i've noticed a lot of what flies at my job (and life in general) on a social tip depends on WHO does it.

prime (but minor) example the other day, my office is in a good spot at work to where i can hear damn near everything in the office area and the open area. i hear this dude go into a chick's office and the door closes. maybe 5 secs later the door opens and the guy's like "well i dont see why the door has to be open when im in here. you and bkwhat always sit in here w/ the door closed all the time."

"well yeah but it's not the same."