I expect her to be late. I also expect to be disappointed if I attend a show. so definitely not the same expectations as when I saw her at the fugees, good mob, and roots shows years ago.

there's an off chance I could see her in October. I'd rather not go, but my wife wants to. If we weren't getting in free, I'd veto going. even free, it might be a waste of time.

you can be inspired by her, but that gives her no right to disrespect you, especially if you're a ride or die type for her.