>My theory is that Social Media got everyone envying someone
>elses live/relationship and making us all feel worst. My
>other theory is that no one really THAT happy and everyone is
>faking it to some level. I don't know.

on top of us both being private, we're more occupied with trying to be happy than documenting it

for anyone who thinks a wedding day solves everything, you're in for a rude awakening unless you're already perfect for each other and things stay that way. never envy anyone else's situation if you haven't been there

it's a real test of emotional strength and vulnerability, make sure the person you're in it with is worth going through those ups and downs

my wife's cousin is maybe 7-8 years younger than me and he didn't have a ton of good examples growing up, he's about to propose and he really looks up to us. without him even realizing it, that puts pressure on us while we're trying to figure it all out