>First, you said you were "rambling" and all over the place but
>I don't think so. Everything you wrote made sense and is
>relatable to anyone who's ever been in a longterm
>relationship, specifically marriage ... so I'm/we're with
>you.

Cool... Glad to hear actually. I was in a weird place writing that, trying to make sure I made sense,though internally it just felt like word vomit.

>Second, the end of your post, about the ups and downs of your
>moods on a daily basis, that's relatable as fuck, too. You
>aren't alone in any of this.
>
>Like everyone else said, there's no words to ease what you're
>going through so I'll save the preachy bullshit except to say
>- life is difficult as fuck, but as you said you seem to have
>a very measured approach to everything, this is no different.
>Not gonna be easy but considering how level-headed you appear
>to approach things I'm confident you'll be good.
>
>Wishing you the best bro.

Thanks man... much appreciated. One day, i promise we'll revisit that Kweli/Train Of Thought discussion lol