I've never done the casual dating thing, and the three relationships I've been in were


A) assigned to work in a group project together at school
B) recommended to me by a regular at the bar I worked at at the time
C) someone I worked with who we quickly realized we vibed on just about everything


so I never really had to "approach" them; all my relationships were essentially forced on me by outside influences, I suppose I said yes to meeting the second one but she still met me at my work while I was working so it was really on her to keep my attention. The other two I had to communicate with and get to know in order to do my job and it just built off that.

I've never gone up to a stranger and just asked them their name or tried to catch a wave, and I likely never will. Just isn't me. I just use Tinder/other phone dating apps to find out if people I'm attracted to are attracted to me; never had a single conversation or met somebody off 'em despite several matches.



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