During my dating years, on two separate occasions, that question led to some major drama. First time, my numbers were higher than hers and she could never wrap her mind around it, eventually causing her to start clowning. Second time, her numbers were radically higher than mine, causing me to inflate my numbers (immature move, I know), and feel some kind of way. That led to me making some out of pocket remarks, and getting kicked to the curb.

By the time I met my wife, I was straight "Don't ask, don't tell." That has served me well to this day.