Definitely a blessing. First 3 years are intense, but after that it's a breeze (well, almost). The benefit of having a child who always has a playmate is awesome.

One of my boys was sick last night and his brother kept coming to us and saying what I am going to do now. I am bored. And we were like, is this what raising singletons like?


**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"