be told, I'm glad shes moving about again.

BUT, the thing that makes me mad is that this breaks protocol. We both have busy lives, doing stuff like this, the last minute big changes without communicating AHEAD of time is the stuff that makes me want to break a broom over my knee because in the end, somethings gotta give like me getting a haircut.




>My brother's ex was like that...she always had to have
>SOMETHING going on...
>
>My wife started a girl scout troop this past
>fall...shiiiiiit....by February we BOTH looked at each other
>like "Naw...this busy body shit ain't for our family" lol...
>
>Around here the logistics of doing anything not within a 5
>mile radius of the house just don't even add up.
>
>Dance lessons for our oldest are up in DC and it's ROUGH
>making that happen every Saturday.
>
>I CHERISH my weekends...that's the only time to do all the
>shit that NEEDS to be done... Groceries, Laundry, Cleaning,
>Planning for the week, bills, paying attention to the kids
>lol...
>
>>Without kids I would be more willing to roll with shit, but
>>we have a toddler and a second one on the way. I've found
>>parenting to be easy as long as I have time to prepare
>>clothes, meals and whatever else for the week...when shit
>>falls apart like it is right now then I know the week will
>be
>>a fucked up jag - everybody walking around with dry ass
>hair,
>>wrinkled pants, crusty faces and no sleep.
>
>
>"Get ready....for your blessing....."
13321036, Learning to cut my own hair in 2002 was a game changer for me
Posted by FLUIDJ, Wed Mar-20-19 01:23 PM
never looked back...


"Get ready....for your blessing....."
13321142, me and the mrs enter our appointments on google calendar
Posted by thegodcam, Wed Mar-20-19 05:57 PM
we send each other invites so we r both always aware what our schedules look like.... it's pretty efficient i found... i was planning a get together with some of my friends, i checked my calendar and was able to already tell them when is good to meet up without having to check with her
13321280, heres the thing...we live and die by the calendar
Posted by double negative, Thu Mar-21-19 09:49 AM
We're just like you, but lately shes not been on the ball.

Might be pregnancy brain, might be...I dunno, but this shit aint ok.
13320924, Hvac neighbor got me heated
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Mar-20-19 09:26 AM
I’ve been trying to get my daughters room warmer and he found a rusted pipe and replaced it but the room was still cold.

This dude tells me 2 months later... “ I forgot to tell you her room doesn’t have insulation under the floor in the crawl space.

How you forget that info?

So now I have to go and do that shit myself because I feel like he is trying to stretch me. I hate crawl spaces too.

13320983, radiators?
Posted by FLUIDJ, Wed Mar-20-19 11:19 AM

"Get ready....for your blessing....."
13320986, Nah, central air and heat.
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Mar-20-19 11:22 AM
it’s under the house.
13320985, House next to mine is gonna be up for sale soon
Posted by flipnile, Wed Mar-20-19 11:20 AM
I live in a twin. Gonna be interesting (and noisy). Maybe I can come into a bunch of money real quick and buy it.
13320988, The Opendoor house down the street just sold
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Mar-20-19 11:24 AM
I’m curious to see what they got for it.

They converted the garage into a bonus room.

We are thinking about doing the same reno but I like having my car in a garage.
13320989, I too live in a twin and I just went through that..
Posted by jimi, Wed Mar-20-19 11:29 AM
they gutted it out and did their thing with it.. it was sold before it even hit the market..

I was thinking the same exact thing when they started gutting it out ..

The noise was getting out of hand towards the end.. I guess they had some last minute stuff to do before turning over the key? .. anyway I didn't appreciate the late night drill sounds..

Philly is changing man
13320996, I had another dream (nightmare) about my house last night
Posted by sectachrome86, Wed Mar-20-19 11:55 AM
This is the second time that I've dreamt about suddenly uncovering some apocalyptic damage in my house. This time it was like some big rotten hole under the kitchen cabinets and mice were scurrying out of it. My dog ate one.

In real life the trim has a little bit of discoloration in that spot from water and is slightly loose.

Just saying, this didn't happen when I rented.
13321017, wait till you see your first silverfish or ant....your heads gonna explode fam.
Posted by FLUIDJ, Wed Mar-20-19 12:53 PM

"Get ready....for your blessing....."
13321022, I dreamt my house fell apart
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Mar-20-19 12:58 PM
I have a piece of roof that needs replaced

Somehow that brought the whole house down during a windy rain night.

I calculated my losses with every wall and woke up in a cold sweat.
13321289, Been in my house for 2.5 years and still dream about my old apt.
Posted by flipnile, Thu Mar-21-19 10:06 AM
Well, not about it, but quite a few dreams are set there, while I can't recall any set in my house.
13321124, She’s starting to whine all day
Posted by MEAT, Wed Mar-20-19 04:37 PM
Grandma fusses back and gives her stuff
Mom tries to talk and soothe with voice
I ignore and wait out

It’s all very annoying.
13321144, My wife is long winded. I hate that shit
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Mar-20-19 06:00 PM
Just told me my car windshield is cracked due to a truck kicking up rocks.

I asked the size of the crack and she was goin on and on and finally I snapped

Give me a size. A number. A guesstimate

I’ll ask her what time the show starts and she will tell me how many pieces are in it, how it’s not a long show, blah blah blah

Give me the time. THE TIME!!!

13321293, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qhv-c2dd7aw
Posted by flipnile, Thu Mar-21-19 10:26 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qhv-c2dd7aw

also: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUs-x4UeMS4
13321145, Im seeing someone...
Posted by Trinity444, Wed Mar-20-19 06:03 PM
hence being MIA :-)
13321393, HEEEEY!!!!!!!! Nice!
Posted by tully_blanchard, Thu Mar-21-19 12:56 PM


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13321181, ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **
Posted by Latina212, Wed Mar-20-19 09:14 PM
yes, i think about him every now and then
but i'm not texting that to a married man
i'm sure he was unhappy with my response
but i don't care

i haven't really spoken to my sisters in a few months
and i have distanced myself from a friend
due to certain things that have happened
and now i feel really lonely
i don't know if i should put up with bad behavior
to have them in my life
or just deal with the loneliness