13306604, late 30's early 40's kind of hits you. You don't have that much time left
Posted by GOMEZ, Mon Jan-14-19 03:22 PM
so you kind look at your life like, how do i want to spend the rest of the time i have on this earth? Am i happy? etc.
A lot of people look at marriage the same way that they look at divorce - like a quick fix. But then they have no idea what they want out of their life. You gotta know what you want (like really want, I'm not talking about chasing strange), and then decide if you can build that w/your better half.
Kids are an extra wrinkle. Like legs said, i can't imagine not living w/my lil' ace. I'll do everything I can to work things through, cuz of him.
If i had to give any 'advice' I'd tell them to figure out what the fuck they really want out of life, and be as realistic as possible about what both options hold.
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