one of my groomsmen and I are polar opposites, we're going on 40 and he's not interested in growing up. I hung with him while he was in town in October because it happened to coincide with a weekend where my wife wasn't here. he's called me a bad friend for not wanting to hang, but hanging always turns into shit I don't want to be around

someone else expressed doubt about me moving to LA (June will be 7 years), then he showed total disregard when I tried to reconcile asking him to be in the wedding, we havent spoken much in 5 years