I don't think we are all supposed to find love all the time. Some people don't need to be in love. You can come back for that another time. This experience might be about something else for you. Maybe you are here to experience success on your own terms, or helping other people where you don't have time for that kind of love. I would just say dig in to who you are and what you really want. Don't worry about outside influences on what you SHOULD want.