if you cant do shit else for yourself right now, trust me, the gym will help you feel better. set some goals and spend a little time working towards them. I was never the working out type dude until about 2 years ago. now, I need that shit routinely or I feel like shit.

i'm in a similar space, financially. two kids - one in daycare, other in private school. Paying 2 mortgages currently bc my tenant in my rental was evicted. SMH. our funds are tight like shit. since I can't treat myself to the new J's dropping tomorrow, or going out for drinks with the fellas, I rely on the gym to get my mind off that shit and to have some me time. it really helps.