https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mBtW1OqWUjo

Shit don't happen without work!

Edit:
It's gonna be work every damned day. And the person you are today may not be the person you are in two, three, five, or 50 years.

Just get with someone who respects the process of your individual growth while you do the same.

Sorry dude and his wife are splitting. They will never know the fruits of the hard work they can put in for each other. Someone else may reap those benefits.