I'm just thankful to be in a place in my life where I have the confidence and strength to weather through whatever storm comes my way. I have plenty of things to look forward to in life. Simply being a positive force in my kids life is more than enough motivation to brighten my day and keep my spirits up.

I have and I'm sure will still have my moments, but I know I can lean on my support network. You guys have all helped too by sharing your words of wisdom and personal experiences.

>having gone through it as a kid, one thing I can say is the
>happier you are the better it probably will be for them.
>
>it's going to have it's steps forwards and back in terms of
>them dealing with it, probably for a lot longer than you may
>think. but if you need a reason to take time for yourself,
>know that you'll be able to help them better when you are
>together and present.