and she says we need to go to couples therapy and work on this.

I am of the mind that you can't make nobody stay. Let him go and he might decide on his own that he made a mistake, but I can't see convincing a person to put in the work if they don't want to put in the work.

I say you should believe a person when they tell you what they want.


Is there another way to look at this?

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"