fortunately I got both. I wanted the girl first and it happened that way.

normally when folk say that don't want a girl, its for negative reasons. they don't wanna deal with 'girl' things like proms, dealing with boyfriends, periods, talking with them about sex. all things that I welcome since I'm trying to raise independent thinkers that contribute to society.

with that said, I may take it too seriously when I hear it. maybe folks say it in jest. but it just kinda bothers me. at the end of it, I'm sure we're all happy getting what we got.