would it make sense to get an apt in Atl (?) and take that gig? i know carolinas to atlanta is a manageable drive but being right there might be worth the 10k difference. depends on difference of cost in apts though.

looking at the other side, maybe moving gives you a fresh perspective and the 10k allows you to see the kid in a more controlled and enjoyable manner. having that real space might do you some good.

good luck!