without questioning. I just can't be disingenuous like that. I believe in examining a story on it's own merits...and analyzing the accuracy of various claims individually etc.

When someone says "those no-bathroom policies are rarely enforced on white ppl" I know for a verifiable lifelong fact that's undeniably false, and thus I say so. And so on. We can't buttress a good cause with falsehoods and sloppy claims.

The passive aggression comes from ppl who would rather try to attack the character of a person on the fence (regarding a specific incident) rather than actually examine the same questions and make more convincing points about the actual subject.