it was like one day a switch was flipped.

i was always that shy, chubby kid. then, around the time i turned 21, i just hopped up outta bed one day and turned my swag on. i think about it a lot only because i used to wish i had confidence and then one day, without explanation, i did.

i literally have no idea how it happened. the only thing i can put my finger on is that i gained some maturity and started to notice that you could have fat guy swag and got some perspective on women - that if could make them laugh and make them feel heard and all of that then you could get past the physical.