i don't know how old your girls are, but if they are being raised in America and consume media, then they will likely have some idea around that they will go on a first date w/a boy at some point.

because the average boy is socialized to see a girls body/virginity/sex as something to "get" at some point, the seduction is always on. always.

and because most girls are socialized to be shameful about sexuality, her whole demeanor is demure...coy...then it becomes this game..this dance. the boy is exciting to her and she is susceptible to his seduction. the story her body is telling her is it needs sex to calm this heightened state of excitement.

But lets say you've been talking gradually to her, from toddlerhood, about consent and self-pleasure...and lets say she is so mature, that at 15, she decides to give herself a few orgasms, alone in her room, before that first date.

Is she more or less likely to feel the need to have sex with that boy right away?

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