>I trust that black people I dont know are making the mating
>decisions that work for them, it's really none of my business
>or concern


That's fine. That lack of concern doesn't erase mass media's cultural influence nor change the fact that Black men doing the same would not be received well, neither by many Black women nor white men. This makes your value judgment subjective, and this is only important because subjectivity is part of your own defense.


>also it should have been apparent I dont equate Omarosa to 2
>Dope Queens


That's not the question. The question is "What do you mean by 'getting ahead'?"