...i think there was/is a little social anxiety in the mix as well.

How i got over it was really just by improving myself...getting in shape..reading more...working more...stepping out my comfort zone more.....acknowledging my weaknesses etc.....basically becoming a better man...

I've found it makes me handle (inevitable) rejection better....I see myself as a catch so if she rejects..i *kanye shrug* and keep it moving.